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Who Am I?

Hello, everyone!

I have registered for a long time. But I rarely log on. I am still new here. Sometimes I want to write something about myself and my life, my country. However, as my poor English I can't write blog freely.I am now a student in a university and I major in Computer Engineering. Maybe it is too difficult to me or I am not very clever enough. So I want to quit my major. I love Enlish very much. I started off learning English from elementary school and I have learned it for about 10 years. But I still can't speak English fluently. I am so worried about myself. What can I do in the future?After considering myself for long time. I decided to learn Enlish by myself. No matter how hard it is. I will try best and I also need some help. I love reading and writing. But I am not very outgoing and very shy sometimes. Speaking English needs courage. When I first talked to a foreigner, I was so nervous that I don't know what to say. He didn't understand what was talking and I didn't understand him, either. Oh, I am so sad and I want to express my meaning clearly and correctly. After that I studyed English more harder. I wish I can speak English fluently and clearly.……I hope you could give some advice about learning. I want to practise my English speaking. If you could give me your Skype ID. I am happy to add you and talk to you. 

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A Reason

PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASONI am sending this for you to pay attention to what you read. After you have finished reading it, you will know the reason it was sent to you. Here it goes:

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant .

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.My life has been richer because you have impacted my life in one way or other......
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A story about friendship!

Today I have read an email which is sent by a very nice man.I read the stroy and think a lot of things, and sometimes we just do a little things, but it do help somebody, even change their life. Here is the email(I hope you would read it and it is really true and moving! ):This is worth reading (again & again).One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books.I thought to myself, 'Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?He must really be a nerd.'I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him...He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyesMy heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.As I handed him his glasses, I said, 'Those guys are jerks.'They really should get lives.' He looked at me and said, 'Hey thanks!'There was a big smile on his face.It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before..He said he had gone to private school before now.We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friendsHe said yes.We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.I stopped him and said, 'Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!'He just laughed and handed me half the books.Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends..When we were seniors we began to think about college.Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke.I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would neverbe a problem.He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship..Kyle was valedictorian of our class.I teased him all the time about being a nerd.He had to prepare a speech for graduation.I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speakGraduation day, I saw Kyle.He looked great.He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.Boy, sometimes I was jealous!Today was one of those days.I could see that he was nervous about his speech.So, I smacked him on the back and said, 'Hey, big guy, you'll be great!'He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled..' Thanks,' he said.As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began'Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends....I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.I am going to tell you a story.I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told about the first day we met.He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.'Thankfully, I was saved.My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable...'I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.Never underestimate the power of your actions..With one small gesture you can change a person's life.For better or for worse.God puts us all in each others lives to impact one another in some way.Look for God in others.'Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.'There is no beginning or end..Yesterday is history.Tomorrow is a mystery.Today is a gift...
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The Beginning

Now I decide to write my first blog.As a matter of fact I like writing.When I am writing,I feel comfortale.But my English is poor.Even though I have learnt it for years.I am afraid of making mistakes.The readers will not understanding the meaning of the essay.Or maybe someone will laugh at me.I am not a confident girl.I read some blogs here in the Englishclub before.They really give me some feelings which are beautiful and helpful.So I want to say thanks to them here.I have a busy life,I must spent most of my time to do something more important.Yet I will read blogs here and try to write something.I hope someone could give me some comments.
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