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It is a true story. And, my intention to write this blog is to remind you to see a thing or judge a thing more than twice. This habit helps us to do less errors.

That day I was getting back home with my kid. It was just before Eid day( a festival). And, I had to get out more than twice so I was in a hurry.

When we were walking up, suddenly my kid's one hair band dropped in lower stair case. We both noticed and she wanted to walk down. But I stopped her and told her I would get it when I go out again.

After a while when I walked back I found it and hold it. A young man ( an outsider who came for collecting bills)was standing in front near the main gate and watching me with wonder! As it was my kid's hair band so I put it into my purse and saw that man kept watching me till then.

I was in a hurry, I just got into car. Then I asked our driver who was that young man. And he told me who he was. After that, I told him (driver) that most probably he misunderstood me as I put that band into my purse. He might be wondering why and how I put something into my purse which I just found on the stair!

This may happen in many situations  before our own eyes/ in front of our eyes but which maybe not true! Our driver laughed and told me,'' Mam, what does it mean if he thinks you  just took it!" I also laughed  but told him, '' No, it means a lot, I should let him know why I took it from the ground and put into my bag.''

Yes, we should try to know the reality/ truth and we should let others to know the truth! And, that is why there is a saying, we should not believe all things which are happened in front of our eyes specially in doubtful situations.

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Comment by bet on October 1, 2015 at 5:19

Thanks, Maya.Anyway my intention was to say that we should not judge a person hurriedly just after watching an action.

Comment by oOo_MaYa_oOo on September 30, 2015 at 5:31
If we concentrate on what other people will say about us and what we do, we can't move freely....its like we're putting ourselves in a cage. So better to act and do things what we feel like and what we want as long as we dont hurt anyone around us.
Comment by bet on September 30, 2015 at 5:18

@ sitareh....thanks to get my point, I just wanted to say we should not judge people instantly!

@ Elf, thanks, dear.

@ Evan....hey....it could be  true also, maybe I was looking gorgeous...lol

Comment by ELF-Noor on September 29, 2015 at 13:13

Dear Afro when you do right, then really you do not need to explain, remember it when you will trying explain that why you did that act with out asking of someone, other will get doubt automatically that their is something fishy fishy..think for a while.. so do satisfy yourself and let them other  whatever they thinks.. but we should change ourself thinking that do not judge other without know the actual reason or conformed truth.. 

thanks for sharing.. 

Comment by setareh on September 29, 2015 at 6:08
Dear Afro, you point out a very delicate subject; that's why we should never be judgmental. It happens to me too. Every time I promise myself not to judge others without knowing the truth, oh but unfortunately sometimes I fail.:D
Comment by bet on September 29, 2015 at 4:24

Thanks, Misha for doing corrections.

Comment by bet on September 29, 2015 at 4:24

Thanks anjana and alice for reading and putting nice words.

Comment by Alice E. on September 29, 2015 at 2:57

When you do something that is right you do not need to explain it unless it is to prove your innocence in a crime but for such a trivial thing this is not really necessary besides you did say that we should not immediately believe a doubtful situation then we should give others a chance to to prove they can do that too.:)

Comment by lavanya on September 28, 2015 at 6:46

its happens sometime.you know these days life is so stressfull you cann't easliy do that.

doubts stuck mind naturly

Comment by Mishaikh on September 28, 2015 at 5:59

I go with Elen in commenting.  The matter you have mentioned is a petty matter.  You would be right to think in this way if there is an important matter. Or at least you would have cleared right there to him.

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