What do we need from a friend? What kind of person could be your friend? If I can choose my friend, I want a person with good manner, kindhearted and good looking. Cheer up my days and support whatever I do –as long as it’s good off course-. What can I do? I can’t choose my friend, neither me nor my friends choose. They become my friends because they meant to be. There was a saying “show me your friend and I can tell who you are” –to be honest I got this from Mishaikh’s blog-. I’ll show you my friend so you can define what kind of person I am.
My closest friend is younger than me I call him ‘Best’, a teenager who is my pupil. He has bad manner and uncontrollable act. Best is talk active and childish. Caused me so many troubles and like to shout while mad. When my blog got featured about a month ago, I have showed him and see how he reacted upon that.
“Do you think I care of what you did there on facebook?” said Best
“This is EC” I said,
“Whatever!”
See that? How annoying! I was mad, yes! He seemed don’t care about me, expected him to support me? “In your dream” he said,… uuuuurgggghhhh!!! I am gonna die young.
Once I asked what can make me so attached to him, Best said because he is sexy –I admit this little bastard has pretty face, lol-. I have tried to get rid of this relentless boy but in the end he always there, stand by me in the time I need the most.
I rarely meet Best and kind of not in touch. But when I am in a bad time, Best is the first person who make a call and ask “what’s up?” in the right time. This is not happened once or twice but every time I get a problem. I tell him what is going on because he would mad if I refuse and he suddenly turns into a good boy listen to my story as he listens to a fairy tale. Then, he will do nothing but go away after said “you will be ok” –Well, he said that my mum is gonna kill me when I told him I had a problem with her-. This way is not solve my problem but I have courage to face it.
I don’t know how Best know I have problem and he said he has no idea like me. I don’t know if Best even listen, I don’t know whether he cares or not. I don’t even dare to ask because I know he will shout at me as usually he mad. But I am sure he is a little angel God send to share my pain. My secrets are safe with him and he asks nothing as payment –but free English course, I guess-.
Soo, that’s my friend you can use to define me, I call him Best because he is the best among my friends. This month he will turn 16th and I’d like to express my thanks towards him, thanks to all the problems he gave, thanks for the awesomeness when I taught a smart boy, thanks for giving me a chance to have a special best friend. Happy Birthday, Best.
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Thanks for your comment :)
Thanks for your explanation, that's eye opener for me :)
Rather than argue, I prefer let him win, lol. But I do agree with you. Friends want the best for us.
friendship is the one relation with whom we can share our those thoughts, sorrows, and happiness which we can't share with our family and they give us advice (sometime their ideas are stupid) as well as make fun of us which help us to forget our sorrows...:) best friend knows by our eyes whether we are happy or sad they catch our sadness in no time..! best and true friends is one of blessing..
you have a really best friend. may you and best always be happy in your life.
Hey Peppo, very complexed, but nice relationship.
I have once gone through with this situation when I was a private teacher, it was a girl in my case.
Hi Peppo. I like friends who argue and disagree with me many times , it means they want us to make our progress.
Best wishes for Best and You
Sometimes I think that those bad behaviors are just a mask, so he might just pretending. But friend is someone who give you total freedom to become yourself, so this is maybe the real him. That's made me confuse, somehow.
Thanks for wishing him, Rhaani and Elen, he would love it greeted by girls, lol :D
Sometimes we can't express what inside us. Thank you!
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