What would you do if your best friend misunderstood and blame you for something that you didn't do?
I will share my experience with my best friend Shinta and Rany. They are my college mates. We used to hang
out together. The problem started when I asked in WA group that when will we have breakfasting in Bandung.
I used Shinta's name. Then they are angry because I didn't ask permission to mention their name.
It's a small problem for me but big for them. So any suggestions? I have already ask forgiveness. They forgive
me but I believe that it's hard for us to hang out anymore.
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It happens anywhere anytime. But, a true friend will forgive their friend.
We should keep the friendship as possible as we can and keep positive to them.
Thank you for sharing, Kurniati.
Do not care much. Be happy in your own life. If they are behaving like children, let them be. You have done your part by apologizing.
Apologizing shows greatness on your part, and their behaviour shows otherwise on their part.
That's what I can advise so far @Kurniati.
hi evalinda, well you did right. You made a mistake, you confirmed it and you apologised. Your friends said they´d forgive you. Though I guess your observation is also right. Of course they are a bit sceptic about you. What guarantees them you did not again mistaken. Only time will tell. Hence you are a bit caught in a doghouse. Prove them that you have learned from your mistake and respect their strong wish not to be mentioned without permission. I guess they will finally accept that you made a mistake and will accept you as the same friend as you have been.
LOL you have to wear the pentinential robe for a while.
Hi....There are still good friends??? I think people choose friends for their needs, because of this ,they disappear after a while. You have to move on , to meet new people who really appreciate you Which. do not blame you at the first mistake .Good luck