°•● To Step in or to Step Out ●•°

How much are others accountable for standing for us , when we are faced with hardships ???
     Being confronted with the world as a teen with many little situations , which were critical for me . I used to blame others for not giving me a helping had .
At that early age I need a lot of support and backing up .
I conflated alot between people's behaviors and personalities . I used to blame others most of the time , and deep inside I felt disappointed from the whole humanity for letting me down . Thus I created lots and lots of negativity about others and excluded myself from the them . Everything was hurting bad my look , my hair , my dresses , I wasn't satisfied and felt that no one likes me at that time .
As I grow older things change in became more confident about myself and had many friends but still have this bitterness inside , that at any challenging situation no one will step in .
       Now , I have changed I stopped blaming others , I even stopped repeating those quotations I pick from books about how people are so bad when you need them .
It's my responsibility to stand for myself and be strong . Some will be there for me i am sure , but some can't they just can't give help . This might be because many things related to their circumstances or self . So , I should not blame or attack others for stepping out , and at the same things not to glorify those who are stepping in that much , because they don't need it . They are doing good for the sake of good itself . They aren't waiting for any trophies or praise . Heavenly angles aren't seen . Many of them leave in silence after doing their duties .
    Utopia is imaginative people are weak mostly and loaded with their own worries . They aren't accountable for helping . Some do help and have the full courage to step in , to hold our hands at the horrible edges and pull us up before we fall .

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Comment by Rosemary :) on August 28, 2018 at 12:34

  Thanks for your wonderful comment  sister Onee :) 


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Comment by Onee-chan on August 28, 2018 at 6:10

I used to be like that, blaming others for not giving me a hand. But then I realized that it is WE who should know what are everything around us and what's inside ourselves that could make us stand upright.

Thank you for sharing your blog, dear sister. 

Comment by Rosemary :) on August 25, 2018 at 14:41

  @ Roman  :D  yes he might jump   , I liked ur comment  

Comment by Rosemary :) on August 25, 2018 at 14:40

  Dear bet and Roman :) thanks for being here 

Comment by Roman on August 24, 2018 at 17:13

Nice thoughts, Rosemary!

But that robot looks like if he was about to commit suicide, jumping from the high bridge.

Is everything okay with you?

Comment by bet on August 19, 2018 at 9:17

It is kind of a piece of information! Yes, we should know how to help ourselves first before shaking others help. But, when we are young and vulnerable, even in our adult age we sometimes need help of others. Then we  find some people helpful sometimes some people do just its opposite. We get hurt when we find our known people to be unhelpful but it is a part of our life, dear! So, as  adult people we should gather courage to do many thing ourselves without thinking about others help and we should teach our kids to be more independent!

Comment by Rosemary :) on August 18, 2018 at 15:19

   :D  it's the arabic sentence  that made me laugh alot   ,  u have ur own sense  of humour  , have a nice day 

Comment by dara gino on August 18, 2018 at 15:06

Nahnu fi khidmatiki ya Rosemary! It is necessary for the person to know how to depend on himself. As for kindness, do it and throw it in the sea. Thanks for sharing.

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