Ideal Partner

All of us has their own taste in choosing a partner, a person who has all the traits that we are looking for as its our right to expect that we want to be with someone whom we dreamed of. Its not wrong to find a person whom we want to be on our side forever who will fulfill our dreams and fantasies and make it in real. So what are the common things that we like to have for a partner? Is it that this person should be handsome/beautiful, white/fair, intelligent, kind-hearted, caring, who knows how to deal with all the things, rich, and so on and so forth...

They say that we're very lucky if we found an exact person whom we want to have till the end. But the next question is...are you the perfect girl/guy he/she's been dreaming of? This will make these things more complicated. Sometimes he/she's the one that we're looking for but we can't make them feel complete and contented with our presence and the love that we can give, and these are the reasons that will hurt our feelings for sure. We can't do anything to make that person love us the way we wanted them to be. We can't force them to love us on the same intensity that we have for them, but the truth is we always expect something in return from the person we truly love. We have a very tiny posibility that we will get what we wanted so at the end we just get along with someone that is not the ideal partner that we're looking for just to make sure that he/she will make us feel loved and cared.

This is a clear illusion to find someone who's perfect for our taste as that person has his/her own way of thinking, different opinion and perspective. This is the time that LOVE will come in the scene. It will make all these lacking be complete for us to be happy and contented with the person we're in a relationship with. It's a matter of respecting one another's flaws and differences and embrace the negative side of your guy/girl. Thanks for reading!

@sis mayiiii, happy to read your comment on my blog again, yes we have to feel more comfortable with our loved ones, and it should like that only coz if we are not open to communicate with the person who is so close to us then who else will? Understanding our partner is not that easy to do coz we have different views with them but we have to do it if we want to make the relationship work. Trust is the most important thing, as far as I experienced this is the very first thing that we have to practice, to trust our partner fully, coz if not sure you will always doubt him/her. Thanks!

@noas sis, so do i need to look and think for more than one? Lolz! Sad to say but I'm just waiting for my only one...hehehe..thanks sis!

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Mishaikh March 21, 2015 13:32

"what goes around comes around"?

That's very true MaYa.
oOo_MaYa_oOo March 21, 2015 6:24

That's so true Mishaikh one should be ideal to his/her partner, and it should be always in a give and take basis all the time. Have you heard about this saying "what goes around comes around"?
Mishaikh March 18, 2015 16:47

If I want to find an ideal partner for myself, for this I should have become an ideal partner for her, too.

One side idealism does not go far.
Panji Dananjaya January 27, 2015 6:21

you are welcome maya but among those a real friends are those who know all your flaws, but still choose to be with you when others leave.
oOo_MaYa_oOo January 27, 2015 5:58

@panji: you can't stop whom will get into your life, some will just pass by and leave, some will stay...you just have to take care of those people who want to stay with you. thanks panji!
Panji Dananjaya January 27, 2015 5:50

sometimes good friends just pop out without warning
oOo_MaYa_oOo January 22, 2015 6:20

@legend, if these two are out of the relationship then it will not work anymore. even if you're with your partner for years...the respect should be always there. trust too is important as if its not there then you'll end up doubting him/her. thanks for dropping by my blog.
legend January 22, 2015 6:16

Trust & respect are the fundamental material to keep alive any relationship,any one of its lacking can bread wrong road. I love your below sentence...

"if you want to have a successful relationship you should be close to your partner like best friends, u dont have to hide anything from each other so even the love fades the friendship is still there to keep you intact."
oOo_MaYa_oOo January 20, 2015 2:06

@vision, I really love this quote....its easy to fall inlove with a person and its easy to have a relationship but its so hard to work it out especially when its a long distance relationship. Both person should do their part to make it work, I've been in a relationship that made me too vulnerable that I have to surpass. Thanks for having time to read my profile and my blog. God bless!
oOo_MaYa_oOo January 19, 2015 12:54

@sis mayiiii, happy to read your comment on my blog again, yes we have to feel more comfortable with our loved ones, and it should like that only coz if we are not open to communicate with the person who is so close to us then who else will? Understanding our partner is not that easy to do coz we have different views with them but we have to do it if we want to make the relationship work. Trust is the most important thing, as far as I experienced this is the very first thing that we have to practice, to trust our partner fully, coz if not sure you will always doubt him/her. Thanks!

@noas sis, so do i need to look and think for more than one? Lolz! Sad to say but I'm just waiting for my only one...hehehe..thanks sis!

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