Life has taught me many lessons which caused positive effect on my personality and thoughts. One of the lessons I have learned from life is that change never comes by force nor does it come by demand. When we accept someone after being altered, we lose the real one and lead the whole life being fool with the artificial one. So, accepting someone as what (s)he is acceptance indeed.
In my sight, the genuine, fair and sincere people are highly respectable despite having heterogeneous thoughts and personalities rather than those who pretend to be on my wavelengths. A pseudo person is not hidden for a long time. He reveals himself/herself when you need him. Therefore, I introduce myself as a simplest person in a new place be it academic institution or workplace, so as to avoid materialists and hypocrites.
But it doesn't mean that all the critics are the sincere and fair. Most of them are jealous who can't see any progress in us. However, they are also important persons who help us recognise who stands besides us. Some of my friends got me wrong thought that I would feel great and appreciate them for their retaliation to my insincere critics on my behalf, whereas I, myself, remain silent as long as I smell jealousy from criticism, so how can I allow my friends to respond them for me. However, those who change their opinions or turn against me on mere verbose criticism having no proofs, unleash me from bondage of friendship. I let them go with a smile on my face thanking to God the Almighty for getting me rid of faked people.
This pertains people in real life. You might have different experiences and observations.
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After all we are human and erroneous creatures who hardly come up to the others' expectations. So, arousing other expectation can endanger our relation in future. Likewise, in true relation there is no demand and no complaint.
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Good topic Arif!!! Thanks for sharing. I find that being forewarned is being forearmed.....I think we know when someone is friending us because of what we might or what they think we might do for them. I feel sorry for those people actually, for what they try and get from the supposed friendship may help them in the world.....but to me they sell their souls as we call it...….but I will say....I do love the real people....those that lie low and are not flashy, those with kind hearts and just good people through and through.....these are the one's to appreciate......and very hard to find!!! Have a great day!!!!!
Yes, they are good pretentious as long as you are very impressive and beneficial to them. When you give up show off, they'll stop pretending
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its hard to get rid of fake people because they are really good pretending