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It was a usual women gathering with many Arabian coffee cup and lots of cookies , cakes , and many waffling around .
Far from the chaotic big morning banquet . I was talking with a friend of mine . We mentioned a word related to our culture and dialect . The word express bad people intervention in family issues . She asked me how do you define ....... ? I said : I thinks it's when someone ruins your relation with your spouse on purpose . That's what the word exactly mean .
Oh , with sadness on her face . I will tell you something.
" I have left my husband " please , don't tell anyone here .
Me : I won't , but why ?
My friend : I can't handel it anymore . He don't ask my permission , in doing things related to our family .
Me : but this isn't a big reason
My friend : he beats me sometimes ,
This is only the top of an ice berg in demostic violence and it is an international problem .
How can we understand the nature of men , is it their muscline hormones only or do they need to be more educated to know how to control their furious anger toward women .
As I discuss this topic again and again with my sister on phone . She keeps on telling me that : A woman shouldn't confront a man in a quarrel . When she does so , she will pay back . A man will start fighting her as if she is another man . So , don't even try it , because women are weaker physically than men .
Regardless of these usually cases where man can't hold their hands . There are cases where women suffer from their inability to get out the dark circles of male abuse , due to economical , cultural , psychological reasons and sometimes kids
Who lose their security in these families and confront life challenges with pains and anxiety . They are the real victims of grown up fights .
At my 20s I used to consider any woman who is able to get a man out of her life as a strong one . Nonetheless , it isnt that easy for a woman to start again , even if she is finicially secured .
Women are more emotional in general their wounds don't heal easily . Unlike men " They don't have wombs " They don't feel things as women do . They have their own practical minds .
Violence isn't anyone fate , let's all believe in happy endings as women . In our abilities to choose the right partner or leave our bad relations at our back as history
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