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1/1/11 - The Sad Day

Hope everybody had an amazing new year celebrations.But for few people the first day of the 'Happy new year' turned out to be different.

I went to home with a lot of excitement and joy to celebrate the new year day with my family, but 1st Jan turned out to be a grieving day for us. On 1st Jan early morning(I was half asleep) I overheard my father talking to my brother about my relative,(name : chandu, my Brother-in-law.Elder brother of my brother's wife) that he died in a car accident.

It happened in the early hours(around 3:30am) on 1st Jan.They were 5 people in the car including chandu.Luck did not favor him, he was the only person who died in the accident and rest of them survived.The driver was in coma, but he came to his senses after two days (on 3rd Jan).

What happened on 31st December???
It was around 9PM and my cousin was waiting in his home to attend the mid-night prayer meeting in their church at 10PM. Surprisingly,few of his friends came to his house at 9:30pm.They met each other after a long time so they planned to go out to celebrate the new year.Also they asked chandu to throw a party for them because he got a job as Marine Engineer and also because his younger sister(younger to my sister-in-law) got engaged.He was hesitating, but his friends compelled him and he agreed to give them a party.So he informed his mom (my aunt) and said he would return as early as possible.

It was late night,he did not return.My aunt was bit worried.Chandu's sister tried to reach him on phone but since it was 31st December the cell network was very busy. At 3:30am they(my aunt) received a phone call.It was him. He wished them 'Happy new year' and said that he is returning home in a car(Toyota innova).He was still talking to them and all of a sudden the call failed.My aunt tried to call him back again, but because of the busy network she could not reach him.However,she felt a bit relaxed because he informed her that he's returning home.

 

1st January 2011, Time : 3:30am - 5 am
Chandu and his friends were returning to their homes in a Toyota Innova.They were drunk and were  driving at high speed(nearly 150kmph) in a freeway/Highway.Some road construction work was in progress on one road side of the freeway divider,so that road was closed and the traffic was diverted to the road on the other side of the freeway divider which makes it a two-way traffic road temporarily.A lorry driver coming in opposite direction was not aware that it was a two-way traffic road and he too was driving at high speed.After a while, the vehicles ran into each other at great speeds.

Chandu was in the back seat of the car with his friends sitting on either side of him.He was making calls to everyone to convey his wishes to them.The impact was so high that even though he's in the back seat he was pushed right into the front glass of the car.The glass of the car is of fiber type.When such a glass is hit it doesn't break into pieces like an ordinary glass.Instead it cracks at the point where it is hit.Chandu died on the spot with his head hanging out of the front glass of car.The two friends sitting next to him dashed against their front seats during the impact and survived the impact with some minor injuries.The guy sitting next to the driver wore his seat belt so he too survived.But the driver got hit on his head by the steering wheel and he went into coma.The survived ones called to their homes and left the place.Next day morning at 5am, few of the people returning from a church spotted a man with his head hanging outside the front glass of the car unattended by anyone.So they went near to the accident scene and identified the man as chandu their church member and called the police.The lorry driver fled away soon after the accident and the police are still searching for him.

 

On 1st January early morning 6am,
Chandu's younger sister woke up to a heavy knock at the door.It was one of chandu's friend.He said he wanted to talk to her father.But my uncle was not at home as he goes out for a walk every morning.So he asked for her father's number but chandu's sister did not give the phone number and asked him to leave a message to her and that she'll inform him.But the guy did not say anything and turned around to leave. Chandu's sister asked him a bit seriously about what had happened and why he wanted to talk only to her father this early morning.So finally that guy broke the ice, 'Your brother met with an accident and he died on the spot'.She first thought it was a joke.But that guy started weeping and told her what had happened. She too started crying.She informed her father when he returned home, but to her mother(in the kitchen)she said that he met with an accident and got severely injured.After hearing the news of his son's death, Chandu's father returned to his room weeping silently.

7am - 2pm
Chandu's sister informed us on phone and we started immediately to there place(it's 2hrs journey).Somehow all the relatives came to know about the accident.Everybody reached chandu's home.At this point, chandu's mother, seeing all the relatives in her home realized what might have actually happened to her son.She wept a lot.

2pm-5pm
Chandu's body was brought to home in an ambulance. It was rolled up in a mat full of blood. Autopsy was done in a government hospital since it was a road accident case.There was a big crack on his head and there was profuse bleeding from his body.His face was fully disfigured.So we paid some amount to a doctor to prepare him for his burial.The doctor did a good work and he managed to make chandu's face look as it was before the accident.At 5pm we buried him.

I sincerely request each and everyone to never drink and drive. Because the ultimate sufferers are the parents and the family members who have to live their rest of the lives with the thought that their son/daughter/husband/wife/friend/brother/sister is no more for them.

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My View - Why should I worship God?

This is a continuation of my blog 'why should I worship God?'.So, before reading this blog I request you to read 'why should I worship God?' first.The following is totally my view and realization of why we should worship GOD. If you feel like this is a new theory, please ignore it.But if you feel there's something you have learned then I really appreciate you for understanding it.Worshiping God makes us LIKE HIM.Praying/praising/singing/talking/thanking/thinking about God every time,eventually transforms us into a divine(Godly)person.A divine person does everything his GOD does.He is an exact replica of his GOD.He becomes a Son of God. A friend of God. A man of GOD.I'm not saying he is GOD. He becomes like GOD in heart and skin because GOD manifests himself through this divine person.He becomes compassionate, merciful, caring, helping,loving and even a healer(there are people).Heaven rests in his heart.During worship, he doesn't implore(beg) GOD for material things, like food, water, money, shelter, clothing. Because GOD provides it to him even if he doesn't ask for it.Instead,he asks GOD for his knowledge, wisdom, strength, patience,love and to make him more like his almighty.A divine person never worships GOD just for the sake of having a good next life(heaven or paradise) or it's his duty to worship him or because God asked him to do it!!He worships God because 'Love for God' compels(forces) him to be with GOD.Firstly, Why does he love God?Because he has experienced GOD.HOW did he experience God?By worshiping God.Why did he feel like worshiping God at first?Because he wanted to know who GOD is.Why did he wanted to know who God is?Because he believes that this universe(including him) exists because of GOD.It's belief. A STRONG belief that GOD EXISTS is required to know GOD.Conclusion: Worship God to experience(synonyms: feel,receive,see) God and to be like him.Forgive me if this text offends anyone.Saying the same prayers, singing the same song, repeating the same words in prayer everyday makes your worship futile(ineffective,mechanical) after a while.Ever realized?
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Why should I worship GOD?

Worship God.This is what my parents have been saying to me since my childhood.I used to do it in my childhood for some material gains,but now I don't understand what does 'Worship God' means.In my entire life this is what I learned from elders, preachers or from so called Godly people:if I don't worship GOD, I'll fail in my exams.if I don't worship GOD, I'll get no food to eat.if I don't worship GOD, I'll get no money to live.if I don't worship GOD, I'll not get a good(looking) life partner.if I don't worship GOD, I'll fail in my life.if I don't worship GOD, I'll will be thrown into hell.So God Punishes me, torments me if I don't worship him.If any of the above reasons is true, then the very meaning of GOD goes wrong.God brings rain on the good and bad.God provides food to the rich and poor.God is all good and treats everyone equally.God protects everyone from trouble.So if God protects me even if I'm bad and not worshiping him,WHY SHOULD I WORSHIP GOD?ORShould I worship God, because he is my creator?Did he create me to work for him all my life. That is the only reason why I was created?Then I would say GOD is selfish.He's treats me as his slave.Forgive me, if the above text offends anyone.But please think. WHY?Let not such an act be something mechanical in our daily life.Let's find out the true meaning of 'Worship of God'.I sincerely request everyone to answer this question. WHY ARE YOU WORSHIPING GOD?FYI: I'm not an atheist or a preacher. I'm just a seeker of GOD.Continuation:http://my.englishclub.com/profiles/blogs/my-view-why-should-i-worship
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Funny moment

Funny moment:Hi All,This blog is about the funny moments.I request you all to share one BEST funny moment that you came across in your life.Moments just the thought of which makes you smile even NOW.Here is One of my best funny moments:During the first year of graduation, as you all know, the juniors are ragged by their seniors.Those were the days when the government in our state started imposing laws against ragging in all the colleges.But my university authorities realized that there should be some communication between the seniors and juniors and at the same time ragging should be controlled.So, the authorities came up with something called 'Interactive session' between seniors and juniors, from 5Pm-6Pm after the class hours.If a senior was seen with a junior in other than those timings,then a strict action was taken against him.This moment happened during one such 'Interactive Session's:I was with my friends(about 10 of them) and then suddenly we heard a loud voice made by a senior, asking us to form a line sideways(touching each other hands).Then, the senior went back and forth the line two times looking at each person like a Major in Army would look at his troops.Finally, he stopped in front of my friend named Sahu and asked..Senior:I told you to learn a song. Did you learn?Sahu: yes sir. I learned. (frightened and quickly said) wwhich song do u want me to sing??English song(in soft voice) orrrr HINDI song(A bit loud with his eyes bigger)?Senior: ahaaa!so you learned two songs!!OK..OK...sing a English song.Sahu: English song!!.k..English song??...I don't know sir.Senior:confused and surprised,raises his eyebrows and yells at him ,'U don't know..'Looks at our faces and then looks at Sahu's face and says'U stupid ..why did u give me options to choose?'Sahu : I thought... you would ask only HINDI song to sing.Senior:(angrily, dragging each word..) Buttt wwwhhyyy diddd u ggive mme options to choose when you know only one song????Sahu :!!..mm..mm...(looks at the ground, to us and then looks at the senior and says..) sorry sir.Later, the frustrated senior told Sahu to write that HINDI song for 1000 times as punishment.We all laughed. laughed a lot when we saw the way our senior got disappointed.That was the cherry on the cake. We still recollect that moment and laugh a lot.ThanksNareshP.S. I tried my best to explain the situation. I'm sorry if it is not funny..Anyways, it is your turn now. Share with me your best funny moment.
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