Feeling is the ability of every human being, without feeling everything we do would have no meaning. Basically, we do everything for a feeling. That is what we think. We believe that to feel happy we must do or experience something that would give us this feeling of happiness. Or we think we are unhappy because we have done something that made us feel that way. We believe that our “doing” is the reason for our “being” that is being happy or sad, being light or heavy. And not only our doings affect us but others’ doings as well. We feel unhappy for example because someone didn’t do or did something “bad” to us. We allow the actions of people around us rule our lives and later on we speak about keeping life under control or working hard to achieve our goals. It is a very difficult task because we want to control not only our life but also people who surround us. We want them to act and say and do things that would make us happy, however what if our ideas of what's “good” and “bad” do not match? How can we still be happy if the rest of the world does things that upset us?
Let’s see the things from a different point of view. Everyone had days when we woke up feeling happy, just happy for no reason and we even wonder what is it and how come we are so light and happy without any specific occasion. This is clear proof that to feel any type of emotion does not come after doing something rather doing comes because of a feeling. Imagine you woke up happy and smiling, what would be your activities? It would be something happy, active, good. Your every activity would come from a feeling and only that activity and feeling are genuine because this is your soul experiencing the feeling of happiness, this is when you are one with your lighter self and whatever you feel and do is so natural.
The soul experiences feelings and gives you signals that make you act accordingly. When we are able to leave aside every feeling that is caused by doing and we become blank, only then comes the true feeling of self. Self-feels light, happy, wise. Self-knows the answers and is never lost. Every feeling experienced by the soul is good and natural. These are your true emotions, the beautiful proofs of the soul’s existence.
Let go… leave…. Stop controlling, give up on expectations and know that your happiness is nothing but a feeling, divine, light feeling of love to yourself first of all and then to everyone around you. Let your beautiful soul shine bright and experience through your body the happiness, love, brightness and wisdom of the life you are living. The soul is here to feel, and through feeling, it comes alive.
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Nice & very interesting writing, You described nicely your experience, read it, like it & injoyed it. Thanks for aharing Helena...
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it is the first time i read you , lenshka, it is interesting, tnx for sharing it
I am also suffering from this phase but after reading your blog its give me the strength to see the positive side of life. That's true we can control our emotions connect yourselves with those people who give you energy rather takes out of you. Thanks for sharing.
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you can an emotion or feeling, maybe an emotion is a strong feeling. I use the word feeling because it happens at a deeper level of human being. Emotion is usually a physical reaction to a feeling. like if you feel sad you cry and show sadness by your emotions and if you are happy you react in a happy cheerful way. my Idea was to show people that the life each of us is living is affected by no one else but by ourselves and only we are responsible for feelings (emotions ) we experience.
Thanks for reading my post ) I am happy to know it made u think ))
Hi, Helena,
Interesting blog to read. Your writing sounds...as if you were speaking... I could even imagine your voice...calm and pleasant to hear, the same as the ideas you express.
I am of the opinion that when we learn how to control our emotions, life becomes easier and happier. Not so far I had a very interesting talk with my friends. And they have my full agreement that emotions are like horses...it depends on you, either you rule them...or you are ruled by them (everyone can imagine being ruled by crazy/mad/frightened/angry/jealous etc... horses..."lovely picture", right?...hh). I just wanted to clarify if my idea of emotions coincides with the idea of the 'feeling" word used by you.
Thank you so much, I enjoyed reading, and you made me think ))).