I`ll tell u abt my love story. I and he were friends in high school. He sat in front of me abt 2 tables. We had a good friendship. And suddenly, when I was grade 11 ( in my country, we have 12 grades, and after that we will go to the university), he studied abroad. And I realised that I fall in love with him. But I`ve never told him abt that. I`ve hidden my love for 5 years.Becoz I always think I dont deserve for him. And Im not brave enough to express my love. Im scare of failure.But unfortunely, I told my best friend abt that, he`s also a bestfriend of my dreaming lover. And he told my dreaming lover that I have still loved him. He said that he knew my love. But He doesnt think now I have still loved him. And he also doesnt have girlfriend at the moment. My bestfriend set a meeting for both of us next Februrary.I`ll have a chance to meet him after 5 years.But wat I have to do ? Failure, hopeless. and so on,Im afraid of we both changed.Scare a lotttttttt!!!!!!
@ Nadiyah : tks a lot, im very happy to add u as a friend, :)
@ faridahmad Afghan & forget me not : i knew that i can always be friends with him. But I didnt meet him for 3 years. U know time passed ppl changed. And abt my love, my awareness. Im scared of being hurted in love. And maybe im cute or sth but Im not his kind of dreaming lover. I want to dig my love at the deepest place of my heart. So confused!
Hello siunhanden,
You take no risk to meet him, if you feel your feelings are not shared, you can always be friends. You're afraid that both of you have changed ? What do you mean ? That your feelings could have changed or the way you both look now compared to five years ago ? You're scared of "failure" ! Don't be, who never tries, anything can not succeed...
Be positive, put a big smile on your face and things will be all right :))
Wishing you all the best,
Manuela
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@ faridahmad Afghan & forget me not : i knew that i can always be friends with him. But I didnt meet him for 3 years. U know time passed ppl changed. And abt my love, my awareness. Im scared of being hurted in love. And maybe im cute or sth but Im not his kind of dreaming lover. I want to dig my love at the deepest place of my heart. So confused!
You take no risk to meet him, if you feel your feelings are not shared, you can always be friends. You're afraid that both of you have changed ? What do you mean ? That your feelings could have changed or the way you both look now compared to five years ago ? You're scared of "failure" ! Don't be, who never tries, anything can not succeed...
Be positive, put a big smile on your face and things will be all right :))
Wishing you all the best,
Manuela
my advice for you :
" the greater risk you can take in life is to risk nothing" (unknown)
so, try it ... I hope you get it, good luck!
-Nadiyah-