We were born such brave person, we couldn't distinguish any kind of threat, as baby we were just playing along with anything in front us, then we grew up and started to know things more clearly. Wait, something changed along the line, you somehow recognized how it feels to do something and you have turned out wrong, you are too much worrying to be boed by them, yet those things still in your illusion. We started to get into elementary school, teachers there taught us to do things as correct as you could, when it went wrong, it already mentioned that you would get such punishment and you would fear of course, you began to refuse to try.
Things as we perceived in the past when we were kids, still having the impact on ourselves. Afraid of being wrong then avoid to attempt things even there is reward behind the risk. The only thing is, we have been just looking at the risk and we make it as bigger threat as if it will definitely come. Until now, maybe, most of us still have this kind of feeling when going to try to do something, fear of being mocked and mistaken.
As what i want to tell you is, we actually need to include an amount of mistakes as learning process instead of making it always correct. I have gotten one of video which is talking about it:
See for the related link video: Diana Laufenberg: How to learn? From mistakes
Let's find out why we wrong, because we need to be correct.
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