what is your idea ?

Hello all of my friends ..yesterday I was talking with one my friend about Islam. And what if his wife leave  Islam  and change his religion or to be a secular ..

so some of us are  Muslim and love our religion  ..some Hindu  and some Christian and some zartushet….

I was Curious  about this,that if a wife in the Islamic family leave the religion what will be the reaction of her husband ……

So I started with this question and ask him ….

Look friend  just imagine !  if you would marry and love your wife as much as you couldn’t  imagine living with out her .she loves you incredible ..and care about you a lot ..you have a life with love and understand as much as enough for Common Life .one life that all man and woman are jealous of it ..and you are proud of it .suddenly your wife starts to reading book ..she is human and has her mind and after moment she came to conclusion that wanna change her religion …but she still love you maybe more and more ..what  will be your reaction with this Changes  ????????????

I know that it may effect on your life but religion sometimes is a personal matter and with these all that I told  you what will be your reaction ?

He asked me ,you mean if I speak with her she will not back to Islam ???????

I answer imagine that she is Faithful to her principles and she think that these all are personal matter and she research a lot and this is what that she think and never do not wanna change it.

He suddenly answer I will divorce her ,undoubtedly

I asked him if you love her and  have a kids and ,

He answer again :I swear by God that I will leave her!

And ask me and you ? just imagine all that you told me

I answer that with all that told you imagine ….hmmmm I am a little different of you

He said how come?

I answer with all that I told you I swear  by God that I will never  ever leave him …

This is not important what he answer after that but there is a rules in Islam that if your husband leave the religion..the marriage  between you and your wife  will be finished and you will not have any relation ship in these case in the aspect of Islam and religion  ..

So I know that but I wanna just tell me what will be the reaction of you in the same situation..this is not important if you are muslim or not I am not speaking about  just muslim people if you are a Hindu or Christian  and you husband or wife leave it ,what will be your reaction in the same situation ????????

And some more important thing ,,this is just about you and ( her – him ) and it is not supposed to any one know anything about it ………

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  • I don't Understanding all the topic
    Because of i,m don't an Excellent in english
    But i ask allah helping him .
  • So why your love doesn't work...?

    God is not just "love"....

    My God is not fake...

    You cannot confine God in "love"...

    He is the Infinity... He is the Absolute Truth... God isn't just mine... He's for all the world...

    I hate killing people... I cannot even kill a sparrow... I do not believe in others' religions but I do respect them... they are humans like me but I see that they have lost the way...

    USA and people like them are not illusion enemies... they want to enslave us... they want our Resources while they say: Oh Iranians... I LOVE YOU ALL...

    Love is good... I love all the people and do respect them... but can I just say I love you and then steal your money... Do I have the right to say I love you while I kill you...

    Release Understand my toughs... I am not saying that I am the best and Others are bad... this is absolutely ridicules...

    I am saying that:
    You cannot tell others "God is just Love..."
    So..."Love others and do anything you want...?"
    Do you believe in this way...?
    Do you believe in this praise: ول کن بابا دلت پاک باشه
    This is my point...

    You told me to open my heart...
    So I must tell you that you have a mind too...
    Open your eyes and see the world as it is...

    • you have right to choice your way! 

      but do not permit your heart be full of hate! 

      with hate you cant decide ! 

      with hate you cant find a way for not being stolen ! 

      your truth bless you! 

      My love will bless me too .

      My love (God) makes me smile 

      and your God !

  • It's got nothing to do with where you live in...
    This is the word of Islam... the word of God...
    Islam is not an outward religion like Buddhism in China...
    If a person really knows himself a Muslim so he/she must act to its teachings...
    If you are looking for an outward Islam, go to Saudi Arabia where is a good place for this purpose...

    • Who said God is just for Muslims ... 

      Who said that there is nothing to do with where you live ? 

      This is about humanity 

      and why a woman must be abandon cuz she has change her religion ... 

      This is about humanity .... 

      This is about the family that you have grow up ... 

      I love god of Buddha as mine , you are lost muhammad ...God is the same in all over the world ...

    • "I love god of Buddha as mine , you are lost muhammad ...God is the same in all over the world ..." Sima said.

      oh... your statements are shouting that you yourself are lost...

      what kind of god are you exactly talking about...?

      The Unique God...? The God who has sent Christ (pbuh)...? The God who has sent Mohammad (pbuh)...?

      God in unique but people's gods are not the same in all over the word...

      some Indians adore cows as their gods and you can see lots of these examples in all over the world...

      God is for all humans but do all people know God...? Do all people love him, know him as he wants, do what he says...?

      the real God is not our creature... we are his creature...

      No... I don't like your gods... cause they are fake... your God or gods are only for you because you have created your god as you like, as it must be... to defend your acts...

      but i haven't created my God ... he has created me... he says what should i like and what not... he says what I must do and what not... he says what i must say and what not...

      You want God just to be... no more...

      You do not want him to be a real God...

      cause the unique God says... If you are  MUSLIM your wife or husband must be a Muslim...

      It's so easy to understand...

      just a Muslim can train a Muslim a real Muslim...

      just a Christian can train a christian a real christian...

      just an Iranian can train an Iranian a real Iranian...

      just an American can train an American a real American...

      this is a natural law that anybody knows it...

      it's so simple Sima...

      there can be no love between two people whose loves and hates are not the same or at least are not close....

      Nobody can stand a person who hates their loves or loves their hates...

      so let me tell you a Tangible and Inaccessible example :

      imagine how can i be just a friend with a Zionist... I'm not even thinking about marriage... here i must emphasis that Zionists are not Jews and i am not anti-smite at all... 

      so i hate Israel... she loves it....

      I love Palestine.... she hates Palestinians...

      I do not like her culture... she too...

      and so on...

      so tell me how...?

      How such a friendship will last...?

    • You do not want him to be a real God...

      cause the unique God says... If you are  MUSLIM your wife or husband must be a Muslim...

      What a harsh God you have ! 

      Open your heart to other people 

      Just the one who is muslim is not right ... 

      the way of praising God is differ in all over the world 

      but all of them want the same ... 

      Look for Love not difference between you and other human

      the truth is other thing , and God is the only truth and god is the only love 

      You cant say that all people around the world praised fake thing in years without love :)

      نه مرادم نه مریدم

      نه پیامم نه کلامم

      نه سلامم نه علیکم

      نه سپیدم نه سیاهم

      نه چنانم که تو گویی

      نه چنینم که تو خوانی

      و نه آنگونه که گفتند و شنیدی

      نه سمانم نه زمینم

      نه به زنجیر کسی بسته ام و برده دینم

      نه سرابم

      نه برای دل تنهایی تو جام شرابم

      نه گرفتار و اسیرم

      نه حقیرم

      نه فرستاده پیرم

      نه به هر خانقه و مسجد و میخانه فقیرم

      نه جهنم نه بهشتم

      چنین است سرشتم

      این سخن را من از امروز نه گفتم نه نوشتم

      بلکه از صبح ازل با قلم نور نوشتم ...

      گر به این نقطه رسیدی

      به تو سربسته و در پرده بگویم

      تا کسی نشنود این راز گهربار جهان را

      آنچه گفتند و سرودند ... تو آنی !

      خود تو جان جهانی

      گر نهانی و عیانی

      تو همانی که همه عمر به دنبال خودت نعره زنانی

      تو ندانی که خود آن نقطه عشقی

      تو خود اسرار نهانی

      تو خود باغ بهشتی

      تو به خود آمده از فلسفه چون و چرایی

      به تو سوگند

      که این راز شنیدی و نترسیدی و بیدار شدی در همه افلاک بزرگی

      نه که جزنی

      نه که چون آب در اندام سبونی

      "تو خود اویی به خود آی"

      تا در خانه متروکه هر کس ننشینی

      و به جز روشنی شعشعه پرتو خود هیچ نبینی

      و گل وصل بچینی

      look at around carefully ! what make humanity safe is love ! love is god in different shape 

    • Hi Sima… here is my answer:

      Now i want to answer you line by line:

      ---------------------------------------------------

      You said: What a harsh God you have! 

      [Me]: God is not harsh... He is compassionate, He is Merciful... You're feeling in this way because he says what you are dying for it is not good for you… so you do not like him...

      ---------------------------------------------------

      You said: Open your heart to the other people

      [Me]: I love all the people…. even my opposites... but I hate Criminals who easily kill innocent people... I can't even think they’re humans.... My heart is totally open for loving others... but I won't easily open my heart for others' ideologies... I have a mind … and I must use it... I can't easily accept others' ideas... because I… am…. A human...

      ---------------------------------------------------

      You said: Just the one who is Muslim is not right... 

      [Me]: Yes... We are all Humans... Nobody is right but God... We don't say that we are right... we say God is right...

      ---------------------------------------------------

      You said: the way of praising God is differ in all over the world 

      [Me]: You said "God" ha...? So tell me what God...? Unique God or other gods...? The problem here is that they praise the god who is not really a god... it can be a cow or a human or a symbol or an Idol and so on... Are these things really God... No... They praise their own creature... not God...

      ---------------------------------------------------

      You said: but all of them want the same... 

      [Me]: Yes they want the same... they want someone to praise... because God has created humans with this property... But most of them have lost the way... that's why God has sent 24,000 prophets to guide humans to the right way...

      ---------------------------------------------------

      You said: Look for Love not difference between you and other human

      [Me]: I have no need to look for Love.... Humans real Love is God... But God is not just a love in different shapes.... No... I never ever look for differences... I am looking for commonalities... but you must know others' differences and try to respect their differences with you... That's why Racism has no place in Islam...

      ---------------------------------------------------------------

      You said: the truth is other thing, and God is the only truth and god is the only love 

      [Me]: Yes... God is the absolute truth... So if you love the truth then you must obey it... So if you really know God as the only love so nobody must marry and then all the humans will extinct... Actually earthly love is a means to God's Love...
      ----------------------------------------------------------

      You said: You can’t say that all people around the world praised fake thing in years without love :)

      [Me]: So what was the duty of 24,000 prophets....? I am talking about know... I am talking about the way of living that God told us to obey... because it will improve our life if we really obey God's teachings.... You cannot fool yourself with the word "LOVE"...

      Please Awake... ;D

      ------------------------------------------------------------

       

      So look around yourself.... who are more helping humans...

      Your fake love says: oh my god i love all the people... I love God.... I love you... but the reality is totally different....

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      Your sentence "what makes humanity safe is love..." is totally true but if it's a true love...

      But the following sentence "Love is god in different shapes..." is absolutely ridicules...

      Oh my god... I love you... ha just love... what is this...? If you really love somebody you must do something for them....

      More than 60yrs.... Palestinians are suffering... they are being killed by USA's Dog, Israel....

      So what have you done for them if you love them....?

      What the west has done for them...?

      Nothing actually...

      Your thoughts are totally impractical....

      WE REALLY LOVE ALL HUMANS... Cause we are doing our best for the oppressed people...

      You don't know God.... and from your last sentence i can say that you don't even believe in him...

      Bye-bye… Stay safe…

    • Line by Line :)

      You are harsh that is why your imagination about God is harsh ! 

      You say God is merciful ! but what you describe is like that! 

      I know God is all love ! 

      I am not dying for anything and You cant say what God 's judge is ...

      You are talking like you are the representative of God on the ground ! 

      WAKE UP ! your proud and prejudice has created a fake Allah for you! 

      The Allah that I know is the kindest ... he does not have any differ with God and khoda and Krishna ! 

      He is all Love and came to say one thing to all human being , just love each other ! 

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      Who does not hate killing people ! 

      You have killed others who call God with other name except Allah ! 

      You have killed hindu people who belive in krishna ! 

      You have killed Jesus ! you have killed .... the real killer is you with your though , you accept yourself and the others are in wrong way !

      Open your heart!

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      you say God is right but the God that you have created in your heart nt the God that is all love and lay in all ..

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      What the duty of all prophet ... 

      I think you need a new prophet too 

      cuz all Heathen always talked about you ! 

      No merci and no love to other human being :) 

      Your heart is full of doubt and hate , you see all human the same ..

      You see all of them like shadow of evil . you created a illution enemy for yourself ... all are against you! 

      Stop saying Israel America ! 

      I am talking about God noy USA !

      That is why I said open your heart ;D

  • I figured out why you have answered like that cuz you live in Qom

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