Bride Carrying Ceremony

There are many rites in a marriage that cheer up the participants and make it more memorable, but some rites are not very easy to do. Yes, to what I wanna draw your attention is that uncle of bride has to carry her on his hand to the car which is decorated with roses at the time of nika/ departure from her parental house.A few months ago, my cousin who was very fat felt ashamed of her figure when no our uncle came forward to lift her and moved to the car. She had four uncles, but all of them disappeared as soon as the bride stood to be carried. Eventually, the bride had to move to the car by foot. But the overall situation was very interesting and funny. Everyone in the marriage was smiling and enjoyed the whole scenario.If the bride in your country is carried by uncle/ brother at the time of her nika and you are going to be bride in coming soon, check your weight or be sure whether any of your uncle is strong enough to carry or not.
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  • Hello!
    Happy wedding for your cousin,.
    I've got a better idea. Is that possible if all of her uncle, four of them, lift and bring the bride together into the car?
    Anyway thanks for sharing this tradition of nika, lol xD
  • Mohammad,
    Lol what a suggestion! But this suggestion is not applicable to our soceity.

    Thank for interesting comment.
  • Abiba,

    I start pondering over it why we follow such tradition. It is because, one day I maybe face such situion when my niece get marriage. :)

    Thank for the comment
  • Lol dara sir, you burst me into laughter. If you have no idea how to lift your daughter at her marriage, start practice from right now. First, get Fatima read this article once. hopefully, it may work for her.

    Thank for the comment.
  • You are so lucky! :) Now you may eat to the maximum :). They might be peeping out from the hole of the wall. However, they felt relieved as soon as she got into the car. :)

    Thank you Onee sis for congratulation and comment.
  • LOL Arif ,,, Cool rite !! ,,, but it was so cooler if it would have the complement. Means carrying the bridegroom to his car by his aunt !!  :D :D :D

  • Kiya haal hain Arif Saeed? Meri bacha wazan ziada. main nahi janta kesei utaow. Bahut dafa, main bola, ap tora tora kao, lakin Fatima kana kilyei bahut pasand. The weight of my daughter is exceeding  every day. I am afraid.  

  • Arif,, LOL.. ..

    Fortunately, there's no such tradition in my place. :D

    Congrats for the wedding of your cousin. So, finally she walked herself? I guess all her uncles were watching from a distance So you mean it's interesting for you??? What kind of cousin! Huhh. But ohh, I can imagine that.. :D But, the point is it was the happy moment for her.

    Girls, watch out your weight before getting married! #ops..
  • I have read the article very informative and interesting. It is very serious crime to kidnap the woman for marriage. It is forceful marriage. bride carrying ceremony is quite different from bride kidnapping. Groom brother is not allowed to carry this burden since this burden is the responsibility of bride family before handing her over to groom. Then it is groom who has to carry this burden till his last breath. :)

    Thank you, Huriah for commenting and sharing the article.
  • By the way, a question just popped into my mind.

    Why doesn't the groom bother to shoulder this burden? Smiling.

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