I would like to dedicate this blog to all shameless gold diggers around the world!!! Unfortunately I guess, I won't be so blessed, so that all would be able to read it but maybe just some of them like Heather Mills (exwife of Paul McCartney) or Kim Kardashian, will realize their calculating, scheming behaviour is pretty awful .. hahaaaaa.. good joke, I know :-) Anyway, this is not just a question of the celebrities but of many girls, whose materialistic preferencies are priority number one, which overshadows and slowly kills their inner beauty.
Honestly, I have to admit that guys in some countries don't have it easy at all. Just imagine a guy, who graduated, struggles with getting some good job and nobody wants him as he is not well-situated, not rich enough! Such guy will sooner or later be frustrated because his situation is really very desperate. He must work 24/7 to save some money because only then he will become attractive to some girl!! So please… can anybody tell me, what happened? Why girls became so mean and disgusting without real, nice values? Why only money matters? Nowadays in many parts of the world women are independent with own income. They have two hands to earn money, exactly like men do. So I really can't understand, why there is still some unwritten rule that a guy should provide everything to sattisfy their greedy needs. Besides, some girls just think, it would be the best to CATCH some wealthy "fish", no matter how he looks like and what is his personality, the point is… they are ready to love his wallet, not him.
Anyway, let me tell you that when I met my husband, we he had nothing!!! We both were even jobless and got some money from government as it was really hard to get a good job in my city. However, we decided to save money – even these little money, later on we both started working and kept on saving money together!!! We had saved so much that we were able to buy our apartment and of course something like this is in my opinion, what it should be about. These two should be proud of what they achieved together and I do believe that it makes them closer. I can't imagine that nowadays in my situation I would be just financially supported by somebody because it would make me feel like a cheap prostitute..
I wish, all these gold diggers would wake up, would have some empathy for all these guys out there, who must work hard, to prove something, who must save money … so that SOMEBODY would notice them! Nothing is for free, I know but when it comes to relationships, things should be equal but unfortunately some weird materialistic visions are able to destroy real true values of life and I wonder, where it is all heaeding…
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This topic hits the point in every sense. Sadly, that's the problem people have these days. There is no intimacy or whatsoever. We live in a world of shortcuts, it's almost everyone for him/herself, these gold diggers get things easier by using the illusion they provide of beauty to attract their peacocks using their seductive bodies/wearings and their fake up (makeup) it is more of a competition between themselves I suppose. They would rather think how low they can sink to get on the top without any effort.
Mom, we don’t know what lies behind in every story, we judge only what we see and hear and for me, that’s not enough to have a full truthful judgment. Every day I’m scolding myself to see people’s intention and not to concentrate on their actions. It’s hard, and I’m doing that every day, talking to myself every morning, every evening….:D
Gold diggers are shameless, yes. But I believe not all gold diggers have a bad intention, we perceive it badly the way media tries to exaggerate and our prejudices hinder us from understanding every angle of the situation. I don’t like to mind their business because maybe they have a solid and valid reason to did such things.
On the contrary, to apply this as my strategy to get a man who will feed me and the rest, clothe me with expensive ornaments, buy me house and lot to die for, and a luxurious lifestyle… I will burst out of laughter! Just like buying me? Seriously? I will take this as an insult to my cognitive processes and abilities to stand on my own. For me, independence is significant and my freedom to choosing, speaking, spending, and thinking are vital points of my existence. I’d lived and survived a life for how many years without that someone who I see as an “intruder”, I started working at the age of 8, who needs someone to feed me? I know how to get my hands dirty and I know how to work smart. I’m not a pampered girl, so who needs your Louis Vitton, Channel, and Prada?
It is a weak and lame strategy for me, that won’t work. Because, simply, the guy doesn’t know what to buy for me as I don’t indulge myself to material things.
It is a matter of contentment in life. I’m more than satisfied with what I have as God provides me everything, I’m not lacking. All individuals have all things they need to live…they just surpassed and focus to their WANTS.
I can’t imagine myself marrying a rich guy, who is engrossed to make a living than to make a family with me.
Okay, I’m no hypocrite, if a guy will pay for our dates (believe me, I’m not asking for fancy restaurants- I can’t eat anything-I CAN NOT.), that would be an advantage for him. Besides it is not the expensive thing that will make your heart grow to ponder, it’s the thought that always count. Simple love letters will win over your 24k diamond.
It’s hard to earn money through decent stunts, so maybe, others will find an easy way to have it, no wonder.
PS. I read Frank’s recommended book-just some quotes there…so funny, “Pretend your vagina is worth something of VALUE. Pretend it’s a $500 bill. Would you give a man you just met a FREE $500 bill?”
Wahahahahahahahahahahahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!
you know what Luci.. If there is someone who should write about this topic, it would be only ME.
I truly appreciate so much that: 1st: you are from very different society, and 2nd: you are a female. but nevertheless, you could understand and point out such an action..
Well, to be honest I don't have any problem with being the one who should work and provide everything.. Moreover, I prefer to be such one... but what I hate the most is when I do everything best about it, bust still her family is able to underestimate me again and again and for much less and sillier considerations. It feels really THE MOST SHAMEFUL to be said..
I have experienced this over and over.. and I hate it so much.. and I hate this silly norms and craziness which are going on here.