The marriage of minors or underage is growing rapidly on these days. Because of poverty or any other lack of substantial matters, people marry their children, they are girls of age between seven, eight or up to twelve or thirteen. If you go to refugee camps, the matter is bigger than you can imagine. For the lack of food, shelter or education, people marry their girls. Some of these girls do not know what marriage is. Greedy ones are taking the advantage of the situations. Those who are rich offer their money for a nine-year-old girl. To add more petrol to the fire, there are some people who arrange these marriages, taking the need of the family and the demand of the other side who wants to satisfy his desire.
Is it because of poverty, the absence of conscience or the wars?
Is there any remedy for this matter?
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None excuses for marriages with minors!!! Every single excuse is a crime within itself. Kids must be protected. We haven't to think about reasons. Every single faked reason is just a weak attempt to excuse crime.
To speak clearly : Men which marry kids are just sick with a rotten brain, controlled and driven by perverse sexual impulses and lusts. You can find that kind of men everywhere... men they have joy and desire to abuse kids for their sick desire. Not all of them marry the minors. Men which marry them are just the tip of this cruel and despising behavior ... much higher is the number of men they rape or abuse minors ... secretly and sneaky ... they treat them like goods, things ... not like humans with a vulnerable soul and bleeding heart.
Law should punish everyone of them .... hard without mercy ... no excuses are accepted ... because there are none.. That's my opinion.
Eva, you are absolutely right. As I said severe (and unbiased) punishment is the only solution.
Where there is no 'justice' that society is corrupt.
I have read somewhere, in WWII when London was destroyed by German, there was shaken economy prevailed. Once Churchill was shown concern on this. He asked, "Tell me what has happened to our 'justice system'?" The answer was given to him "It is still intact!". "Then nothing is going to happen to our society, we will survive".
See 'the just' 'justice system' is the only prove of a healthy society. Otherwise, nothing, but all CORRUPTION.
Evangelina said:
Spasibo Elvina! As you know, if there is a will, there is a way. The society is us, you and me. As you said, it's the worst problem, but we have to find a solution or remedy to it. how about education? Or helping the poor as Chitra and some other members mentioned before. Thanks, Elvina!
Elvina said:
In my personal view this is a very big problem of some countries where people make ends meet because of povetry. I can't imagine how people can make a decision. It is a pity to know about small girls' life in such countries.It is terrible. I don't know whether there is a remedy from this worst problem. This problem depends on the definite society.
Kalespera Evangelina, I guess the term pedophile is the exact word for our problem. I think it's a disease. I always remember the word "severe" which was used by Mr. Mishaikh in the kind of punishment for a person who commits such a crime. Eva, don't you think religion can play a role in this matter? Education, on the other hand, is essential. Thanks for that analytic intervention. Wasn't I right when I said, you write from deep inside your heart? God bless you Eva for those nice points for that problem of the pedophile. Thank you!
Evangelina said:
Danyawaad Chitra! I noticed that in India. The number is increasing every day. What about the government? Isn't there a law to punish those criminals. I have a solution, Chitra. Why doesn't the Indian government fix the dowery? for instance, fix the rate of ten thousand for each marriage. Thanks, Chitra for your useful and thoughtful comment!
Chitra said:
Prevyet Winnie The Pooh, it is indeed a serious criminal. We should do something about it. Thanks Winnie!
WinnieThePooh said:
Ifcharisto polly Evangelina! I want to go to take my children for their vaccination and I shall come back to reply your frank and straight forward opinion. Mr. Mishaikh made it clear from the first time like you here. He said that severe punishment must be carried out against those criminals. Of course, he meant both the parents and the one who takes advantage of the circumstances. two hours, and I will come back to reread your nice remedy for this problem. Thanks, Eva!
Evangelina said:
"Marriage" with minors is a serious criminal offense.
Saya setuju dengan anda, Diah! benar benar! Tidak merasa kasihan, teman ku. Nurani penting. I do not know why am I concentrating on the conscience? Is it because it is related to the mind? Maybe, religion can play a basic role here. I agree with you, Diah. It's the social fever of the elders. They had already put in their minds that Tina is for Tom. Tina and Tom used to play together when they were children. Now, both of them have a different direction. They are a man and a woman. Maturity is not like childhood. Thanks Diah for your nice points about this problem!
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