When I was a child, I used to hear much about love from youngsters under 18 who did nothing but wandering around the house of their beloved ones in pursuit of true love. But when I reached at the same age, I found it differently. I found it just a soul, full of emotion which is useless without body. In order to fulfill corporeal requirement, expressing swallow love does not suffice, you have to do something practically. When you engaged in practical life in order to aggregate the wealth which may preserve the love, the imagination of love is drastically changed. The circle of love is widened from a particular person to the whole family. I mean you start dreaming about having a family. When you start dreaming about family, you start looking for a certain girl which may help in coming your dream true. You, then become very conscious about every girl you are proposed or referred for marriage. A certain qualities are in view while choosing a life partner. The qualities vary from person to person depending on the type of dream. At the end, the reality of love reveals that the lover hatches out from the shell of emotion and rely on objective love.
Now I feel pity for those who are still roaming around the house of their beloved ones sharing verbose expression of swallow love just to peep out a glimpse of shinning face :D
Comments
@ Rosemary I think you might get wrong. I haven't underestimated the value of love :). If you read its title I just tried to define it in a broad sense that love is not confined between two persons, love is extended from a particular person to the whole family. loving a person by hating or ignoring others is not love in my view. I hope you now get it
When we plan to have a family . We need more than love , which , absolutely true .
But dosent mean to ignore love completely because it's the coronerstone for a good healthy long relationship .