Not be a slave of others

Hi all, 

Most of the turbulence or worries in our mind is triggered from outside, It is not created by our own. 

For example, One of your friend bought a new car today, and you don't have a car. Today I am sure, 90% of peoples mind will be upset. 

See details of this case. You don't have a car for a long time or you never had a car any time. These many days you didn't think about it or you never had a problem. You need a car to show others that you too have a car- that is creating problem. Just ego satisfaction. 

In this situation, think peacefully with out seeing your friends car about the purpose of car for you and why these many days it not come out. Some time it may be a trigger to upgrade the way of your leaving. Analyse carefully, don't buy a car just for satisfying your ego. 

Leave peacefully...

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  • I agree with your way of thinking.. Though, it's not so easy.. 

    Thanks for sharing.. I wish we become stronger to face ourselves with more determination :) 

  • Hello apsuku! This is a plain envy game when you see others' possession and find that they are happy about it, your brain starts to ask you things like, "why not buy for yourself?", self-gratification comes after praises and good opinions from other people, who cares? For me, if it's not necessary (life and death situation, hahaha!), I prefer to use my feet to go somewhere near, besides, I can pay normal transport if I want to travel a far-fetched distance location.

    Nothing to worry, live simply and be happy about it. :)

  • We are influenced by others and I guess many people want to have exactly what others have and aren't satisfied with they have :D pretty simple, nah? I think it is all about..how our mind is set and I believe in this case you described....only those who have better cars wouldn't feel a bit envious :D
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