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Recently, I have seen <the big bang theory> ,a  American drama.

I really love this drama and all the 'scientists'  in it. Though, these scientists always call themselves nerd and express that they are pale, not handsome, not poplular for women......I just ignore those problems and think those are their own styles are different from normal person while are more special and cute.

But, today, I suddently recall some scenes of conversation between my friends with me many years ago, when I have been seeing the season 2 episode 12, the 'scientist' said 'we are all pathetic, creepy and can't get girls, that's why we fight wobots.'

One conversation about 'what do you want to do in the future', my friend told me he would be a scientific researcher without any hestitation. That made me surprised that there were so many choices and I was confused which was better for me to choose, but he was go straight to choose.'Why you know what you will do so definitely?' 'Otherwise, what could I do except of scientific research? I am not sociable, glib, handsome'.

Anther conversation, I complaited that I hated to be a girl. My friend( the other one not the one I mentioned before)said did you really want to be a boy, even like me? short, ugly boy? Would you want to transfer yourself a lovely, beautiful, clever to a boy like me? I had no word to say. I never think about these problems, but always focus on the gender, especially, the advantages of male had. Afterwards, this friend of mine became a doctor.

At that time, I was too young to realise the real feelings in their hearts. Maybe they also had the similar feelings like scientists' in drama, they were pathetic, creepy and girls didn't like them. Recalling what they had ever said to me, I could feel that they were self-contempt for their not good look and a little bit weird charasteristic. I was so regretful not to encorage them and told them they were wonderful because of their smart brain, kind heart.

Peoples always say we shouldn't judge a person by appearance. But we cannot carry it out because of human nature of pleasing for beauty. At least, we can pay more attantion and try to understand their more. They won't feel pathetic,creepy becauce of having a lot of friends around them.

Now,these two friends of mine are all scientific researchers on the fields of medicine and maths respectively. I am so proud of them,  and bless them for happiness.