If YOU want not to be hurt or betrayed, NEVER OPEN YOUR HEART TO ANY ONE. IF IT IS COMPELLED TELL EVERY THING BUT KEEP SOME FOR YOURSELF……… NEVER OPEN YOUR SECRETES.
DO NOT EXPECT AT ALL OR MUCH FROM OTHERS. IN THIS WAY IF THE UNEXPRESSED EXPECTATIONS ARE FULFILLED, IT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY OTHERWISE THERE WILL BE NO HARD FEELINGS.
What I have said though is difficult, but applicable. I do not open my heart to any one not even to the closed ones. In expectations I have experienced the HURT real HURT, so I do not expect much.
If we make ourselves some rules like this life becomes a bit easier.
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I have recently come across a bad experience just by sharing something with the close friend of mine believing he will not disclose it!! As it is said well said 'the fish will be safer if it doesn't open its mouth’
Good advice. When one once is betrayed, it doesn't mean (s)he doesn't trust anyone, but remàin more conscious. What I learn by experience is that never be too close to anyone nor let anyone be too close to you, keep distance, and be strong.
The same I said in tawfeeq'blog
Check it out
http://my.englishclub.com/m/blogpost?id=2524315%3ABlogPost%3A3706253
Well, congratulations then!
You are right, I agree with you, but some people are very talkative, while they are talking a lot, they unconsciously tell their secrets, such people must be careful :)
If you people do not consider me as EXTREMIST I would say that opening our heart even to the trusted one, is like selling your soul...........................
I allow all of you not to agree with me.
I agree with your point but as human being when there is trust in any relation we forget all rules and regulation and share many things.
Yes, it is, but have to come forward, I didn't merely say this, I have already implied it on myself.
It is always easy to SAY !!!
mishaikh, better not to expect too much so we wont get hurt tooooooo much.
amal hope forever
"Do not follow or make rules based on personal experiences."
I meant to make rules for SELF not for others.
Thanks for your comments.
I have the experience to face the MEAN people more than SELFLESS ones.
It is hard to find a person so strong the keep your secrete as his/her secrete.
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