*Do you take these steps before speaking?
*How many of the people you know consider these steps before speaking?
OR
*Are you the kind of a person who thinks after speaking?!
That awkward moment when you are thinking:
"Oh gosh,why did I even say that?!"
"I wish I could take my words back!"
"I really hurt him/her!"
"There is no way they are gonna hire me!"
,...
Almost all of us have experienced those awkward moments!
BUT
People who speak without thinking can be annoying!
AND
People who speak without thinking can't make good listeners either!
SO
If you want to be an admirable friend,spouse,lecturer,president...or even if you want to rule the world!!! :D just use your words wisely,be laconic and think twice before you utter any words! before you speak!
Comments
verve it`s me first talk then think :D
then regret .:D
@Jeocandaaa dear,yeah,happened to me too! and controlling emotions equals thinking I guess.one can control his/her emotions through thinking,don't you think? :)
@Hadifa good for your friends! ;)
@Tema that's very wise of you! :]
@Haniiiijaaaaaan thank you,sometimes I need to be reminded too! :)))
@Mehrnooooosh azizam,the problem is not with your PC!it's that I approve the comments before they are published! :D by the way you are great at coining words! I mean "writative". lol
and yeah we have all been there,but the worst mistake in my opinion is talking about something we have no idea about!ignoring the fact that"Is it true?" many people do it in this site and maybe that's what made me write this blog! and invite people to thinking! and at the same time reviewed it for myself too! :D
Verve darling thanks for the substantial reminder of best , i wish myself Good Luck as well :)
hi verve ,
well , i will try to do , to be good friend.
thank you for the nice advices.
@Wayne Yup! :)
@Asma too much of anything can be harmful(like Avril Lavign's songs) :P
Thinking must be productive and the reason we think is to have a good discussion not to blow the discussion! :-!
I'm so glad to have you as a friend Asma,but now I'm thinking ooh asma never listens to me! lol kidding! ^_^
Naveeeeed!who are you talking about?! do I know him/her?! :-O
Just wait for my comments on your profile :P
And yeah I did an awful lot of thinking...man it was hard! :D
You're welcome niao.sorry if I didn't spell your name correctly! :)
Thanks for your comment
My sweet remaaaa :D
I wholeheartedly agree with you about friendly talks
You are never annoying,but sincere and kind ;)
Well,usually I think too much in what I am going to say that I don't really pay attention to what the other person is saying. Therefore, the conversation is lost lol
So wise and so wonderful blog,thank you for sharing this dear verve :D
thinking carefully before you speaking
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