What is true love?

Hi, folks!What do you think true love is between men and women? and do you think it exists in the world?Seems this question is hard to answer, but just say what you think.True love, of course, it is existed in the world like between children and parents or friends and friends etc, but I want to know between men and women if it exists in your place, you think?I'm from China. I think it is a conservative country comparing with western countries, so how much our people is the same as our country.Most people in China I was hearing don't think true love exists between men and women, even though some fall in love deeply with someone at first, some of them broke up at last because of some problems or cheating on each other, and the other part might get married and then have a happy life. They said they are not feeling "love" any more after getting married. Many people either men or women always like the new things and seeking more exciting things, so they have a "lover" other than their wives. That's why the rate of divorce is getting higher. About divorce issues, there are many problems happened, what i said is just a part of them.As I know, Seems most families are not happy because they are always not satisfied with themselves, want more. Only the minority of people realize that what life is about and they know how to be grateful and how to make their life happy.To get happiness forever is impossible, we are not perfect, but let us feel happy in our life is not a tough thing. It just depends on our attitude of life and how to think our life. There is an old saying " every family is a special book".Many people said that love is changing to be family love after getting married a few years later. Yes, that's right, actually it is still true love. For wemon, it's just so different between love before marriage and love after marriage.Maybe that's why men and women are so different. lol......True love, I think, is finding one who you love and love you to fall in love with each other. You two will get married finally in a couple of years, creating your two's happy life until death.Two people live together, for what, i think it should make each other feel much happier, not more painful.You will say finding one who love you and you love is not easy. Of course, it is if you don't do anything, just waiting....lol.......Anyway, there is one who is here in the world. lol................Folks, what do you think true love is?Hope you will find your true love and live happily.
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  • True love, seems it's a long topic. Maybe we just can appreciate it, but can't speak it out clearly. Just like the world is colorful. Sometimes it is complicated, and sometimes it seems simple. hehe
  • i believe to this :
    "We dont belong to each other
    So love other one but dont belong it to yourself
    It can be true Love
    "
  • Hi dear Sau gerald,

    Perhaps, but at least i think true love is for two people who love each other deeply.

    Although at last they broke up, there was true love here, not just one was feeling painful. If just one did, then the love was not real. Sometimes we even think the one was stupid for all she or he did in her love.
  • Hi dear friend Linda Tam,when some one breaks your heart and the most amazing thing is that you still love them with ever broken piece is may be true love .
  • Hi Sau gerald,

    You are right. Sometimes love is just hate after getting marriage, but when the two fall in love with each other, that's real love.

    Best wishes to you!
    Linda
  • Everyone is they want to know a bout of love,but no one of scientist and genius not known what is love ,to nowadays.So we shouldn't bother our mind in the matter of love.
    Remember when the lovers are before they get marriage they ever say love each other and their love is true love,but after marriage they started to quarrel for something,at last to hate each other.So we can realize ,no love no hate(love is hate).If you can love everyone as thy love your self that is true love.(true love is never change)
  • Dear Atika,

    That's right. Love is really a great feeling! hehe
  • love is a great feeling ,it exists of course .the real love is when the two part (man & woman)are and go toward the same direction ,when they have the same objectives and thinkings.the real love must be followed by complicity,sincerity,sacrifice and respect.
    thanks for this topic
  • To Vladimir,

    That's right. I also heard about what you said.
  • I haven't experienced it, but I think it's plausible, that it exist.. I have heard that, that the secret behind of long life span is true love. The ones who have reached to age of 100 or more years have usually had one common, a true love.

    About kids.. well I think we can order them from laboratory too.
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