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Rules , rules and rules . It's easy to know them , however , it's a big problem when it's comes to applying to them . We can find a myriads of options , styles , ways and methods , which , approach the aim of setting the rules , go far from it or do it exactly as it is . Making them a bless or a hell for people . But at the end all the rivers will head toward the ocean.
One of these rules or norms is " Don't be judgemental " which is a noble thing to do . We aren't supposed to judge others or announce accusations for certain people due to some of their personal traits or behaviors.
However , we should give a judgement in away or another in certain cases to protect ourselves from other people mayhem . The application of the rule dosent mean to close our eyes in front of toxic people . Who , on the other side have their vicious plans ready for us . I remember not being judgmental with people to the degree of stupidity , which , caused me many problems and harms . If I was able to announce my verdict only to myself. I would save a lot of time and energy , enabling myself to set my own boundaries which no one can cross further . I have trust people who wasn't worthy of my trust , because I don't want to be the judgemental type of person . Some people have attacked me , belittled me and sent complaints aganist me where I have worked . Because , things I have said or rejected . If I could judge or beware of some people , things would not be as worse as they were .
My mother have her own treasure of stories and saying related to many topics . One is that under the small log there's a big chameleon . People can cause you many problems while you don't expect them to . As they say a little spark can start a big fire .
Finally , I will share this story with you , which , my mom keep telling us , about a man who was found killed and in his last breath. He was asked . Who have done this to you ?? He said painfully my honesty . I was killed by my honesty . He didn't tell the name of his killer . He accused his good nature in trusting others and neglecting all the waring signs for his horrible end . There is no rosey hue , when it's comes to dealing with others . We have to give some judgments that might help us in dealing with them . These judgments won't be announced in public and days will proof if we were right or wrong about them . It is better to be cautious , to look around carefully and watch where we should put our steps .
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