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I think it is " happiness " according to my own personal view point . I have been mislead through this word a lot . First , I should blame school and the whole educational system for the great gap between what's there in school books and what's there outside of the classrooms . I have studied some kind of stereotype characters with fixed smiles here and there . Characters who do things perfectly as they are according to the manuals . Without making any kind of even a slight or a minor mistake .
People who walk straightforward all the time and a punch of big lies that destroyed our realization to the whole world around us . We used to copy sentences like " if you work hard , you will succeed " While the matter isn't about working hard to the degree of exhaustion . It is about doing things skillfully rather than doing them hard . Hard isn't the way for achieving our dream . As these ideas are nailed into our brains , I started doing things hard to feel " happiness " but I didn't get any good results especially in dealing with others .
We need to detoxify our minds out of many thoughts . One of which is that about happiness . Because happiness in created inside of us first . We can't be happy just for being close to certain people , buying things as the media say it over and over .
We can enjoy the moments of satisfaction and know they aren't there forever , Try to fight bad ideas , do what we can afford to do .
Instead of , talking about happiness as a generalization . We should take it as a personal style , a finger print that differs from one person to another . Our own numbers of spoon of sugar in our cups . The amount of salt that we used to add in our meal , which , are personal things at the end of the day .
I used to share my love and passion for reading with my classmates , and there were only cold impression toward my information . At the age 14 I didn't know what dose it mean to be different . I thought that what excited me should excit others . My friends led me to shut my mouth for ever , when it comes to books and drowned me into a deep sense of loneliness . Later , I learned that nothing was wrong with me or them . It is just a case of interests. However , I did meet many book warms like me at college . Things that ignite our souls are there no matter when or where . They'll pop at our faces someday .
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