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Talking about getting married may bring you many thoughts. We are not talking about the preparation of yourselves to be ready to live with your partner but the conditions for marriage in different generations.
In some cultures, marry a virgin is one of the most necessary conditions that leads to so many problems in the life of the bride and bridegroom. As the men’s mindset was set with a traditional thought that the girl who has lost her virgin is a bad girl and not worth for getting married. That is really unfair for women who just believed so much in love and gave “the most precious thing” to their lovers. Nowadays, women’s rights are recognized and people talk more about marriage equality. That is why many other conditions appear as human’s desire is endless.
Of all times, the parents whose children are at the age of being ready for marriage will care a lot about similarity of social background between bride and bridegroom's families. They want to seek for the best suitable one for their children to marry. Some might think that love is not really as necessary as other things such as money, social ranks, and education background, etc. which affect the most on marriage life. That is either right or wrong because marriage is something really complicated to talk about when people’s attitude towards its life is one of the most important factors. It is not unreasonable to say that we should marry a person whose condition is much better than the other since he can guarantee your children’s future with his or her certain advantages. Although people usually think that living with the person they love is the best, they would get confused as life doesn’t go the way they thought. Therefore, at some points, people still consider about whom to get married to, what they are like, how rich they are and so on, especially the parents whose children are willing to have their own families.
In short, getting married is the most important part in your life. Put in it a lot of wisdom, love, and generosity will be the worth advice including hard working to get to a certain financial state which helps increase the marriage life’s quality and the future. Last but not least, follow your heart and you will find the way to do the best for your life.
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