did you have the same experiences that often at a loss of eating when lunch time at the noon of working day?

often have no ideas where we should to go for lunch? you got boring as soon as thinking about that restautant you were used to.

i did weekly meal plan for myself.

monday is coffee day, go nearby find a quiet place, have a cup of coffee and spaghetti, forgetting that i have long four working days behind me...

tuesday, traditional chinese food, i am get used to these hard working days slowly...

wednesday, increasingly, heavy working tasks make me forget personal things and leisure time, i can not stop to reply email, writing report and participate in various meetings, i felt so unconfortable if let me stop and have a break, so put piece of bread(breakfast remains) in mouth hurry to busy again, so happy working days...

thursday, following wednesday's speed, i became as expert that confidently and loudly reporting in new product introduction meeting, exactly and accurate answer everyone's questions, i felt so great! the key point is my boss have same feeling with me, so he invites me to lunch together, no doubt, big meal! i like.

it's friday again, sudently, someone metioned me "do you have any plan for weekend?""oh, it's that time again?" i drop down my reports,turn off my computer, postpose my appointment we have talked. i want to do nothing, i would like to eating my lunch for a long time, maybe last to 3o'clock PM its better, than i can just walking around in company and get home at 5PM...

how about next week?

Finally, i and my wife has been defeated by our both children that to fulfilled one of them wish. is buy three goldfishes for them.

i wouldn't like to buy a goldfish for children just because of it's hard to keeping these delicately small species alive more than a while when kids got them.

when we got home, children more than delight and changing the fresh water for these little honey in glass pot and around it to talking with goldfish, by then, fishes and human beings get on well with each others, half hours later, i found my younger daughter began to stretch out her hands into the pot trying to catch the goldfishes, i have stopped her immediately, fortunately, couple of hours later, children were diverted their attention to the TV. the first day passed, three goldfishes are Miraculously survived.

the second day morning, i have got up later than usual, when i walked in living room, Anita(my eldest daughter ) was busying to put her cookies into pot and saying to fish:"morning, girls, this is breakfast time..."i have stopped her again and said to her" fish didn't like these cookies, they just like their fish-food only that is specially made by fish-food shop, we should buy some for them today" after breakfast i took children went to shop and bought a big parcel fish-food for fishes. children are very happy and ready for feeding to fishes

after a busy day work, i back to home, both children were sitting into sofa enjoying the animations,"how about the fishes? girls" "they were enjoying the dinner now. Dad" i turned to the living room, three goldfish floated on the water and i have seen whole parcel fish-food has been putted into the glass pot already.

here is the XiJiang Miao village located in the Guizhou province china. Miao people is an ancient people in china, thousands of years, they are lives in remote deeply mountains, far from the modern city, keep themselves living habits form their predecessors,

i have been astounded in that moment while i saw their houses covered whose valley form foot to top of the mountains, these amount of community nees how many years to built it? they have themselves social relationship,language,rules,festivels, and even writing words, it's really complex society! this is the small country in the big country.

i have had encoirage my kids to wears Miao People's dresses, so pertty beautiful! the dresses consist of colorful clothing and silver-headgears, the silver are mainly material for Miao People to using in their normally life. all of headgears are hand-made, contained their belief, totem, and dreams. kids loves it so much refused to take it off.

the beautiful,wonderful,good,valuable,wealthy things not only exsited in modern cities, the original,natural objectives more attract to human beings sometimes......

The words said: people who are successful means they are someone who can catch the chances promptly. Exactly, variety of opportunities met with us then we have missed some one. Probably that’s why our life always full of happy and unhappy,

In your career period, catch a good chance get promotion is normal practice, if you are lucky enough, form department manager to CEO need not waiting too long, just pay your patience keeps no big mistake happened to you.

Running a big successful business always our dream, even we have pay more efforts on this, unfortunately, most of us who dreams and desires to run our own businesses are failed. Rare success case except they are industrious, lucky also cause of they are intelligent to catch the chance they have met ever.

But another words also said: the chances preparing for people who are ready. You have ready for chance, meanwhile, chance looking for properly people as well. You are desire to success, you should have these characters: positively, hardworking, keep looking… your lucky bird will be coming someday.

The last words said: the people who are ready always effort to create chance for themselves. We should leads or impacts things development to direction which benefits us or our goals. That’s abilities asking for your observation and organization abilities, sensitively and bravely also.

Pay your attention on the chances beside you, especially, hiding one and potential one.

Good luck!

after 4hours a heavy load working period, now it's time for lunch,how to spend your lunch time usually?

probably enjoying a delicious meal if you have taking a house-made lunch box made by your family members or youself. have a close window seat enjoying lunch slowly,peacefully and gentelly. nice views outside give you a leisure time in the noon.

takes serveral your fellows to nearby restaurant should be nice idea if you want to sharing funny things with them or to promote friendship with each others. often these guys not focus on the foods but happiness they are together time.

lunch time also as a learning time for us, the office at that time are quietly preparing for someone who plan to reading and writing report or articals, we will be respect and understanding while we seeing our co-workers left hand handing a hamburger and right hand turning the book page slowly.

others situation including treats clients, meet for secret tasks, even crime plan discussion for badman.

but just remander here dont act without any analysis and evdences to call the police when you assume both guys talking carefully in restaurant, maybe they are simplely falling in love two days ago...

up to now, 44 people killed and 504 people injuried cause of severe checials explosion in china, Tianjing city at 23:22 yesterday night.

the detail location is a checials warehouse which used to store shipping container belong with an New shipside in Tianjing city.

heavy death and injury happened cause of second explosion in scene while hundreds of workers and firemans putted in rescue operation, the sencond explosion had destroied almost all of the people and rest of containers in these area immediately.

the burst power to be the equal of 21Ton TNT powers, the authorities officer said, actually it's equals 2.1 scale of earthquake.  citizen described that they can clearly feels the power like earthquake, the building's windows glasses has been broken up located in serveral mailes away.

it's really terrible accident and wish all of the people has been involved in this event will be fine. i would like to express my profound respect and gratitude to our gallant firemans and other people. god bless you all...

in modern society, variously payment ways you can choosing by yourself, using cash, credit card, online payment by your phone...

credit card and other online payment are high priotiries for people who living in modern city. easy to taking which just like a piece of paper that you can put it into your wallet without occupied too much space. you won't to worry about the money has be spend out and just enjoy your shopping journey if your line of credit is huge enough. and specific privilege is you have enough time to preparing for offer repayment. but these also lure you to consume without any fear until things out of control.

for cash payment, to a certain degree help us control, or say as, warning us how much we have money remains, using cash let you feeling clearly that you are spending now, you might concerns more about how much i spent and how much i have remains companied with the bank notes given out form your hands to others every time. so tomorrow fear not bad things for us at least it has telling you perfect method to saving money.

anyway,we are living by selling or buying somethings, but remember that we are always buy somthings which we needed not we wanted. we are always selling somethings which we neednt or other needed.

the anxiety hit me every time when vacations coming,

i should do a perfect schedule for whole family,but actually i have no ideas where we should and wanted to go, as a result, i spent whole afternoon setting in front of computer busy to viewed every tourism website and got nothing. sure most reasons are tourism plan not suitble for our i think, too far or long time journey hardly for our poor physical condition, climbing or travel on foot will be tired for children, also including hotel price we cannot afford...

the day begining of vacations we stay at home continuously think hard where we can spend our following vacation days...finally,no surprise as usual.either fighting with my wife or screaming to my childern,they are also retrted me that all of my fault to bungled whole thing with no plan for vacations

oh, Jesus, tomorrow is another holiday will coming, what shall i do?

the wonderful feelings by i had chosen to walking home instead of driving. so many good views in that short path i never mind before, girls laughing and joking arm in arm back to home when ends of whole day work, kids runing and loudly sing after parents when be taken out form school. workers gathered in metro station waiting for the train which one taken them to home or restaurant, here is cheerful occasion in this street which let me feel i really existing in real life in this world.

that's absolutely different with siting alone in fornt of steering wheel every time drove to home. guys, could you want to have a try?

sometimes,

we should be to spent a little time to considering how to mantain a nice type of relationship with our fellows. anyone work task or mission will be involve in at least one or several peoples,as well as might be more participants.we are not sigle hero like films made in. we are living communities,schools,groups, anyway, all of these organizations consist of many individuals as well.

but, people are critical factors in all these individual, that's why its so critical to learned how to communicate with others, how to cooperate with your fellows...espically you need to achieve targets through team work.

for instance, your team member who work hard day-to-day also with high performance but always be late most of duty. how to talking with she/he? have you experienced this that several conflict points appears in your mind when you pluck up your courage to talking with she/he?

one point, you have to responsible for tell your member to do right things.

second point, whether your member will be unhappy cause of you point out her/his bad habits, then making a big effect in her/his work perfermance?

third point, base on your experience which would be becaming worse if you let it go like these type of things and impact to other team members, so you should be stand up and ceasing this right now.

so, what and how shall we do?

once again, the human beings are feeling so helpless when our face and struggle with sickness... we are never controlled this beautiful planet do not like people who thinking about that. so, everbody should be nice, be friendly, be politely, and be respectly to everythings which including other species, life-forms, plants, even a tiny piece of dusty...

take care of yourself.

Currently, there is no vaccine to prevent MERS-CoV infection. The U.S. National Institutes of Health is exploring the possibility of developing one.

CDC routinely advises that people help protect themselves from respiratory illnesses by taking everyday preventive actions:

• Wash your hands often with soap and water for 20 seconds, and help young children do the same. If soap and water are not available, use an alcohol-based hand sanitizer.
• Cover your nose and mouth with a tissue when you cough or sneeze, then throw the tissue in the trash.
• Avoid touching your eyes, nose and mouth with unwashed hands.
• Avoid personal contact, such as kissing, or sharing cups or eating utensils, with sick people.
• Clean and disinfect frequently touched surfaces and objects, such as doorknobs.

Yesterday, i had have a walk with my little daughter then passed a high school saw many of students hurry into school to starting a new weekly schoollife,

i have glance of my daughter's face briefly,

then thinking about the status of when she growing up to that age for high school. that's 9 years later, seems very long but also very fast like we often feeling that times always pass quickly. 9years is enough to change many things especially young girl's brain and thoughts,

probably she never want to have a walking with their father instead of his young friends, cause of the no common topics there,

probably she never want to stay at home or enjoy the dinner with their father instead of young gril's party. cause of many new drinking and taste she want to try it.

or probably she will busy to study in school working with their felllow students hard, perparing for next examination......

probably have many other reasons...

anyway, probably she is growing up...

i said to my litter daughter(meanwhile i hold her litter hands tightly): honey, never forgot we are even together have a walk passed a high school...

i have translated a chanese adage here, have a try whether you can got it:

the boss said you are good means you are really good however you are good or bad means good

the boss said you are bad means you are really bad even you are really good means bad.

LOL...

my family spent three New year holiday days in rural farm. we all had a good time.

several friends family with our together also had an enjoyable journey...

the first day, we had visited to the orangery and to taste the sweet oranges, you can not immagine the feeling when you walking in the orangery, breathing the smell of the fresh air, freely to pick up a fruit put into mouth, the feeling full of freedom,relax,possession...

surely, the most delicious dish we got.

A: hi

B: hi

A: how are you doing today?

B: no bad

A: have a drink?

B: sure

cheers

A: what's you name?

B: people call me Lily, but you can call me tonight...

A: ......okey

The quickly development of the vehicle really made the huge impact in our lives nowadays.

i lived in the old street and these houses and block of flats which bulided in 15years ago, they are beatuful and comfortable still,as well lived in many kindly guys,

but people still worried and upset while they drove their car on the way home, next the critical issues they would faced when arrived their home, its Parking,

normally practice as below: hundreds of cars parked line up the narrowly both side of the street, one after another which just left small space for one person pass through. suddenly the car alarm disturbe somebody cause of who indeliberate to touched the car. you might also saw several cars slowly run in the narrowly street that they are waiting for the lucky decline which parked one moving away then quickly moved in.

only thing you can do is beg form God: let car became to less or street became to bigger...

my little daughter always do not like to eating vegetables, while we have a meals she often refuse to eats any more vegetables, one day while the dinner time i said to she: honey, you should eating a little vegetables, you will growing to be higher and stronger if you eating some vegetable,then, she looked at me one second then take a monthful quickly and asked me: am i growing up? now.

i wonder that the life is my life why i should Ask for leave to somebody we called bosses?