Friends through the Internet are from different countries, different cultures, and different backgrounds. So, misunderstanding among them is possible.What is the best way to get rid from this misunderstanding?For me, being hearer. When you listen to your friend, you will get him/her and you will understand him/her more. Even in the instant of misunderstanding, we should listen to each other, NOT ignore each other by giving our back as we don't care about others. We should respect our friends and respect their point of view, also.So, what is the way for you to avoid this kind of misunderstanding or to get rid from it?I do love you all my friends and sorry if I bother anyone of you.Skoon...
The first important thing in relationship is never say a bad word to blame after listening to the issues when you listened to. Don't ever gave comment without they asking. To be a good listener will keep the relationship for long time.
Rosemie, you are right, communication is the key. But it should be calm one. Nadira moosin, yes, I agree with you. Lack of patience and understanding could destroy the wonderful friendship. Sam, yes , we are from different cultures and this site; MyEC, makes us communicated through Internet. Nebia, welcome here dear. I agree with you too. We should aware before judging or getting angry. Saif, welcome here. Why you disagree? What is your point of view? Let's know about it. Lamegogo, I like what you have written here. Clear explaining the actual issues with the listening from the other side will solve our misunderstanding. Michi honey, welcome here, K&H to you my friend ;). I do agree with you 100% too. Friendship is the most valuable thing we have and we should aware about it and makes it so wonderful. Meeting these wonderful friends is hard. Patience, being hearer, and loving your friends are the key to avoid this kind of misunderstanding. And you are right, small misunderstanding is not a big deal because we are different and no one can match us 100%. But still, we do like to have many friends even if they are not similar to us. I hope our friendship goes on and on until we leave this life.
i'm agree with Nebia, yes sometimes people around us judging or getting angry before they asked what the issues is. but how the way we face it (Misunderstanding). for me, don't make the Misunderstanding be a big problem and we won't to clear it. so, if we find it in our relationship/society, please don't away but try to explain the actual topic/issues with clearly.
Yes, of course, listening and putting ourselves in the other side, see the matter with the other's eyes and try to understand first before judging or getting angry.
I agree with you skoon, my sister.
wonderful freindships gets destroyed through lack of patience,and understanding.
, sadly through this way is it how one should experience life......it seems to be....
nadira
Forget-me-Not, yes I do agree with you. Respect, an open heart and a none-judgmental soul are the most important things. I like your though when you said "the best way to understand others is to put ourselves in the other's shoes" you are absolutely right.
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the best way for me to avoid losing friends is to give them money ^__^ ( crazy friends)
Mr Happy
The first important thing in relationship is never say a bad word to blame after listening to the issues when you listened to. Don't ever gave comment without they asking. To be a good listener will keep the relationship for long time.
Nadira moosin, yes, I agree with you. Lack of patience and understanding could destroy the wonderful friendship.
Sam, yes , we are from different cultures and this site; MyEC, makes us communicated through Internet.
Nebia, welcome here dear. I agree with you too. We should aware before judging or getting angry.
Saif, welcome here. Why you disagree? What is your point of view? Let's know about it.
Lamegogo, I like what you have written here. Clear explaining the actual issues with the listening from the other side will solve our misunderstanding.
Michi honey, welcome here, K&H to you my friend ;). I do agree with you 100% too. Friendship is the most valuable thing we have and we should aware about it and makes it so wonderful. Meeting these wonderful friends is hard. Patience, being hearer, and loving your friends are the key to avoid this kind of misunderstanding. And you are right, small misunderstanding is not a big deal because we are different and no one can match us 100%. But still, we do like to have many friends even if they are not similar to us. I hope our friendship goes on and on until we leave this life.
Thank you all for passing by.
Skoon…
*lamegogo
I agree with you skoon, my sister.
, sadly through this way is it how one should experience life......it seems to be....
nadira
Thank you again.
Have a colorful life.
Skoon...
Thank you so much in your nice comment.
Skoon...
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