It was late night, we were at bar and the bar was about to be closed in an hour.
It was our very fist meeting when i saw him drinking alone. We became friend within few mints.
After about 10 mints of talking and asking....he very easily start telling his story, may be because we were totally stranger. He was from another city.i mean he was originally from a another developing country. And now he lives in australia and work in a company. He came to my city for a business trip.
Me: uhhum... yea..(he was keep talking) uhumm...aha.... so thats your story..
He: yes, this is my story, and she is the only reason i came to australia.
Me: im sorry, but i must say, its very interesting. I mean, even though you liked her and she also liked you back. But now, time has changed, situation has changed, she has been married for five years now. And to be honest with you, i think its purely your fault that you took her word as her last decision and walked away.
I realized my mistake when his fascial expression changed with my words, he keep increasing his grip strength around glass as if he want to crush it with bear hand. And i was afraid that he will smash that glass on my head.
He: damn it, (with anger) i didn't walked away. I was fucking very young. I didn't know how things work in the world. I didn't walked away. I loved her. She is only option i have to live. its not about choice.
I tried to lower his anger and divert from this point, by asking...
Me: so what are you going to do now. Whats your plan?
He : plan? Its simple.. Now i have money, the power and strength to have her back.
Me: aaa..... (what???? Are f- going to kill her husband? ) and how you will get her back?
He: it is also very simple. Creat honey trap to lure her husband and keep making it till her husband become fully under my control. After collecting few evidence, i will start black mailing him and will make him do few more mistakes. Eventually mailing the all collected evidence to his wife. And Women cant tolerate a cheater husband. She will be free. And this time i will be there for her.
Me: ( oh God, at-least he is not going to kill him) IS IT FAIR?? You will destroy her marriage life.
He: No, i will not, take it as a test for her husband. And if he cheat then he doesn't deserve her.
Me: umm sounds good.. best of luck..
" Namatullah-sharifi "
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Hello, dear Nematullah Sharifi.
People say that all is fair in love and war. It means If we love someone we should fight for them. I agree with that. But...... I hate when people test each other. We are not devices. We are human beings. We are alive and have feelings, hearts which can be hurt. That man is not a judge to decide who deserves his woman and who doesn't. Maybe that woman is happily married and It is not good to destroy a family just for own ego.
:) he should stay as a celibate rather than corruptting someone else's family :(
As they say " love is stupid , and lovers can't see their own stupidity " . Sometimes ,people feel more comfortable to talk with strangers , because when doing so they won't have anyone to blame them or spread their conversation . I think that the man u have met in the bar isn't a lover . He wants to own that women , what is he doing is a type of morbid possession that can't be described as love . However , the women seems to know what is really under his skin . He will try to spoil her marriage , will his plans to lure her husband successed . The whole silly thing might harm him , there is the karma laws waiting . The man should start looking for another women for his own ...... thanks for sharing this critical story with us :)
sounds kinda Gatsby story
wow, Nematullah, I already was assuming the stranger was meaning you.
This third person indeed will cause much trouble. :((
Just put yourself at the place of both of them.
Hello @Roman..
there is so many things going on here... it doesnt look as simple as it seems.
As he said '' she is the only option for him to live '' then difinately worth to try.
But. Morally & ethically.. is it right? If not, then why..? Because he also have a life, he doest want to harm any one, he just want to test (haha).
Hi Nematullah Sharifi!
I think, it is even not worth to think about.
Although I must admit, it was interesting to read this story.