A Speech on the Topic "LOVE"

Ladies and gentlemen,
Hi everyone!

Here we are gathered in this forum to discuss ‘Love’. Yes, ‘love’.
This reminds me, once a friend and admirer of my blogs. She was surprised how I would build a speech on the topic “love”.

So, my friends! Here I am and I wish that friend of mine would be here among you listening to me.

Now I come to the main point, yes, ‘love’!

I am afraid that now “Love” is supposed to be the attraction between two opposite sex. I hope you would agree with me. Go and surf the net you will find tons of material on this topic. Your toil will not be of much beneficial if you try to find “Love” in other relations.

Ladies and gentlemen, “LOVE” is the most talk about term since the time memorial – since the creation of mankind (Adam). It existed since then; rather I must say even before, when there was nothing but the Creator; even the creation of the universe is because of LOVE – love of the creator for the creation.

In the modern age there is also lot of talking about love, but I am afraid that now love is mostly supposed to result in sex and not beyond, whereas there are millions of couples who may not love each other, still they are married and increasing population.

Hmm, I am seeing smiles on some faces, maybe there is sarcasm in some eyes too. But what I am talking about is the bright fact, and every day’s experience.

My friends, thinking of love with such a low value is not justified. If I am asked to define love, I would say “Sacrifice, Selflessness, not demanding, to submit to the will of beloved.” This is the aspect which fulfills the instinct of mankind as regard to physical as well as spiritual. A mother is the most sacrificing person for her children. It may be said that it is in her instinct to love her children. Let’s take ‘true friendship’, there is no compulsion, but sometimes friends do sacrifice for each other. There are people who love their fellow being without any blood relationship. God creates the blood relations, but to us the relations we make are important. This is the aspect of love. It prolongs only when it is based on selflessness otherwise parting is there – “Someone loved would leave you behind without love.”

Thank you for being patient to listen to me, bye.

Help taken from one of my own blogs.

Love is a feeling for us to create sustainable relationships. Love exists on two levels. The first is the level oof mutual benefit : you will scratch my back if i scratch yours.I am getting something out of the love relationship that I value. If i quit valuing that, I'm going to let the relationship deteriorate. Most of love relationship are at that level - and that may be the way it has always been.

But the deepest and most satisfying love relationship is based on mutual advocacy. I dont need to get anything from you. What I am interested in is you living the best life you can, you living a good life,you being satisfied and feel contentment. I am gonna support you because i want you be happy and your well-being. That is a high level of love. Most of those relationships with lifelong love who are nonjudgemental because they see each other beyond the behaviour and flaws.They have a glimpse into their souls .In this kind of love one doesnt say " I'm not going to call her because she didnt call me" or "I'm not going to have him because he never invites me over. We never get into keeping score. If you want to have a high level of love , follow my pieces of advice.

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Mishaikh February 10, 2019 14:33

Thanks dara for your appreciation and encouragement.
Mishaikh February 10, 2019 14:33

Henriq ue

Thanks a lot for your time to read and posting your comment. Your comment is a blog in itself. You may post it in your blog section as a topic on 'love'. I agree with your views on the subject.
salah gammaa February 8, 2019 20:24

Piyar piyar! Sari duniya piyar manta. We are running after it. We are paying a lot to get it. Sometimes we fight for it. In other circumstances, we commit or do foolish acts in order to cover those persons we love. Thanks, Mr. Mishaikh for a unique experience.
Henri February 8, 2019 16:33

Love is a feeling for us to create sustainable relationships. Love exists on two levels. The first is the level oof mutual benefit : you will scratch my back if i scratch yours.I am getting something out of the love relationship that I value. If i quit valuing that, I'm going to let the relationship deteriorate. Most of love relationship are at that level - and that may be the way it has always been.

But the deepest and most satisfying love relationship is based on mutual advocacy. I dont need to get anything from you. What I am interested in is you living the best life you can, you living a good life,you being satisfied and feel contentment. I am gonna support you because i want you be happy and your well-being. That is a high level of love. Most of those relationships with lifelong love who are nonjudgemental because they see each other beyond the behaviour and flaws.They have a glimpse into their souls .In this kind of love one doesnt say " I'm not going to call her because she didnt call me" or "I'm not going to have him because he never invites me over. We never get into keeping score. If you want to have a high level of love , follow my pieces of advice.
Mishaikh February 8, 2019 12:10

Thanks Laboni for your time to read and comment.
Laboni February 8, 2019 5:21

Beautiful post, thanks dear mr.Mishaikh
Mishaikh August 11, 2018 13:53

@saba

I myself am surprised. Thanks.
saba August 11, 2018 12:11

Wow! 105412 views! This is one of your best blogs.
Mishaikh July 27, 2018 12:21

Thanks Dara for your encouragement and appreciations.
salah gammaa July 26, 2018 18:06

Qu main bola aap azeem blogger? Remember, I called you the great blogger. I was not aware of this one which have more than one hundred thousand viewers. Congratulations. Life is made up of two antithesis or two opposites. One of these two important pairs in our life is love. Its opposite is selfishness or hatred. Love represents a great deal in our life. Without it, our life is lacking something. Go forward Mr. Mishaikh, may Allah bless you.

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