Quote--- " A true friend is someone who knows all the stupidest things about you but still loves you as you are" -unknown-Name of my friend--- "imaginary friend turn (into) real"How we become friends---Hmm...Maybe, the same hobbies/goal will bring us together...It can be in the music bar as we bump each other looking in the same cd's...or fighting over the same dress in the shopping mall ...But I think it has only a very low probability, don't you think?..Hmm..what about a friend from net? It's not bad to have a friend that you can call the "real one", right? And of course, if we became friends, it would be because we believe in the same principle that a friendship, in order to last for a lifetime, should be built in loyalty, trust and honesty.Why we stay friends---We stay friends because we let our trust and honesty speak for us..Although we just communicating through internet, we will regard ourselves as best friends in real life and not just an acquaintance..We will talk everything and anything under the sun, including things under the moon!....Best qualities---The best qualities I admire...Again difficult to answer...Because you will never know what you really admire most until you really know all about him...But if ever I could choose qualities in a friend, I would choose a friend who is loyal, honest, cheerful, young at heart at the same time sensible, and thoughtful...and of course a good listener, too...Why is my friend is like a part of my family---Whew..difficult question as it not happening yet...But I will just lay my idea by citing another simple qoute but very meaningful one...the best moment in life is when you have a family who understand you as a friend and friends who support you as your family...In here, we can say friends and family are twins in this sense, aren't they?---S/he is like my family because this one will be like my sister/brother sharing girl's talk or boy's joke..because this one will be the one who will be called of my future children their " Uncle" or "Aunt".Friendship highlight---In bad times and good times, singing in the karaoke until like we are both mute.. (Can you guess why mute?)...Window shopping until our feet get a varicose veins..and lastly talking on net as if there are no tomorrows...The last time I saw my friend---The last time? Now as I imagine him/her in my mind...Thank you note...Dear My Imaginary friend,Though you are just " a thought form" only for now I know very well you will have a body and mind very soon...If I could just set a date as a movie has...I would say, I hope you are now showing or better yet coming in the theater very soon...I really, really need a friend like you...A friend whom I can share secrets...Someone whom I can talk with even silly things..Someone who will laugh at my lousy jokes..Someone whom I will love and take care of...Someone who will be there for me...and someone who will love me as me...I know you are there, somewhere...I know you can hear me.. Somehow I know, eventually we will become best friend in real life.. The truest and deepest one..And for that, I thank you for coming into my life...Hugs and kisses,mayumeeP.S.--my little gift for you~ Search and Download More Music Free
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Amazingly written, and beautiful song.
A friend in need is a friend in deed.
My heart was overwhelming with so much joy while I was reading your touching comments..(I read it 3 times and I'll never be tired to read it again and again)..I always adore how you write your thoughts because your writings are spontaneous, honest and truly coming from your heart..It moved me.. cause I feel whatever you write for me are coming from a true friend I know for a long time..It seems that I am seeing myself in you in some sense..Like now again as you said, I have to love myself..and try to befriend of myself..True, very true Zarah! What you said is one that I should learn..I am learning that now Zarah as I included that in my 10 traits I'd like to cultivate..Love myself and befriend of myself..I am in the process of exploring, knowing and accepting who I am.
As I am knowing myself, I can say that life is not unfair at all..Life gives us what we need..It gives us everything to enjoy, to explore, to learn from and to grow with..and as I thinking now of your "wise thoughts", I can now tie the missing gap of what is really important in our life..and that is the capability to know that in our present being..life is good..that life is perfect..and by accepting this very eternal truth I can say that now in my present being..my life is perfect and good..and I know as time goes by as I advance in life it will get better and more perfect...So I should not feel that there is still missing in my life cause I know everything will be alright..Everything will come in their own right place and in their own right time in my life..
Thank you very much Zarah..You know, whenever I write back to you, I can feel that I learn more of myself..Something in me is very awake whenever I reply to your very wonderful message to me like you did when you commented in my Top Ten list.. You are very wonderful person, Zarah and very wise one..
Thinking of you,
mayumee
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I was always looking for someone special in my life ...as you described ...to be there always for me ...and of course for whom I do care and I am always there ...To have a special friend to whom I am special too... In elementary school ,I always wanted to have one closest friend ...though I had many friends ,I always wanted to have one special ...but you know ,now I think my expectations for having such a fried are too high to have the tendency to be granted...A true friendship is the matter of having no expectations ,this is what I learned from one of my friends whom I described in my blog post...She always gives without expecting me to help her or to do her a favour ...Both Nafis and Maryam whom I described there....
If you love yourself ...If you are a true friend of yourself ...Then there won't be such a gap in your life to be always waiting for a true friend to be always there for you ...
I do feel what you say and how you feel...But the truth is that you should fill that gap with your own self ....try to be friends with yourself ...The friend whom you always loved to have ...."If you love yourself ,you will be loved" ...I guess I heard it from Nafis ...And always remember that God is always there for you ...any time ...talk to Him ...He is a good listener even though He knows all what you tell Him ...
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So nice a writing ...unique as your own self ....believe me ....
Keep it up ....You write so nicely ...As you write ,you nourish your thoughts and you get to know yourself better ...
Have a great time ...
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Yeah, I always having a conversation to myself that common phrase "please open up again" and "asking why can't you let them reach you and do the same way"...and I know eventually I will find him/her..it's just it should be in proper course of time as we know genuine friends are never built in just one time sitting, it's should be tested by the most important element..."time"
Thank you Suela..I'm happy to see you here..I'm so touched with your story..
Take care...
Go out of a shell. Fan also of APO Hiking? Yeah..I think because I don't get out much...Just hiding always in my comfort zone..Yeah why not..we can be friends, my kababayan!...
And thanks for the compliment, (I think now, no need to put blush on..It's already red! jejeje)
Salamat Kaibigan,
mayumee
you are intelligent, you are beautiful. go out of your shell.
I know you have a lot of on-line friends if you can have a constant relationship with people from other places why not be friends with people near you in yor community
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However I'm just curious. why is that you dont have a bestfriend?
Go out of your shell marumee.
I can be your friend since we live in the same country
How are you my wealthy friend..Yes, I agree with you...Friendship is not only means company when you are on happy moment, but the most important are those friends who will never ever leave your sides until they are sure the sky is clear for you...And of course you would do the same thing for them, too!
Thanks for passing by here...And you made me recall..When is our shopping in Italy?jejeje...
Take care always,
mayumee
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