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How much are others accountable for standing for us , when we are faced with hardships ???
Being confronted with the world as a teen with many little situations , which were critical for me . I used to blame others for not giving me a helping had .
At that early age I need a lot of support and backing up .
I conflated alot between people's behaviors and personalities . I used to blame others most of the time , and deep inside I felt disappointed from the whole humanity for letting me down . Thus I created lots and lots of negativity about others and excluded myself from the them . Everything was hurting bad my look , my hair , my dresses , I wasn't satisfied and felt that no one likes me at that time .
As I grow older things change in became more confident about myself and had many friends but still have this bitterness inside , that at any challenging situation no one will step in .
Now , I have changed I stopped blaming others , I even stopped repeating those quotations I pick from books about how people are so bad when you need them .
It's my responsibility to stand for myself and be strong . Some will be there for me i am sure , but some can't they just can't give help . This might be because many things related to their circumstances or self . So , I should not blame or attack others for stepping out , and at the same things not to glorify those who are stepping in that much , because they don't need it . They are doing good for the sake of good itself . They aren't waiting for any trophies or praise . Heavenly angles aren't seen . Many of them leave in silence after doing their duties .
Utopia is imaginative people are weak mostly and loaded with their own worries . They aren't accountable for helping . Some do help and have the full courage to step in , to hold our hands at the horrible edges and pull us up before we fall .
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