Chit Chat Challenge from Nadira reminded me that I have made a promise to write a blog about something going on in Main Chat. So, this is it.
I have heard people complaining about Main Chat and how the atmosphere is not very well to discuss something or even just to have a simple and fun chit chat with friends. So one day, March 24th, we made a survey in main chat and I was in charge to take notes heheh. Thank you for all respondents: Esra, Luty, Widya D’knowledge, Rauen and HH: Hisham Hussain. Did I forget to mention another name? Well, sorry :S I hope all of you still remember that day when we did this. So you know that I am not making it up :D
Most of the problems are:
Girls complaint that they do not want to have a private chat with boys because they just knew each other. Then boys got mad because he thought girls rejected him. Once there was a girl in main chat but she had to make her gender as male because she got harassment from boys.
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So the question is:
how to make a safe chat line to girls
how boys should address if girls do not like to accept the private chat at the first met
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Girls, honestly speaking, do you all prefer talking to girls or boys? And why?
Me, both.
I do not care if it is a boy or a girl. I enjoy talking to both!
What makes the chat interesting for you?
Mmm… having something new to learn! A fight! It is always interesting to chat with an intelligent person no matter he is a girl or a boy.
Lol, so you enjoy the fight?
That what makes me interested in a chat.
What do you expect from chatting with someone?
Laughing. (She or he wants to have a fun chit chat where he/she can laugh)
Expect an answer!
To know something new and interesting.
A reply!
I am waiting to know something that I do not know.
If it is someone new, to make a new friend. If it is someone that I already met before, to know more of the person.
What will make you STOP chatting with someone?
Ruuuuuuude people!
If the other person seems to not be responding.
For me, I stop talking to someone if he is impolite or he said he loves me!!!!!!
I think rudeness and if I think he /she is lying.
It is because of long relationship and then some disputes because too much talking causes some difference also. Then it goes fed off with the time but it does not meant they become enemy.
Which one do you prefer, chat on main or private?
And what makes you prefer that?
I love main.
Interact with many people here, knowing them and getting knowledge and sharing things etc.
So does gender a problem to you? Chat with a girl or boy?
No, it is not a problem.
What was the ambience of main chat you would like to have?
Hmm... I cannot stick to any particular ambience, but we need varieties every time.
Well earlier we used to discuss controversial topic, not much flirting. And earlier I did not see anyone coming here for girls.
How do you first get attracted to chat with someone more intensely?
Appearances!!!!!!!!!!!!
May be esthetic part. If he/she looks more cultural look. I get attracted, yes.
For me, the open and broad talks.
For men who want to make relations: that will be the picture.
As for me... the character is more important than an appearance.
For those who want to learn English that will be the country.
Because everybody more likes to chat with cheerful guys.
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And here is the conclusion:
Girls are willing to chat with boys or girls and that is because they love to make friends.
They find it interesting to know something that they do not know. They will stop chatting when they found that their chat partner is a rude person, a liar or maybe busy and they are not responding
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Sooo, boys!! Those are the tips to win girls heart!! ;)
Do your best dude and tell us here if you have won someone’s heart lol
PS: I am not serious about hitting a girl with these tips. This is also applicable to every person you would like to be friends with not only for hunting a girl :P
Tukang Bajaj!! I wrote it, I do not owe you anything now :P Btw, you were a great moderator that time.
Comments
LOL. Maybe because you forgot to pay him after he take you somewhere with his Bajaj.
why didn't the tukang bajaj ask me about the survey?
So, you throw the ball on my field :)
Well, let me think about it, I might do a survey. About it.
Thanks Syubi.
Tara, Mr night, Kim, Syed : Thanks for reading
Tara:
You forgot to thank to all respondents and the moderator. I did nothing except to copy and paste their answers.
Mr Night:
Well, I myself do not agree with some of these answers, but everyone has their own view and opinion. About people who prefer to chat in private, I guess it is your turn now to make a survey about it :D
Kim:
Agree with me? Are you sure? ^^
Syed:
Lol Syed. Your words "I was here" reminded me to people who like to wrote those words in wall or something to place they have visited :P
Thank you Syubi,
This was nice to read, But your survey shows only people who like to chat in the main chat, what about those who like only to have one to one chat? I think if you question them these questions you will see some differences and you will get some suggestions.
I like your blog, even though I disagree with few parts, but agree with most of it.
Regards
Night :)
Excellent!
Girls, feel free to tell chatters that you have a personal chat policy to only use the main room. Just tell them that the main room is a better place to practise English. You can avoid hurting their feelings and avoid abuse. If you are abused in the main chat room, take a screenshot (if possible) and report the member! If you can't get a screenshot, ask another member in the chat room to report the abuse as well.
Here are some helpful phrases you can use:
Thank you Nadira for inviting members to blog on this topic! Thanks Syubi for this great post!
Tara