A fault finder is a person who leads his life in troubles and takes the blessing and helps be sent to him for granted. There is a famous quote, "do good and have good", but it doesn't apply to the fault finder. With him how much you are kind and polite, he, at the end, will put you in hot water. Let me enunciate it by sharing a fairly-tale.Once upon a time, there was a wounded loin lying under a tree. A goat happened to pass by him. When the goat saw the loin breathing convulsively due to severe injuries, he couldn't help helping him. He fetched some herbals and applied them to the injured organs of him. After some days, he began relieving from the pain. As soon as he was completely recovered, the goat run away from him lest the loin should attack at him.Few months went by, the goat was injured by the hunter and lying in the tree sobbing. The loin happened to pass by there. When he took view of him, he recognised him. He was the same goat who helped him in his need. So, he left no stone unturned to cure him. A kite which was descrying the whole situation, was bewildered. It came to the goat with the curiosity to ascertain the fact. The goat told him the whole story and said at the end, "do good and have good".One day while flying, the kite espied that a rat was hampered on small rock in the middle of the river and found complete helpless. At once, the kite remembered the advice of the goat, "do good and have good". He grasped the rat and took to the safe side. He, then, clutched it with his wings to warm up. Meanwhile, the rat gnawed his wings. When he tried to fly, he fell down. He, at once, got furious. He waited until his wings grew. He immediately flied to the goat and expressed his grief, "you did good, you were rewarded good, but when I did so, I was punished, why?" The goat enquired it the reason of its disappointment. The kite told him the response of the rat to it on its kindness. What the goat replied is written in golden words that everyone responds to the kindness, politeness, and support as per his calibre.A fault finder is just like a rat which puts you in troubles by putting aside your all kindness and humbleness.
Fault finder implies pessimist. He always remains unrest due to the diseases at his heart and mind. Over trifling matters, he feels he's going to lose self assumed battle. May Allah rest his soul in peace! I mean recover him from such diseases.
My friend, to live without such people is one of life's chief aims. Unfortunately, every where we go to, we find them. I think the envy made his throne in their sick hearts. God bless you.
Well my dear sister's brightened my blog by her unique style of commenting. I liked your summary of my blog, but question you why "sometimes" you love faultfinder, always love them, but first keep yourself safe.
"If you can't find any thing positive in me, please see the doctor as the life for blind is so difficult. I pity you" quoted by Arif.
Dear Brother! Nice blog! I like to read from you. your writng expressing a moral lesson.
A faultfinder always tends to find others fault instead of fixing their own. Its their nature, may never can be mended such habit but resist to stick on it. You can't please them, even if you do good things, they will find the wrong from the good . They stop thinking about to treat people with kindness.. but sometimes I love them because they help me to find out my mistake and it will help me to correct the mistake.
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Thank you so much for the comment.
Main chooha pasand nahi. We have a saying here, do the good deeds and throw them into the sea. Thanks for your sharing Mr. Arif Saeed.
My friend, to live without such people is one of life's chief aims. Unfortunately, every where we go to, we find them. I think the envy made his throne in their sick hearts. God bless you.
Don't think what others think or find in us. You got what I mean is best for me. Thank for the comment.
Dear Brother! Your quotation has a true power. If fault finder read it frequently, may there possibility to change their habit a bit.
Hope you are pretty well, brother! Stay healthy and happy always.
"If you can't find any thing positive in me, please see the doctor as the life for blind is so difficult. I pity you" quoted by Arif.
Thank you my dear sister for nice comment.
Dear Brother! Nice blog! I like to read from you. your writng expressing a moral lesson.
A faultfinder always tends to find others fault instead of fixing their own. Its their nature, may never can be mended such habit but resist to stick on it. You can't please them, even if you do good things, they will find the wrong from the good . They stop thinking about to treat people with kindness.. but sometimes I love them because they help me to find out my mistake and it will help me to correct the mistake.
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