LEARN TO LISTEN - LISTEN TO LEARN
"No man would listen to you talk if he didn't know it was his turn next." (Quote by Ed howe, an American novelist)
This is natural a human being (may be animal also) born with a desire “to be listened”, but to be listened, it is also obligatory that one should have the bearing to listen to others.
Just take your own example. You are with a group of friends and some conversation is going on. Just imagine what would be your feelings, when you find one of your friends talking about something and you are anxious to give your own views on it. You may interrupt and prompt your view point or you will wait letting him/her finish. Now suppose after having finished the talk your friend leaves without letting you give your view point, what will be your emotion. Would you listen to him/her next time or just try to ignore. So we listen to others on the expectation that we would also be listened.
BUT there is an exception. Yes…………..I am giving you my own view point. There is exception, and this exception is with those who are deeply in love (Ishiq). In this condition the lover just wants to hear his beloved talk and talk and talk! He wishes that she would continuously keep talking and he would keep listening to her sweet voice, keep seeing the movement of her rose petal lips. This is the only condition when the listener has no desire to be listened. He just wants to listen.
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Thanks Roman
I just wanted to explain to you the power of listening by this.
Thanks for your time to visit and comment.
Haha:) Nice, Mishaikh!
Well, that situation is unusual, so I think one must be in hurry to leave without listening to the friend's opinion. Otherwise it is just weird and rude.
And you are right! :) But what about her? Does she also want to hear his voice?
Thank you for sharing!
Secondly, about 2nd part in this blog is more closely to Ishiq e Mizaj. I am sure lol
Great experience of mezaj Ishq, let it go, we 'll talk on it later on :) I am sorry for my broken English
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two rules that makes (compels - is too hard here) us to listen to other,
In my first para I have discussed the quote Ed howe. You may assume its 'mutual'.
Yes second part is love (Both 'majaz and 'haqiqi')
"Well, you have great experience of Mezaj e Ishq' What do you mean by this?
You have described two rules that compels us to listen to other, one is mutual agreement and other is love, did I get right? :)
Sweet blog :)
Yea, I have gone through this SENSATION!
Wow, good point!!!!!! The last paragraph of your topic, actually put a big smile on my lips. So thanks. And allow me my friend I want to add something which is; lovers even have a great power to listen to the unspoken words between each other. In love world these words named; eyes' language. And this language is more effective and more pretty-spoken than the spoken one, I can tell. Have you ever listened to this language???? I have, lucky me!!! God bless you my friend.