There is a simple question crossed my mind I would like to hear the answer from all of you.- Married because of love- love because of marriageWhich one do you prefer? And, Why?Let's discuss!!!
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Hello May :)
Thanks for your sweet answer in my discussion.
So, it is no matter after or before marriage as long as we know our spouse is a good and care person who can live with us until the end of time. Very nice,. Once again, thank you :)
Its not as simple as you say it is. It varies situation to situation and circumstances to circumstances. Bot ways are preferable. Love marriage - okay but no guarantee for the love to prolong. Marriage --> love, it is again okay (in most of the cases successful, but again depend upon social matters, societies own culture etc. (again no guarantee for prolong love or marriage).
There are chances that he/she love someone, never declare their intention, and come into marriage by arrangement. What you will call it, LOVE MARRIAGE OR MARRIAGE LOVE.
So you see not so simple.
I have seen example: Arranged marriage - no love - divorce. The same man again married: arranged - no love(prior), marriage got success, raised kids married them now have grand kids.
Again you see not as simple as we think it is. There are other examples, too.
Mishaikh :D
Thanks for your participation.
The question is simple but not the answer. The varieties of answers are rather depend too. That's why we need to discuss in order to see this case from different point of view. If the answer is not simple, what's the point to talk about it. Anyway, I am interesting with your first opinion, two person love each others and never declare it, but they married by arrangement. That's just soooo sweet like a dream come true.
Hello Nimzaf.
Great one! Coming from your personal experience. Thanks for sharing with us by replying my discussion. Love each others means understand each others. I cant be more agree than this. By the way, for they who single out there and have a marriage arrangement, I wonder if they have chance to build a strong mutual understanding. Do you have any idea about this case?
I married because of love.Therefore I have no experience with love because of marriage.
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage.Because you can build a strong mutual understanding before they get marry.Incase if they do not build a proper mutual understand,without any problem they have a chance to separate,
Anah :D
How sweet your answer is. You really give me something different.. And it's based on reality, cool!
Thanks for your reply to my discussion and if you don't mind, I want to ask a question. If there is somebody who stand between those choice, have a partner and in other side his family arranged a marriage for him with someone else. Which one do you think the best choice for him? Let's assume the family give him freedom.
Hello Areality.
Thank you soo much for your sweet reply in my discussion. You give me very clear explanation from both sides. I really love to read that. As Jeffrey said, this love I talk about is between a couple who will be bounded by marriage. Anyway your answer still relate thought with my topic so it's okay. One point here about love before marriage is sometimes made by physical desires, very interesting. Would it be fine if a couple claimed they are love each others not because of this desire but a commitment to be together until the very very last?
Love because of marriage is more preferable to me than marriage because of love!
Why?
Because I have seen so many couples around me. They love each other because of marriage and their married life is more successful than those who got married because of love!
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Thanks for your sweet answer in my discussion.
So, it is no matter after or before marriage as long as we know our spouse is a good and care person who can live with us until the end of time. Very nice,. Once again, thank you :)
Its not as simple as you say it is. It varies situation to situation and circumstances to circumstances. Bot ways are preferable. Love marriage - okay but no guarantee for the love to prolong. Marriage --> love, it is again okay (in most of the cases successful, but again depend upon social matters, societies own culture etc. (again no guarantee for prolong love or marriage).
There are chances that he/she love someone, never declare their intention, and come into marriage by arrangement. What you will call it, LOVE MARRIAGE OR MARRIAGE LOVE.
So you see not so simple.
I have seen example:
Arranged marriage - no love - divorce.
The same man again married: arranged - no love(prior), marriage got success, raised kids married them now have grand kids.
Again you see not as simple as we think it is. There are other examples, too.
How lucky you are, Mishaikh :D
I envy of you, lol.
Congrats! May your love blessed and everlasting :)
Thanks for your participation.
The question is simple but not the answer. The varieties of answers are rather depend too. That's why we need to discuss in order to see this case from different point of view. If the answer is not simple, what's the point to talk about it. Anyway, I am interesting with your first opinion, two person love each others and never declare it, but they married by arrangement. That's just soooo sweet like a dream come true.
Yes, it is sweet. I am one of the sorts..............and lucky.
Great one! Coming from your personal experience. Thanks for sharing with us by replying my discussion. Love each others means understand each others. I cant be more agree than this. By the way, for they who single out there and have a marriage arrangement, I wonder if they have chance to build a strong mutual understanding. Do you have any idea about this case?
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage.Because you can build a strong mutual understanding before they get marry.Incase if they do not build a proper mutual understand,without any problem they have a chance to separate,
How sweet your answer is. You really give me something different.. And it's based on reality, cool!
Thanks for your reply to my discussion and if you don't mind, I want to ask a question. If there is somebody who stand between those choice, have a partner and in other side his family arranged a marriage for him with someone else. Which one do you think the best choice for him? Let's assume the family give him freedom.
Thank you soo much for your sweet reply in my discussion. You give me very clear explanation from both sides. I really love to read that. As Jeffrey said, this love I talk about is between a couple who will be bounded by marriage. Anyway your answer still relate thought with my topic so it's okay. One point here about love before marriage is sometimes made by physical desires, very interesting. Would it be fine if a couple claimed they are love each others not because of this desire but a commitment to be together until the very very last?
Love because of marriage is more preferable to me than marriage because of love!
Why?
Because I have seen so many couples around me. They love each other because of marriage and their married life is more successful than those who got married because of love!
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