Free Compliments

HI EC Friends,

I just want to share this to encourage each one of us to give free compliments to everybody in spite of chaos that is happening now on earth. A good compliment and a smile can change one's life.

 

During a time of economic crisis and depressing news, two students at Purdue University decided to lift the spirits of people on campus with some encouraging words. For two hours every Wednesday afternoon, Cameron Brown and Brett Westcott stood along a busy walkway holding a large “Free Compliments” sign and saying nice things to everyone who passed by. “I like your red coat.” “Cool snow boots.” “Very nice smile.” Some students said they deliberately walked past “the compliment guys” every Wednesday just to hear a kind word.

I was struck by these two young men who looked at people with the goal of commending them, rather than finding fault or being critical. Is that how I, as a follower of Christ, view others each day?

Instead of being like the person who is focused on evil and whose speech is “like a burning fire” (Prov. 16:27), we can take a different approach, knowing that what we say begins deep inside us. “The heart of the wise teaches his mouth, and adds learning to his lips. Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the bones” (vv.23-24).

Kind words may be free, but they give a priceless lift of spirit. Why not encourage someone today?


The power in words can build up or tear down—
Create a big smile or produce a sad frown;
So in all your contacts with people each day,
Be sure to encourage in all that you say. —Fitzhugh

 

A gentle word of compliment falls lightly
but it carries great weight.

 


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  • I agree with your post, BUT too many compliments and kind words are not always credible...
  • thanks Nida.... You can call me charie.. heeeee
  • Very lovely blog, Charivell B. Cernal.I simply agree with all you wrote in your blog.

     

    Those guys are really doing a wonderful job.Hates of to them.

     

    "Today, give a stranger one of your smiles.  It might be the only sunshine he sees all day."

      ~Quoted in P.S. I Love You, compiled by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

     

    Thanks for sharing such a wonderful blog with us.

     

    Take care and keep smiling! ^_^

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