Nice topic dear...
To be spotaneous is not easy..Its a god gift i feel..
Unfortunately I am not a spontaneous gal . I feel bad abt it...
I need sometime to prepare for anything..
Time means i will not take hours of time...for anything to answer in a discussion or in a conversation i cannot answer immediately..i will give a thought for a moment and then i will answr...I cannot participate and do the things spontaneously...
Have a Nice day...
Hi Zeina:
Emilie wrote "It is something you created with it by God", when you are spontaneous you offer the best on you and it is a feeling of connection with the universe; I think that sometimes it is better to be spontaneous but, still you need to know what you are talking about, I am talking about conversation. I have a friend that belongs to a church and he talk to the congregation every two weeks, one day before this, he is always anxious about it, because he doesn't want to fail, actually they always tell him it was great, most of the time he talk things that he didn't prepare for it. What I am trying to tell is that is good to be spontaneous but you need to prepare yourself depend of the circumstance and always asking for that connection with God, universe, self.
zeina said:
hey Jordan ... i think people usually feel free with a person who is spontaneous because they perceive his or her real face ....and i agree with u that sometimes a person's spontaneity will get him in troubles.. in addition, we have to regard what Eduardo said, about with whom to be spontaneous ... yes , i really like to talk about spontaneity and i'm happy to find a suitable place for that here ...
JORDAN said:
thanks Zeine for this contreversial topic. As a matter of fact, spontaneity is overflowing of feelings and demeanors of indivisual. i mean if somebody is spontaneous, he will be rash and not reserved, as result of this spontaneity, he/she will be in trouble. so this is my view, i hope to raise discussion here. do you agree or disagree zeina and other guys?
hey Jordan ... i think people usually feel free with a person who is spontaneous because they perceive his or her real face ....and i agree with u that sometimes a person's spontaneity will get him in troubles.. in addition, we have to regard what Eduardo said, about with whom to be spontaneous ... yes , i really like to talk about spontaneity and i'm happy to find a suitable place for that here ...
JORDAN said:
thanks Zeine for this contreversial topic. As a matter of fact, spontaneity is overflowing of feelings and demeanors of indivisual. i mean if somebody is spontaneous, he will be rash and not reserved, as result of this spontaneity, he/she will be in trouble. so this is my view, i hope to raise discussion here. do you agree or disagree zeina and other guys?
know what eduardo .. i feel that if a person is spontaneous .. he shouldnt think that way .. cuz people will see him as a real person and he is not hiding anything inside his real face .. so they will excuse him for what he does i guess ... this is what i'm thinking of actually ...
have a great time ...
Eduardo Palacios said:
I think to be spontaneous is not that easy, with my family and friends is not that hard but when you are with a person of authority or a client sometimes you have to think twice, in my case most of the time I am too spontaneous and later on, I am like, why did I say that. I wrote this and I now I want to change it. I won't.
thanks Zeine for this contreversial topic. As a matter of fact, spontaneity is overflowing of feelings and demeanors of indivisual. i mean if somebody is spontaneous, he will be rash and not reserved, as result of this spontaneity, he/she will be in trouble. so this is my view, i hope to raise discussion here. do you agree or disagree zeina and other guys?
I think to be spontaneous is not that easy, with my family and friends is not that hard but when you are with a person of authority or a client sometimes you have to think twice, in my case most of the time I am too spontaneous and later on, I am like, why did I say that. I wrote this and I now I want to change it. I won't.
yes Emi..i think that those people seem to have something special .. and if u just want to be spontaneous ... u will not gain it ..'cuz its something u cant have a control on ...
and i agree with u that those people are not stupid at all...
thx a lot for replying ...
Hello Zeina:
Thanks alot for this intersting idea...I don't think being spontaneous is something you can pretend to have it...It is something you created with it by God...Those people who are spontaneous ..are so kind..Not stupid as many people think...
Thanks ...
Emi.
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To be spotaneous is not easy..Its a god gift i feel..
Unfortunately I am not a spontaneous gal . I feel bad abt it...
I need sometime to prepare for anything..
Time means i will not take hours of time...for anything to answer in a discussion or in a conversation i cannot answer immediately..i will give a thought for a moment and then i will answr...I cannot participate and do the things spontaneously...
Have a Nice day...
Emilie wrote "It is something you created with it by God", when you are spontaneous you offer the best on you and it is a feeling of connection with the universe; I think that sometimes it is better to be spontaneous but, still you need to know what you are talking about, I am talking about conversation. I have a friend that belongs to a church and he talk to the congregation every two weeks, one day before this, he is always anxious about it, because he doesn't want to fail, actually they always tell him it was great, most of the time he talk things that he didn't prepare for it. What I am trying to tell is that is good to be spontaneous but you need to prepare yourself depend of the circumstance and always asking for that connection with God, universe, self.
zeina said:
JORDAN said:
have a great time ...
Eduardo Palacios said:
and i agree with u that those people are not stupid at all...
thx a lot for replying ...
Thanks alot for this intersting idea...I don't think being spontaneous is something you can pretend to have it...It is something you created with it by God...Those people who are spontaneous ..are so kind..Not stupid as many people think...
Thanks ...
Emi.