Emotional Separation

 What are the causes of emotional separation between the spouses? The Reasons remain locked inside the rooms, and they harm the spouses. because of their privacy and the embarrassment behind revealing them. Apart from that, they may cause serious psychological damage or pain.   

If they divorce, that is not good for their children later. Could it be the failure on the wedding night? Or is it the lack of harmonization between them. The intimate relationship starts with big love and suddenly after the coming of the children, the emotional attraction is not there anymore. Some wives tell their husbands to stop flirting with them or say any love words. Putting in their minds that they are no longer young for love or even making love.

Some spouses treat one another as if they were colleagues at work or some establishment. It is true that they respect each other but there no love at all between them. Unfortunately, husbands seek other means to satisfy their desires. They try at work, from the internet and the different social media. Eventually, separation is inevitable.

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  • Loool... Dara!!!  A failure in the wedding night?? Hahahh... that's unacceptable and unforgivable  even if he took too much drinks  :D

    • El guapo Estanis, my dear handsome fellow, Mrl Estanis, I want to tell you this, I remember on my first wedding night on my third marriage, I was tired of the party and it was very cold in a February night. I wanted to sleep and do nothing, and I told my family about it. I sensed in their eyes a no answer to that. To tell the truth, I was confused and I told myself that I had to do it, and I did it with all that fatigue and tiredness. 

    • hahah that can be postponed if he drank too much, love is tolerance as well

    • Lol! Mahoana Rabarivelo? Postponing that night would make lots of question marks. Thanks, Raba, for your nice comment.  

  • Marriage has to be worked upon especially after the honeymoon period.  Mutual respect understanding love compassion and kindness is very much important through out. If we one does not nurture each others emotions and the partner seeks elsewhere the quench for understanding one has to blame one own self for the lack if communication and breakdown 

     

    • Nanri mod. Nadira! Exactly, mutual respect is very important and the couple should be aware of the needs of the other part. Each person is responsible. No need for treason in this noble relation. It is a sacred bond and we have to be very patient and careful about it. Thanks, mod. Nadira for this nice comment. 

  • Hello Gino, sometimes marriages fail because there are violences from husbands and wives so they have to be their life divided..... There are too much bad stories that I don't recommend you to see in your life....

     

    • Ad esempio Valorosa17! Dear Val, thanks for your nice advice, and for your first comment on emotional separation.

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