We all are working for reaching comfort zone. Is itn't? 

Yes. somebody want to have good house. somebody else want to buy car? the list will go on.....apart from the basic needs of food, shelter and cloth. 

Other words, those are not in comfort zone working towards to reach comfort zone. 

The biggest challenge is once we reach a comfort zone staying there for ever. we should always come out of the comfort zone and trying to conquer next level. Then we will be always in a improving journey...

What is your thought ?

When I was coming alone from college, suddenly a car stopped in front of me. A beautiful lady came out of the car. I had not seen a lady like her any time. She was so beautiful. I am sure everyman will stop a moment if see her infront of his eyes. I cant explain her in my words. My English is very poor than her beauty. 

She asked me to get inside her car. I just followed her with out telling any words. I was inside car, no no, i was inside a dream world. The smell inside the car took me to some other world. I was indirectly looking her wealth as all boys do. I was not able to remove my eyes from her. 

Suddenly car stopped in front of a big house. I followed her inside the house. She asked me to sit in a comfortable chair. I did as she told. 

She went inside. I was in a different mood and my mind went wild. I never felt like that feeling in my life. 

She came back with different dress, She was wearing a red nighty. It made me to increase my temperature further up. I started writting a story with me and her in my mind. Ya we two alone. 

This time she asked me to remove my shirt and again went inside. On my God! what I was doing. I was doing whatever she was telling. 

I removed my shirt and waiting for her next instruction. I was waiting for her comment to remove my remaining dress do. I was thinking what will be her bed color........like many.

This time she came with a small boy. I was not able to digest that.

Then she told to the boy " My son, if you are not eating the food properly, you become like this uncle. 

That day I realized the weakness of my body

What you are at this moment is out come of what you are thinking at this moment. 

Our mind is the one thing making you  happy or sad. It is irrespective of material things around you. 

For example, you entered inside a hall and sat in a chair and closed your eyes. You sat thier for a one hour. In between, a lot of people or animals came thier and gone and some still continue there. 

You were not aware of any of these. You were not sensed any thing from them, not even a single bit of sound. 

  Your mind was not aware of the animals those came to that hall. So you did not feel any fear during that time. Actually, a wild lion and a tiger passed in front of you, but you didn’t get any fear at all. In actual scenario you would have been ran from the scene.

If you are able to control your thoughts, definitely you can control your feelings. Suppose you get a bad thought or feeling. How to come back to pleasant one. I have a solution for you.

In that situation, just think about the people those helped you anytime in your life. Start  with your mother. Due to your mother, you are alive today in this world. Say thanks for her help. Then go to your father, Say thanks to him too. With out him, you will not reach this world. Some cases, he did something against your wish. But don’t think the bad thing. Think only the good thing and Say thanks.

Do these exercise with your teachers, friends etc. Say their name and Say thanks. Even say thanks to Scientists,  political leaders, innovators  etc. Because what we are having today is due to many peoples work, Say their name and thanks to them.

I am sure after saying at least 10 thanks like these, your mind will radiate a positive thoughts and you start feeling positive. Do the same thing for at least 21 days. You are going to live a positive life.. I am sure

Please try and share your feelings.

Denny is his name. He is a person with full of unknown things. I met him first time inside shipyard after few days of  joining. He was God for many of the trainees like us. As a trainee in Shipyard, we got very less amount of money. That is not sufficient for food and accommodation. Many of us came from poor family. I knew few guys, they will not go home until they finish the training due to lack of money.

 Why Dennichan(with respect) is God for of us? Because he provided part time job for many of our friends. 

He is having shops, apartments & business etc. He is a rich man. Even though he used to visit our poor hut regularly. Whenever he visited us, he bought hot drinks, food and snacks. His visiting days were a celebration days for us. 

He will sing, dance and tell many interesting stories. Many are his teenager stories. Few stories are about his encounter with present heroine of film industry. We didn't  know it was true or not. 

One day  he told an interesting story. It was not story. It was his life.

He is born in a poor carpenter Hindu family. His actual name is Radhakrishnan and his friends called him as Denny. Denny is a Christian name.  As usual he learned carpentry from his father. Later he completed ITI carpentry and got the skill certificate. 

Then he joined Shipyard as a apprenticeship trainee like us. On his last day of training, He met Thomas, head of department.  Thomas thought Denny is a Christian and offered help to start the business. From there, his life changed. It was a turning point for Denny. What is yours?

Immediately after completing my study, I joined a Shipyard in Kerala India as a apprentice trainee. As usual the trainees are paid very less. Not enough to feed and pay rent.

Most of my friends their joined some part time job. Some friends went to hotels as cook, cleaner etc. Some other went as helper in construction site, carpenter shop etc. Our main money earning work started after usual training hours. We got more payment from part time work than shipyard.

I had teaching experience during my graduation. I trained students in high school part time during my study.

Immediately joining shipyard, I shared my teaching experience with few employees in shipyard. After 2-3 days, one of the employee come to me asked " One of my friend is looking for science tuition teacher, she is studying higher secondary"     I was very happy that day. I was not knowing anything about tuition fees in Cochin.  

When I was teaching in my native during my studies. I got Rs.300 per month. I was sure Rs 300 per month was not sufficient for me to survive in Cochin. 

I went to one my friend Jamal. He is from Cochin, He was coming to home daily. A lucky man because he was having a two wheeler and having food from home. 

Jamal told " I used to pay Rs 150 per hour to my teachers as a tuition fees during my college days". I felt it was very high because I got Rs 300 per month for at-least 60 hours. That means Rs 5 per hour to RS.150 per hour. 

Very next day, I went with the employee who informed about the tuition class. We reached in front of big house. I saw a board " Advocate Abdul Shakeer, Govt notary. Yes I was going to teach science for his daughter Aysha.

We went inside. Advocate Abdul Shakeer  and entire family was there. They started taking interview.They started asking me about my family and other details. 

Finally I passed the interview. Finally they asked one last question. What is your fee? I was thinking How I can ask Rs150 per hour. I didn't think too much. I closed my eyes and asked Rs 100 per day. A day means it will be 2 hrs class. That means, the fee is Rs 50 per hour. 

They agreed and asked me to come class from next day.

I was happy. I announced everybody. I can't keep anything with me. I told my friends and roommates.

One of my room mate, Santhosh, He is very senior to me.  He is carpenter in Shipyard. I was sharing room with them. He offered me his cycle to go for tuition classes. 

As soon as reached there. I saw Aysha, she was waiting for me at her father Advocate consultant room. 

She is a small beautiful girl but I read fear in her face.

Initially, she was not telling anything to me. I started saying some interesting incidents i had experienced in my college days. 

She started responding to me. 

Later I realized that she used to get fever one day before Mathematics exam.

I understood one thing. She is fearing mathematics and failing every mathematics exam.

Next day I big job was to remove mathematics fear from her mind.

I asked one question to her, If you are dying today, Will you die with happy or sorrow?

She responded " Die with happy". 

I told think like this " Anyway you are going to fail in mathematics exam, Why don't you go and write the exam happily?". 

This question made her to think differently. Here onwords, she never failed any mathematics exam

Thanks for reading. Please give your valuable feedback, I am trying to collect my all memories during my stay in Cochin 9 months and making a book. 

If somebody ask you "Who are you?"

What answer you will give. You may started telling. My name is XYZ, I am working or Studying in ABC college or company etc

These all are right. But you ask yourself, What am I?

Then you should give an answer that is away from your material achievements like your name, education etc. right?

Please tell me now, Who are you?

I know what you are thinking now? How English club is discussing about fever!

It is not a physical fever we are experiencing. It is a mental fever!

What is a mental fever?

It is a kind of feeling in our mind. If you have mental fever it will have a feeling that your are tired. It will be just a feeling or may be initiated by some incident. Immediately your mind will tell you are tired and you start feeling it. If you are feeling like this, your body will listen to the same and start acting on it. Finally you we will get fever. 

Whenever you get a feeling fever or mental fever, Please change your mod while doing the your favorite activity. Go out, Play, have food or watch movie. 

One thing remember, until your mind accept you have fever, you never going to have fever. 

I hope i conveyed the message to all with good understanding

Most of us knew how to drive a car. Driving skills are not at all required for enjoy this driving blog!

If you are driving a car in a city, you will be in a line where 100's of car in front of you and behind of you. You can't see long view from your driving seat. But you can see next car in front of you. That also the back side of the car. You never see the destination from your seat. Not even 100 meters. 

It is a difficult thing to drive in a traffic while looking the car in front of you. You can't drive in good speed. but you need good concentration and patience. 

It is applicable to life too. The small small problems or difficulties you are facing daily is like the traffic block. If you are able to see the destination from your seat, the small traffic block  is not going to make any disturbance for you.

Always have a picture of your destination in mind.

Enjoy driving ... Enjoy your life

I was wondering why everything happening around me was failing? Then I recollected when it started. Yes it started exactly on 23 May 17. Till that day morning everything was fine. That fine day morning, My office computer crashed. Was it created by me? or was it due to my actions? 

No. But it is a negative thing. It endeared my mind and started grow day by day. I got so many associated negative thoughts with out my intention. Not even a single attempt to filter these negative thoughts at all. 

It grew like anything finally I became a lazy man with in 20 days. 

How i over come?

I started reading a positive books, the moment i opened it, I started seeing positive things around become a happy person. 

Yes over mind like a bucket with water with water flowing from one side and leaving from another side. Every thoughts are ball falling in it. No ball will still stay longer there. it will flow with leaving water. 

Every positive thought is a green ball and negative thought is red ball. Every time we think something a green ball will fall on water negative thoughts a red ball. 

One thing is clear no ball is stay forever there. it will flow along with water. 

We should always should have positive thoughts in mind. It is easy to say but difficult to implement it. By asking questions to every your actions, we can keep positive thoughts in mind. suppose you are watching your favorite game. Ask your self, is this game going to help to achieve my goals? If yes continue the action other wise stop have a another good thoughts.......

How brand is important for us?

This is a real story. This is a real incident in my life. I was doing sales person part time job when i was in 10th std. I was selling candles from my uncle's factory. I used to help in the factory too. 

We had different brands for selling the candle. We used to give a brand in one area. For example, we gave  a brand called 'Kaveri' in Karnataka state. Kaveri is a river in Karnataka. We gave another brand in Kerala  called "Ammu". My duty to distribute Ammu brand in nearby my villages. 

One day, our candle box cover of Ammu was over. Same time we got a big order to supply candles. That was a festival season where people light the candles in the evening. 

we decided to pack candles in Kaveri brand. We packed and distributed the area where Ammu brand used. 

One week went well. Next week I went to collect the money of the candles distributed last week. Most of the shop owners returned the Kaveri packs sold last week. They complained about the quality of the candles. They were telling that the light of candles were less.  

As a manufacturer, I knew we used same quality product for both cases, the difference was only packing. 

That day I learned the value of brand  is important than the quality of the brand. 

We are celebrities
We will we will not open
We will we will not open
our mouth

I am a politician
We want we want your support
we want we want your support
for our growth

I am a actor
We want we want your time
we want we want your time
for watching movie

I am a player
We want we want your money
We want we want your money
to buy ticket

I am a docter

We want we want your health

We want we want yout health

to earn some money

We are the people, We are the supports, We are loosing time...we are those pay tickets....

We are dying
We are crying
We are migrating
We are struggling....

Celebrities
We will we will not open
We will we will not open
our mouth

Everybody will have some villains and heroes in our life. Villains will make your life  horrible and heroes will save your life from villains.

Other words, Villians will bring uncomfortable and heroes will bring comfortable. If you are in comfotable positions,you are going to be lazy man or woman. You will not be living in full throttle. If you are in uncomfortable position, you will fight and gain ability to conquer greater heights. So say Thanks to villains than heroes 

What do you think?

It is based a true story of a wild elephant known as Bharathan SI. 

Before going to tell about me, I will tell who is Bharathan SI

Bharathan SI in Movie

He is a well known comedy role in a movie "Aram Thamburan". It is a famous malayalam Movie. In that movie, actor Innocent did a police Sub Inspector(SI) role.

Now I will talk about me. I am an elephant like any other elephant in the wild forest of Kerala, India. 

This is my real photo- Your Bharathan SI -An elephant, when forest offiers captured me

I like company of humans. When ever I saw a human, I will salute him. It is like a police man salute his superior. The only difference between me and a police is police use hand i will use trunk. After seeing mu salute, people started calling as Bharathan SI. I have not gone to any  school or college  like you but I became a police officer. So I also started enjoying when ever people call me Bharathan SI. 

I have many stories to tell from my birth. If you would like hear more me, please like this blog. I will send my stories directly to your mail.

Your 

Bharathan SI

Hi all, 

I know I am lazy man and lack in self control. To be a smart hard working person, i decided to run 10K marathon on 09 July 17. I am not having any experience in long running. 

Today, I started running. Actually running cum walking. I ran around 1.8km and walked 2.2 km. Here I need your encouragement, coaching and help for achieving the goal. I will update daily about my preparation. 

Please help me with valuable suggestions 

Two friends, Ramu & Raju lived in a village. They were born in a poor family. They together worked hard and made a lot of money. They were inspiration for others to work hard. They became richest people in the village.

They were lived in a small hut. After made a lot of money also, they continued to stay that small hut. They started searching girls for marriage one they reached marriage age. All rich parents wanted Raju or Ramu become their bridge groom for their daughters.

As per the wish from rich people, Ramu and Raju got married girls from rich families. 

That day was important day for them. All problems started from that day. 

First day after marriage, wives of Ramu and Raju started complaining about the hut they lived together. Finally both agrees to construct big houses for them each side of the hut. Also they decided to rent small hut. Sudhakar known as Sudha became neighbor of Raju and Ramu families in small hut.

Gradually, Rame and Raju started moving away. Also they started competing  each other. For example, If Raju buy a Ford car today, Ramu will buy BMW next day. And very next day you can see Rolls-royce in Raju's house. 

Sudha was watching all these things while staying in between their house. 

One day, Sudha decided to use them his benefit.

He went to Raju's house and asked some money.

Sudha told, " Please give 100Rs today i will return very next day, I have some emergency'.

Initially Raju told " I dont have any money with me"

Sudha: "No problems I will go to Ramu, I will give money. I thought to check with you before going Ramu"

Raju gave money 100Rs immediately.

second day, Sudha went to Ramu's house and asked 200Rs. As like in Raju's house, finally he got 200Rs. 

Third day,

Sudha went to Raju's house and gave back 100Rs and balance 100Rs with him. Actually he gave 100Rs out of 200Rs got from Ramu. 

Forth day, 

Sudha went to Raju again borrowed 300Rs. Raju gave money because he returned what ever he bought first day. 

Fifth day, 

Sudha went to Ramu house and returned 200Rs from 300 brought from Raju keeping 100Rs in pocket. 

Sudha got 200rs in five days

Gradually Sudha increased amount and started keeping more money with him. 

I need not to tell what would have happend in the end?

Sudha became rich and other became poor...... 

Can you conclude the  moral of the story?

One day a primary class student asked teacher. "Why people are marrying?" Teacher got shocked but recovered immediately.

He can give a lot of answers but how can convince a primary student.

He decided to give a story.

One day many ants were coming from far. Suddenly all got good smell. The caption of the ant found it is coming from near tree.

He told " All wait here I will go and look it and call you guys"

He went and all others were waiting for captions return.

Caption went up the tree and found sweet jack-fruit. He went near the fruit and started having it. 

But his lugs got stick with the cum from jack fruit. Nobody in the team knew about this.

They all were waited long but the caption didn't come back.  

The vice caption of the ant team told. " I will go and look for the caption, You guys wait here"

Same thing happened to vice caption too. 

After waiting a long, another guy went... and same-thing happened. Marriage also like this. Those are went previously will not say anything but still new people are going towards same jack fruit. 

Please feel free to share your opinion. Happy reading.....

We have only two eyes to see,

whatever we want to see

I can see you fully,

but I can't see me fully with my own eyes

I can see your eyes,

but I can't see my own eyes

I am seeing the world,

whatever way I want to see

You are seeing the world, 

whatever way you  want to see

If everybody is seeing everything in same way,

the harmony will flow everywhere in the world

One day a little mosquito went for his first flight. After coming back safely, parents and friends asked. 

"How was the flight?"

He replied " It was good, While flying, all human beings were encourgaing me to fly more by clapping".

This is known as correct attitude. I think I said enough about attitude. 

Thanks for reading.....

Hi All, 

We are all leaving in a digital world. Whatever may be the advance in technology, the human thinking pattern remains same for centuries. Yes education made a lot of difference in thinking pattern. 

Even today, most of our lives are controlled by our own past. It will not help either present or future but it will diminish your present as well as future. Past is a experience, We need to take that experience positively to make our future better. 

You should change all your past into positive thinking like below

Past  to Positive thinking

I came from poor family - I will make my family rich and bring many poor to rich

I didnt get good education,- I will study in number one university and make others to study

I failed in my previous job,- I will success all my future tasks, I will provide job to others 

I lost relationship etc. - I didnt lose anything, I will make friendship with rest of the world. 

Please reply, if you need to convert any past to a winnging future

If you think like these and make action plan accordingly, you will reach wherever you want. Our life is start with Born(B) and end with Death(D). The only letter in between B and D is C, Choice in English. You choose where ever you want to go

Do and fail is far better than do nothing. 

All the best

It is based on a real incident.

In a Village, two friends lived. One named Raju, he is a carpenter another named Ramu, he is a car driver.  Raju and Ramu were friends for many years. They were happily lived in the village. 

Ramu, the driver, used to come home daily for lunch at afternoon. He drove car always in front of Raju's carpenter shop. The moment Raju sees Ramu's car, Raju will stand middle of the road. Ramu drive car very fast and apply sudden break. Same time Raju will jump from the middle of the road and reach end of the road. Then they will chit chat and go together for lunch.

This happened daily for many years. 

It was safe too. If Ramu's car loose break also no issues, because Raju is jumping from the road. 

One day Ramu thought why should I apply sudden break? anyway Raju is jumping away from the road. 

Same day, Raju thought why should I jumb? Anyway Ramu is applying break. 

That fine day, Ramu didn't apply break and Raju didn't jump from the road. Ramu killed Raju by hitting his car. 

What a sad story!. 

Every one of us would have been gone thru like this incidents in our life. But no tragedy like this. 

Some time we expect our friend will bring food for us and can see even he has not brought food for himself. Because he also thought the same. Finally end up lunch at restaurant. 

First case and second case the thought process or pattern is same. One end up in tragedy other end in restaurant food.

The moral of the story is what ever may be a small or a big, communicate to your partner or friend clearly instead of expecting something.