A cute baby girl, a little girl, a teenager chick, a woman, a mom a granny. A circle of life, a life proces that has been repeating for thousands years. Even now at this moment many of them are dying while others are being born or fighting against something what bothers them. Anyway, let´s focus on a WOMAN.
How do you see a woman? As somebody who is here always for you to support you? As somebody who is always able to give you full service starting with cosy clean house ending with making tasty dinner? As somebody who hugged you, kissed you and spent the nights with you when you were sick? Or as somebody who is just after money and doesn't care about anything else? Million questions and of course million stories and views on percieving a woman and her role in the society.
Despite the facts such as, where we come from, what is our culture or religion, I would say there is one thing all have in common. Many, many and again many women around us lack something... hmmm... What is it??? Money? Love? Education? Not at all. In my opinion it is... APPRECIATION. As for the partnership so many men feel like: "Ohhh, of course she knows I love her, it is obvious, since she is my wife." Honestly speaking such attitude is pretty sick because a woman needs actions, not just to live life full of guessing and untold thoughts, these won't make her happy or satisfied. With knowing, things she is doing for others are appreciated, she feels it is worth it, it gives her motivation, inner energy to make people around her happy, which vice versa makes her happy either!
Some might opose that to appreciate a woman one needs extra money etc. but I wouldn't say so. Even the simple things like flower from the meadow, nicely said thank you with smile on the face, a poem, little help... these are irreplaceable gestures that touch almost every woman's heart and make her feel loved, no matter if she is mom, sister, friend or wife. Besides this all nice I have mentioned I am aware of those, who prefer money and I hope that you guys are smart enough to recognize them and avoid them.
To sum it up, I would say that a woman would just like to get back something from this all she gave you...
Comments
My honor for woman, as a man yeah we need a woman for our life.. As our love, as a friend and all. Even God has created eve to Adam. That's why we don't need to doubt you all. Woman.. Thanks
I totally agree with you Luci. Of course men have the same need but we women need a little more attention because we are from our nature more sensitive, maybe insecure also and so we ask simple sweet actions like these you mention. Thanks for the nice blog, always well written!
Afro, thanx a lot for liking this topic and yeah.. let's take care of each other (women) :)
You chose very good topic..clap..clap..clap! Really they need everything what other people need and want to have in their life. But, I have seen many women who did not get back properly. So, we should take care.
Vision, hahaha, yeah it takes a lot of time to understand us but it takes also time to women to understand men :-D thanx for stopping by and leaving comment :-)
Cinoreeta, thanx for your comment and I think, it isnt about telling a women three times a day I love you .. actually - these are just words, it is about actions, that was my point :-)
Lucia, thanx for liking it! I do agree but we cant force them, they should do it because they want it and if they are lazy.. then we should kick them ha? :D
James, thanx for stopping by and leaving your comment. Of course there are good and bad women, the same with men. However, sometimes it is about the character, sometimes no appreciation, no interest of a man could have made bad women of them.. who knows...
setareh, thanx for your comment and I like the way you showed us what nice personality is hidden inside of you. Nobody who would be after money but after the character...
Estanis, yeahhhh and that is what I am talking here about :-D sooo.. I hope thanx to my blog you decided to buy a flower for your wife and mom !!! and... thanx for your comment :-)
Mary, thanx for your comment and yeah it should be the same for both genders but somehow I feel inside that we women have it worse than they do and that is why we should be appreciated :-D even in the middle age men were singing under the balcony to get a chick and then appreciated her with love songs etc. :-D it all is somehow gone but of course we moved on and we live in the 21st century and consider showing too much emotions in the public as something emberassing..
Great blog ,Luci!....but i will let the men to comment on it because sometimes they need to remember more often to appreciate and give more attention to their women....! :)
It can be stressing for men :/
Well, since I'm a woman, I agree what you say, of course!! :D
But anyway, I think we should stop having this kind of biased thinking ... I prefer to talk about 'we' as 'people', without making gender differences... because we all (men and women) like attentions, nice words, nice gestures... And both genders can be good or bad, money/luxury lovers, emotional, rational, selfish... All in all, we (men and women) are not that different.
Thanks for your blog post Luci
@Estanis! Where is my cake?! ¬¬
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