Have you noticed some people around you have uncontrolable, urgent need to brag about their relationships on Facebook, Twitter or other social media? Unfortunately, I came across something like this lately twice, so I decided to share it with you and would like to read your opinions on this topic :)It is natural to feel like we want to show the whole world that we are in love and feel proud of our partner etc. because at the beggining love is cool and we can't control it...yeah that's excuse for those, who are in this stadium of insanity and flood their pages with several pictures, comments etc. Anyway, this is not my point. I have observed there are also couples, who feel like they want to show others they have awesome relationship full of love, desire, understanding after some years...no matter, if they are married or not. One classmate of mine shares often on Facebook her activities and when I see among the comments dialogues between her hubby and her such as: "Ohhh my darling, I know you are the best" then reply: "Ohh baby don't talk like this, I am happy to have you, you are the best thing that happened to me." I feel like some "lamp", who reads the conversation of two people but..nothing for my eyes! Do you think it is normal or it should be just something private they should share, when they are alone? Another example was little bit different. My another friend posted on Facebook status like: "Well, I am just enjoying incredible moments with my boyfriend, we are drinking wine and spending nice time together." When I saw it, I don't know why but I was like: "Whaaaaat????!!" Honestly, tell me, who has time while enjoying nice moments to think about some stupid Facebook??? :D After a while I started thinking about such people, why they behave like this and on my mind were just two options.. either it is nature of such couple to prove others their life is awesome (but who the hell cares or compete?) or they need such bragging style to make their weak relationships stronger. Do you also know such people or I am just weird psycho and see the things, which are maybe for others ok?
Haha, you always pop up with something unique that's what I like most about you Luci :D
Okay so coming to your blog; I think it's peoples' choice to share whatever they want. We can't stop them. But somehow these kind of posts are considered as bragging.
Today when I was scrolling my Instagram account I found something and I quickly captured the quote. I shall share it with you too :D
So, I think you are right. :D Strong relationships doesn't depend on bragging :D
Hello Lucinka, this is so contemporary, latest and timely issue that social network "life" is dealing now. I don't have any idea how they felt if they have had posted something like that? Because I don't want to to do something like those, though I can say maybe they just wanted to "share" their "happy" moments virtually but I guess there should be limitations to that.
Relationship goals mustn't meant for broadcast. It should be taken seriously, well, in some ways you can "share" that "happiness" but not as extravagant as the royal family announcing the name of their new baby. How absurd.
Maybe, for some sort they find gratification from posting those and people will eventually like it...
In some area of psychology, people who constantly posting relationship events are those who really suffers in real life about the realtionship itself. They tend to develop/ image their ideal love story, their imaginations... there is always REALITY vs IMAGINATION phase. Who can figure out?
Serene, woow such diploma work comment :) I like your points and I agree, just I don't think it is phobia ..maybe they don't know, how to distinguish between own privacy and public sector.. thanx for reading my blog, I am glad you liked it :)
usra, I am glad you invested time in reading me, thanx for your comment. I wonder, if such couple would share like this also their personal problems :) but yeah.. there is nothing to brag about ...
Mary, thanx for your detailed comment :D I agree that it is interesting to watch such "cases" but after some time it is a bit annoying and it gets on my nerves since I am old neurotic!
We’re social creatures by nature and thirst to get information’s, but sharing every a cough and spit of person’s friendly/close/intimate relationships on F/B is a sign of reducing human feeling, how long others friend can endure their daily excitement? What a miserly way to live, they have been chosen! It looks they have no option to express their feeling rather F/B, they just excited about their life and feeling attraction to tell everyone, and hoping to make people feel jealous. That’s why they shared all the top secrets like an open book…
I think, it is kind of phobia, and not their fault, either. Each people we shine in a different way, and our way of communicating, reacting strategy is different. May they feel comfort and mesmerized by social media, it can be the fact that they love their virtual life more than real life, or may they are not that much happy in real life but want to impress others by hiding real truth !...
Honestly, tell me, who has time while enjoying nice moments to think about some stupid Facebook???
What to say? There is one saying: "When a man is happy he does not hear the clock strike." These stranger happy people have time for FB even!
I know one girl,who married just to bragging in VK( russian site, analog of FB) her wedding dress.Of course they devorced after two months. But she was proud of all these likes she got on photos. Who knows,may be we became too old for this virtual world.
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Haha, you always pop up with something unique that's what I like most about you Luci :D
Okay so coming to your blog; I think it's peoples' choice to share whatever they want. We can't stop them. But somehow these kind of posts are considered as bragging.
Today when I was scrolling my Instagram account I found something and I quickly captured the quote. I shall share it with you too :D
So, I think you are right. :D Strong relationships doesn't depend on bragging :D
LUCInka
I have seen such kind of stupid things in facebook. I am sharing little bit here.
1. A police has taken selfie with criminal after arresting him.
2. Some relative have taken selfie with dead body.
3. Doctors have taken selfie while operation.
It is just a selfie. The every updates some people are putting in facebook. How much crap some people we have known that by the help of facebook.
Thanks for sharing.
Hello Lucinka, this is so contemporary, latest and timely issue that social network "life" is dealing now. I don't have any idea how they felt if they have had posted something like that? Because I don't want to to do something like those, though I can say maybe they just wanted to "share" their "happy" moments virtually but I guess there should be limitations to that.
Relationship goals mustn't meant for broadcast. It should be taken seriously, well, in some ways you can "share" that "happiness" but not as extravagant as the royal family announcing the name of their new baby. How absurd.
Maybe, for some sort they find gratification from posting those and people will eventually like it...
In some area of psychology, people who constantly posting relationship events are those who really suffers in real life about the realtionship itself. They tend to develop/ image their ideal love story, their imaginations... there is always REALITY vs IMAGINATION phase. Who can figure out?
Thanks for sharing this Luci, God bless!
Dear Luci! It is so nice to read from you!
We’re social creatures by nature and thirst to get information’s, but sharing every a cough and spit of person’s friendly/close/intimate relationships on F/B is a sign of reducing human feeling, how long others friend can endure their daily excitement? What a miserly way to live, they have been chosen! It looks they have no option to express their feeling rather F/B, they just excited about their life and feeling attraction to tell everyone, and hoping to make people feel jealous. That’s why they shared all the top secrets like an open book…
I think, it is kind of phobia, and not their fault, either. Each people we shine in a different way, and our way of communicating, reacting strategy is different. May they feel comfort and mesmerized by social media, it can be the fact that they love their virtual life more than real life, or may they are not that much happy in real life but want to impress others by hiding real truth !...
Honestly, tell me, who has time while enjoying nice moments to think about some stupid Facebook???
What to say? There is one saying: "When a man is happy he does not hear the clock strike." These stranger happy people have time for FB even!
I know one girl,who married just to bragging in VK( russian site, analog of FB) her wedding dress.Of course they devorced after two months. But she was proud of all these likes she got on photos. Who knows,may be we became too old for this virtual world.
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