"No, you do not love 'ME'

“Honey I love you so much!” “No. you do not love “ME”, in fact it’s a sort of loving the ‘love’ itself not loving me!”

Long time ago I came across with this dialogue between two lovers. I could not digest this philosophy. I invite all of you to extend your opinion:

1) Do you understand what the girl meant?
2) Give your opinion elaborately how far is it possible that someone loves the ‘love’ itself and not the ‘beloved’.
3) Mention frankly if you do not understand it at all.

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  • Thanks Sunshine for your comments.  See my detail remark in Haya's comment.

  • No Haya, you are not wrong.  The way she feels is natural.  Most of the time a beloved when she is strong in her love become too POSSESSIVE.  It frustrates her when she finds the grip on her lover loosened.

    Thanks for your kind attention.

  • I would understand that she got a feeling that her boyfriend is playing too much.
  • Onee

    May be SHE does not have confidence in HER OWN LOVE.

    • Mm..., you maybe RIGHT. :)

  • 1) SHE thought that HIS LOVE is DECREASING, by experiencing HIS decreased attention.

    2) Ahh, it's POSSIBLE ONLY IF the GIRL just LOVE herself more than the beloved.

    3) That's my understanding.

  • Thanks Honey!

    Self loving is also loving a beloved, because they want it this way. When we love ourselves this self loving creates energy making the personality attractive which appeal the beloved more and more......................So when I love beloved I love myself and vise verse.

    Thanks again for your participation.

  • In most cases people love themselves in the love they have towards another person :)

  • Thanks saba for participating in the discussions!

    In case of man and wife the love increases even more when they get old.

  • Perhaps the man loves the girl for her beauty and if someday she loses her beauty( becomes old), then she will not be attractive to him.

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