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A Mimic..

Today is the wife birthday. Family have husband, wife and five-year boy kid. Husband come from the office and family is getting ready for the birthday celebration.

They have invited a close friend on this occasion and they too are three-member family with girl kid.

Whey doorbell rings, husband opens the door with full excitement and welcome guest. Guest sit in the living room and a formal chit-chat starts among the family members full of amusement.

Both kid went to the nearby room and starts to play. It was really a rejoicing moment parents were enjoying the snacks and drinks.

After some time, kids come out in a groom and bride dress. Parents glare at kids with puzzling eyes. Kids than starts the show. Boy proposes the girl to marry and girl accepted & both vow to marry. Now the girl says “I will take care of home, will cook, will iron clothes, will take care of you. Boys says I will do a job, earn money, take you for a long drive. It was a surprising moment for all there.  How smart the kids of today generation? They play like a husband and wife.  The mimic goes on at the end the boy said will slap you every day and slap the girl. The girl starts to cry. A quarrel begins…

 

Now the parents realize the mimic show.  It is resemblances with their own life. How sometimes husband comes from the office with a bad mood and beat the wife and quarrel begins...

The kids have imitated same.

This is quite a common among the couple these days when they don’t want to compromise…Kids are very good observer.

 Parents realizes the mistake and vow not to repeat this in future.

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These days I am staying away from my family for a job assignment. First few days gone nice, but subsequently started to feel lonely.

I am really missing my kids and wife desperately. Last night this loneness was so intense that I could not have slept. To divert my mind, watched movies and listen to motivational speaker.

This has somewhat relived me but the intense feeling of solitude still there in my mind.

 

By nature, I am nostalgic kind of person. I remember my childhood days when my mother used to leave me for one or two days to meet relatives, I sensed the similar feeling.

This loneliness comes different form and sometime becomes so violent that, don’t find any way around.

I believe in spirituality and perform meditation every day. This is a biggest problem in my progress, current job assignment gives me some financial benefits.

 

I need finance to full fill my family requirement. Now, I am realizing that I am the creator only. This is happening because of illusion and some negative feeling in the mind. I should bring all the positive aspects and leave the negative one.

 

This is happening only because of strong disconnect from my own self. I know the change is the only constant thing. What is with me will change in the next moment.

 

I am trying to make up mind to avoid any such feeling of loneliness, I am sure will win over that. This is my own creation and I must have to come out from this at any cost.

 

Regards,

Sanjib

 

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A Dream ....

Jessica a little girl was waiting for his father to come. On each knock of door, she peeped and thought it must be father. And was getting disappointed seeing someone else at doorstep.

Today while going father promised her to come early and brought her a gift.

 She remembered, while going father promised her, he has not arrived yet…she murmurs this is not fair father finally fall to sleep. She dreamt that night, father came and brought a gift for her. When she unwrapped the gift pack, found little Barbie doll was twinkling eyes. This doll could speak with kids. She became so happy and thanked father.  

Than father took her to nearby garden and both enjoyed. The girl only dream it to spend time with father.

 This is what happening these days. People life is so busy & engaged that they don’t have time for kids and family.

 A tough target in the job has made person away from the family and have no social life.  Of course, the job is required to fulfill basic needs but spending time with the family is equally important. We all should think and act over this …

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Sanjib

 

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A small motivational story

This story from a famous motivator and I thought of write and share …

Two kids name Sam and mac used to stay in a village. Sam was 10 year and mac was 6-year-old. They were so close that they never like to stay away from each other. They used to go to school together, play together etc. One evening both decided to visit nearby firm house. While roaming, accidently Sam fell into a well. Mac was so disappointed after seeing this but he did not lose hope. He immediately picked the rope lied beside the well and thrown one end into well keeping another end in his hand. He guided Sam to hold and keep on pulling the other end of rope. After a few min of struggle Sam came out and thanked Mac for same.

 Now both rushed towards the village and narrated the entire story. Not a single people in the village believed them and some told it as a self-made story. How it would be possible for a 6 years’ boy to pulled out a who is much elder then him.

 In the same village, a person name Uncle Maxwell, considered to be very intelligent. He was treated as an advisor in the village. Both the kids went to him and narrated the entire story.

He really believed in the incident and called the other people who were not ready to believe.  Uncle Maxwell explained, yes it did possible... and I find only reason and that is “No one was there to tell boy that he cannot do” …

 This is what happens with all of us in real life. Since the childhood parents, teachers, society teaches us… and it always in mind what can we do and don’t. They simply control over our abilities...

Thanks for reading !! Please suggest the improvement area..

 

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Sanjib

 

 

 

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Everything happens for the good reason.

One fine morning an emperor and his advisor were walking in the garden. Suddenly an emperor leg got hurt by the rock (on the way) while walking.

The injury was deep that started bleeding. The emperor told advisor about the injury and in reply adviser told him “Everything happens for a good reason.”

Emperor was expecting some sympathy, got angry very much and immediately ordered to hang the advisor. He shouted on advisor stating he is making a fun on his injury and without realizing pain and sorrow.

 In evening emperor decided to go for outing. He went to a deep forest but accidently caught by a tribal those are cannibals. It was a feast time for those tribal to enjoy the human flesh.

They follow a strict rule before killing prey, it shouldn’t have any cut mark on the body. If any injury on the body parts it considered impious.   Fortunately, the they saw emperor’s injured leg and freed him as it is.

 While coming back the emperor realizes the advisor righteous thought. Because of this injury his life got saved. He immediately rushed towards the gallows, where the soldiers were about to hang him. Emperor apologies the advisor and narrated the whole story. Advisor again told him, yes “Everything happens for a good reason.” If I wouldn’t have ordered this punishment I would surely be accompanying you for outing and you know I don’t have any injury…...   Both smiled with tears…

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An old lady and jewellery

I read a story in a newspaper, an old lady has lost a jewellery worth 6.6 Lac. This happened when she was coming back to her home town. Actually she went to meet her sister nearby town. She was in the hospital laying on the bed. She recollected what happened with her. She got into the state transport bus and a man offered her a seat. They showed a friendliness and pretended to be very caring person. They were in two number and taken care of the lady throughout the journey. As part of travel food, old lady carried a Burger with her. When she about to eat, duo told her not to eat it doesn’t seems fresh. In spite the man offered her a fresh pack of biscuits. The old lady remember that she denied to take the food offered by them but polite and friendly behavior made her to accept. She took one piece and felt like sleepy. She doesn’t remember anything. And now all her jewelry lost. They were actually a robbers and they probably have added some chemical which made the lady sleep. And then they fled with all her jewellery.

The old lady was found unconscious in the bus when the conductor observed her and later told driver. Than they reported to the Local police and police took her to hospital.

This is not a single incident but a thousand like this in our country takes place and few culprit are caught, and many still roaming freely and repeating the same.

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Mysterious city....

Hi Friend,

After a long time I tried to write something of latest happening.Please do correct my mistake and rate my blogs.

There was a big crowd when I went near to the place. Nothing was visible and but colloquial confused sounds heard. Somehow I managed to get in and what I saw was shocking. A man lay on the ground and covered with white plastic poster. With air fluctuation, the covered poster covers and uncovers his body He seemed slaughtered and blood clots were visible in between.

After few min I understand that this person was murdered last night and thrown out at the street. He is identified as an IT professional and a resident of nearby colony. Police had further investigated and found that he is married and have one.. too shocking. In a while his wife and relatives were informed and the place was full of grief.

Since I was one of the spectators of this incident, I keen to take interest in everyday news on air or in newspaper. Around one month passed but no clue, sometimes her wife and family member seemed while interviewed by reports. Not the first time but many such issues reported every day but mostly are unrevealed. This is what happening everyday people anger and greed is a life threat and may lead to death. Why we as human being are involving in such a criminal act which snitches husband, brother or son? As we are developing and having access to latest technology, anger, hatred and ego are growing.

Not sure when this is going to be end but I believe one day it will be when almighty god will remove bad evil from this beautiful world.

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Regards,

Sanjib

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Unity is strength.

Few school days stories are very common but moral derive can be applied throughout the life.

This is one of them; a farmer blessed with five children and was very affectionate towards them.

He felt one of the proud fathers of five sons. As children grown up and father wanted them to get marry and have a settled life and in a few years they do so.

Farmer never wanted them to be apart. Conflict started when the ladies of sons in the family shown a disheartening behavior towards each other. Each one of them expected to have separate house and division in the property. They insisted the same to their husbands and this have leaded a great quarrel among brothers. Now the situation became worse and very tragic.

This was the most panic moment for the farmer. He never imagined to encounter with this kind of situation. Sons approached the father and pleaded him to divide the property…Farmer tried a lot to improve the situation but sons were too reluctant.

Sorrow and pain made father so weak and ill. He called his entire son while he lay on the bed. He gave a single stick to each one and told to break. Sons were so astonishing and for a moment they did not understand anything. Each one of them broke the stick so easily. Father smile and then gave another bunch of stick tied together. Father told now each one of you tries breaking this bunch of sticks.

Bunch passed to each one by one and none of them was able to break that. Now, sons got the message of being in unity.

All of them shook their head and convey apology to the father .Farmer then took a deep breath and smile.

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moments of togetherness .....

The days we lived together will cherish my memory forever.

We took steps together, sometime you shorten, sometime me to be in alignment.

Your humble and polite voice is still whispering.

your mesmerizing  eyes and tender smile will alive in me.

I admire and have a great trust in you.

Believe me, my feelings are pious and don’t tell me it’s silly.

I appraise your capability, you will touch  zenith one day.

I rejoice being an observer and giver.

Lastly, I extend my helping hand and grasp you in moment you need.  

 

 Thanks for reading.Please please comment on this post..I would appreciate if you rate my blogs and identify my mistakes ...I will further works towards improvement...

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Miraculous truth of water!!

Recently while listening to the one of prominent and ultimate Guru, I came to know one miraculous truth of water. “Water too have emotion”

A experiment done once on the water by two school student. They took water in two separate container and kept into the two different room. In one room they show their love, compassion & talk all the positive, On the contrary in another room stated to abusive each other used all nasty discussion. They kept doing so for 10 days and the observation was astounding !!! The water kept in the first was still seemed crystal clear and other turns dark.

Guru revels one of the mystic phenomena of water. Now a days water comes to our home passing through different bending in pipes. By bending of water so changes the molecular structure of water and though properties remain same.

This kind of water is treated as not good for health. He recommend to keep the water for an hour before consuming it..

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different world !!

Only two kind world exist i.e inward & outward;Outward is the reflection of inward.Inward is profound and all answer lies within.Mediation is a true way to get connected inwardly and change the outward perspective.

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Wings to fly high..

I want to fly in an open sky. I know will touch the zenith one day and need to strengthen my thought. Life is a full of ups and downs but who cares; I am a warrior and have to move on fighting against all odds.  I am learning to distinguish between illusion and reality. I have to wipe out distraction and sorrow each time with my self-motivation. A meditation is one which helps to connect with own soul. All problem and respective solution lies within and require utilizing inner resources constructively. In actual scenario reaction towards the situation decides the state of mind. If connected with inner self will have ability to face and come up with right kind of solution.

I vowed many time but failed always and reason only, got disconnected with inner. But this time I am too determine and focus a will fly surely …and of course your little endeavor require on my way forward. 

Thanks,

Sanjib

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Dowry a curse in Indian society

Diva is a girl with profound optimism. She was determined and very lucid on her ideas. She was living a simple and meaningful life. Her willingness to accept situation attracts the people. She was ready to take challenges and never made an excuse of being women. She was cheerful, lively, witty and fearless.

A time came when she has to tie a knot and it’s obvious since everyone wait for this day irrespective of cast, religion or gender.Ours society is a man dominating society where women feeling hardly valued. Bride parent always look for wealthy family and twist here is wealthier one is more demanding. It’s called Dowry where a bridal family has to pay agreed ample amount before marriage. In spite of dowry is against the law but still people practice it mandatory.

Diva was very happy and days were very wonderful, she imagined of her soul mate and spending time together. On her weeding day many people joined and it was a grand celebration with delicious food and lavish gifts on the father expense. Her father spent hard earned money on her weeding. Finally she married and got in to in-law house. Initial days were good and family treated her well. She too tried to adjust with the new environment. After a month she felt rudeness in her husband behavior but she tried to ignore. But day by day situation became worse. She was forced to involve in all house hold work without any time constraints. Whole day she got engage herself to satisfy demand. But cruelty has crossed the limit and they treated her not less than a slave.

Intention behind this torture and harassment was to demand further money from her parents. Greedy in-laws kept on demanding. Diva never wanted forward this demand to her parents. She knew her father situation. She tried to pledge her husband and his family and but useless.

They played the conspiracy and were keep taking money from her father on small excuses without Diva knowledge. They threaten him multiple times, if he wouldn’t her daughter will be throw out. Diva came to know the truth and one day burst out; that day she was beaten and wounded. Still Diva had hoped that situation will be better one day but it was only her imagination only. They kept demanding and torturing.

That morning was filled with complete science and a big gathering outside the in-law house. A complete silence inside and outside seemed the universe has stopped; inside the room Diva has hanged herself and ended her life last night…

When her father heard the news a voice echoed… if you would have given me an opportunity to study...i would be with you father..

Diva was not a single Woman but many hanged or burnt or dumped by the greedy people.

Thanks for reading and please comment doesn't matter good or bad it will be valuable for me.

Sanjib

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Lesson from Tree..

 

We emerged from nature and role is very significant. We learn a lot from nature, among them the creation what inspires me is the Tree. It’s selfless and determined creation of nature. Either is a rain, thunder or summer it never loses its identity and remains same always.

It never treats anyone like an enemy .Even people cut or take fruits out still provide a shadow. It never discriminates, it’s gives selfless love and open arms to welcome and provide a shelter... Its holds the soils and direct roots towards available water and minerals. It gives an impression of bondage and opportunity. Green color symbolizes growth, harmony, freshness, and fertility.

So what else remains? It teach lesson on all aspect of life…So why not we be like a tree which

is enriched with all wonderful quality. 

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Regards,

Sanjib

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Letter to a God...

 God, I am thankful to you for this life & the wonderful people around me. I have nothing to gain or lose, I know I will die one day and leave this materialistic world empty hand.

I love all the people around me and respect their feeling. I don’t want to heart anyone and treat equally. I never expect a return from them. I know you have sent everyone, with a pious soul. But some monsters like greed, anger; lust has taken over a control and always misleads pure soul.

I believe even a bad doer have that feeling that he is doing wrong. See how your beautiful world is been devastated by these evils. They have just snatches the peace and prosperity from this world. This monstrous act is growing day by day and it is spreading like a virus.

You are the supreme soul and run this world. Of course you are a single entity and see here you are diversified and few are fighting on your name too.

In spite, few educated one who knows the fact still makes a scene for own benefit. It seems them a gain in materialistic world but one day he has to answer your question. I know when something will go beyond the limit you will come across and teach them a lesson.

We are waiting for you. Please come and spoil those evils and make this world a better place.

Thanks again for everything!!

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Eyes speaks a lot..

Those pair of feminine eyes, fears me a lot and I really don’t want to make contact. When I gaze, I really fall into love. Call it as my infatuation but this is true, please scold me for this. I know this is not right, but they call me and I cannot restrict myself. I am emotional and if would be encounter multiple time I started missing those pair of eyes.

    Let me brief mysteries, I discovered believe me these eyes are not the normal eyes, they have the power and determination, they are running this world and I salute them. They are the reason for transformation from someone to important one. They have the courage and power to face the challenges and they are actually running this world. Since my childhood I am strong observer and I have seen those eyes who involved in bad deeds but that have a valid reason. They are the beautiful creation of this world.

So I believe I am not sexually infatuated but the trustfulness and peace attract me and wanted to mingle with them. I feel a peace in the shadow. I know they don’t care for me; I am nothing for them but they are important for me and always have a great respect but in return I expect little space and respect for me.

I am writing another blog will share you soon please… Please  rate this. I don’t mind if someone says this vague but this is my felling and wanted to express in few words.

Thanks,

Sanjib

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Change..

Life can never be static; it changes its color at each moment on its own way. Sometimes we control sometimes life control us.

 All of you must have faced these transformations. When it happens to change the city or house from one respective locality to another. What do you feel when you go back to the locality after few months or year where you used to stay once?


I am sure while visit to the same place where you stayed once, must be brings those days memory back. The glimpse of the place must have made you emotional and touching. It would have brought you to those good and bad days you spent.

You call it opportunity or misfortune but I always encountered with such kind of circumstances, actually I don’t want to be. I become very emotional and get in to flash back and be into that as long as I leave that place. A thought floats into my mind: it feels like an image and cheers and mourns surrounds me. The conversation I had with my near and dears are still on the air. Those rooms and building still have the voices and they are calling me back. Why did you left us? Please come again…even a garbage remains there creates an illusion.  

Time is powerful and it goes on, it never comes back that’s the fact of life and I always think of this change. I think I am not capable of facing the changes and become emotional... Though it is a part of life still we each have to face this change.

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Sanjib

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Human and poverty!!

Today’s morning when I went to cake shop I saw a small kid stand in front door staring at each customer. When I came very close to the shop I stared at him closely. I found the kid wore a very dirty dress and that dress has torn from many places. I felt a sense of myriad innocence in his eyes but the kid was smiling. I stopped myself at the opposite to him and wanted to be observed. Kid seemed to be very hungry and was in hoping that someone would offer something to fill his stomach but had no luck.

A question triggered in my mind suddenly (not the first time), why do god discriminated people? If he really exists then why one dying without food. Poverty has taken a place in our society were people don’t have food to eat and shelter to live. This is not the first instance but many I see, every day while walking across footpath. We are the one of the second largest populating country in this world and people and have an eye on us in for investment. They invest in our country and draw a huge profit  but at the same place people are dying without food as well.  As a human being we are not taking step forward in this direction to fix this issue. Actually we not at all interested to remove the poverty instead use it as a marketing item for own self.

Afterwards I saw that kid collected used plates and was eating the remaining. My eyes got wet, I blamed God for this why did you send him here if you have not arranged a food for him. What is the purpose to send him in this callous world, where people always think of profit and bank balance. Truly speaking we are not as poor as it looks but with the extent of small support and contribution can make it possible to have better society especially kids, who are nowhere responsible for such a the pathetic life.

Though the government has taken many initiatives to make life better but none of them get successful and surely that is because of poor planning and implementation. In real sense they are not at all serious on this kind of affairs. Poverty cannot be removed without the help of government initiative and proper planning. Let’s pray to god for the best!!

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