Love........

only 4 digits but it can hurt someone, it can make someone happy, it can make a strong man become very weak. It can make a man crying... If you have experience with this magic word, pls tell to us how to control so we can be happy...........

success for you all !

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hello every body . really i like this topic personally i have a story about love when i was 14 years ago . i was loving a girl who is very beautiful in my secondry school . i think she was the most beautifull girl but the problem is most of young men want to talk with her . and her brother come to fight with others about her . she was studied with me . we were staying in the tablein the classroom as brothers . gradually i fell in love of this beautiful classmate . imagine i spent 1 year with her and i couldn't disclose my secret . i was dreaming about her . each night i decide to talk with her tomorow about my love . eventually , i told her that i love her . unfortunatelly she answer more coldly that " iwant to study hardly this year because this relationships with boys made for me a lot of problems . iam so sorry." i became very anxious and humble .i told her ok no problem . i left this secondry just because i couldn't meet her again ." really the first week was so hard and plenty of pain . step by step i forgot her . then she send me a letter with a person said " i am sorry about what happened really, me too i love you and i want to be in love now with you . it is normale that the girl refuse this order at the begining so as to give herself a price . so iam sorry i need your love now ." but i refuse to meet her because it was the first time to request from a girl to be in love and she look down to me or sth like that .then i promised myself to don't make any relationship with a girl till the marriage . and that what i beleive now . and i felt good .
to sum up love affect the student to concentrate on their study . thanks every body .

i thanks allah because she didn't accept my request.

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hey) that's a very nice topic and we can discuss it forever... hundreds of oppinions and thousand of stories...
well, my personal oppinion is that we can't control love - no way... I used to have a view that if a boy has any relationship I have no rights to break them... and I supposed I was correct... but last winter I met a guy, and that time his relationship had been lasting for 6 months... we started dating secretly... and he decided to split up with that girl after a New Year in order not to demage her celebration and her mood... what a mistake it was... he couldn't split up with her three more months and for me it was a real hell... I didn't know what to do, whether I should have believed or hoped or not... I was in depression but I couldn't make myself not to love him... last January was the worst month in my life... when you are not sure about his feelings, and you know that he continue dating with her... and the most surprising was that she knew about his feelings to me... well... it's a hell... hope noone will have the same experience... and I couldn't do anything with my love... couldn't control or whatever... just believe... and that's all.
Hi nourddine and zhu-zhu,

even love is hurting but we can not avoid it. Everybody has different about first love, puppy love, second love, etc. And some people,maybe, still can controll it. so it is very possitive if you all can write here so everybody can read it and maybe useful for her/his life to face her/his love.
I also have one story about 1st love.
1st is maybe we often mention "puppy love" in my country we say "cinta monyet" (cinta is love and monyet is monkey). When I was 13 years old, there was one girl introduced me a love. Actually I didn't know what was love at that time. She sent me a letter. She said "I love you, you are very nice boy, i like you bla bla bla.... in the running 6 months I had been happy when I saw her smile, how the her talking, I could feel my heart moved faster than normal. Someday, I dated to her house. When I took a seat on the chair, I looked many letter on the bottom of chusion of seat. I read one by one fastly when she took me some food/drink to the kitchen. And What happen ? Like a thunder passed me. She also loved to another boy. CRAZY.... I broke my heart. Then...I still could control to discuss with her about this. And she cried. I said to her "Pls choose one me or him !", still in her crying she said that she could not do anything. She love me but she didn't want to leave her. Hard. I was angry and said "Bye bye...." hiiii hiiii hiiii....
When there is a will, there's a way....
so think positive and you'll be able to overcome any difficulties....

I go with all of you who say you can't control love... but you can make the most of it!!

the mind is also powerful..... what do you think??
we can't control to whom we fall in love, it just come suddenly without any planning like love at first sight, but we can control our self to not to do stupid things by that love.

there are some kind of love, our love to our parents is different with our love to our patrner, boy friend or girl friend.
we can not control our love to our parents because that kind of love already exists within us since we were born , it has been known as an Agape love, this is the most valuable love in this world, another example is when parents love to their children, God loves us.

another love is eros, this is when a man love a woman and vice versa, this love is beautiful, but ended easily if one of the partner cheat ot do something bad, etc.
but there is a possibility to make this love become an agape love when someone receive not only the good things from his or her partner but also the bag side.



Karo said:
When there is a will, there's a way....
so think positive and you'll be able to overcome any difficulties....

I go with all of you who say you can't control love... but you can make the most of it!!

the mind is also powerful..... what do you think??
so, fall in love with someone but keep your mind logically
that's only my opinion :)

Cisca said:
we can't control to whom we fall in love, it just come suddenly without any planning like love at first sight, but we can control our self to not to do stupid things by that love.

there are some kind of love, our love to our parents is different with our love to our patrner, boy friend or girl friend.
we can not control our love to our parents because that kind of love already exists within us since we were born , it has been known as an Agape love, this is the most valuable love in this world, another example is when parents love to their children, God loves us.

another love is eros, this is when a man love a woman and vice versa, this love is beautiful, but ended easily if one of the partner cheat ot do something bad, etc.
but there is a possibility to make this love become an agape love when someone receive not only the good things from his or her partner but also the bag side.



Karo said:
When there is a will, there's a way....
so think positive and you'll be able to overcome any difficulties....

I go with all of you who say you can't control love... but you can make the most of it!!

the mind is also powerful..... what do you think??
Hello Karo : I agree with you that the mind is the most important thing to control the love. Maybe many people aware this. But how about the heart. We feel so sad when the love doesn't come as wanted. It hurts...but we have to keep strong. If the love is broken then try to forget it. Fill your life with more positive activities and step by step go away from her/him until we can keep him/her as normal friend, off course it is not easy and step by step again to open our heart for new love. Just keep this sentece "actually we have to say "thanks" to her/him who broken our heart, why ? because from him/her, we know "the love" and it can be useful to control next love. I know SAYING is easier. "There is no sea without wave" so take care when you fall in love to someone. But don't scare to face it. Just pass it...

Hello Cisca : I like you said "love at first sight". Your explanation can be usefull for everybody who read this.
Be positive !
Be strong !
love stay forever in the world. love is feeling on the heart but it is needed to control by our mind.
don't avoid it
Just pass it
but controll with our mind
don't 100percent follow the heart. it will hurt more.
How about distance love.. like you never meet that person.. only contact through phone, email or etc...

Its is love or not.. or it this type/kind of love exist ?
Hello Fizzi,

Love can come from eyes, it can be 1st sight, 2nd sight, etc....
Love can happen because we often meet each other.
Love can come from ear. We also can love when we hear the voice of the person. When he/she is on the line then we feel happy. And we try to connect any time. it start loving.
But take care with distance love. Maybe when you meet her/she, as fisically, you don't like him/her. It can happen like that.
After loving each other, and then you live at different place. for example for job reason, etc. It's very dangerous. Because he/she can be interesting with someone. Why ? Maybe it's thirsty. A love needs touching. A love need something together. Take care that inside a love is "lust". It often happens a divorce because of this affair. So keep lover as close as possible with you. Trusting is not enough. But off course we have to trust to him/her if you are sure.

Do you all have more story or comment. Pls pass here ! Have a nice day all of you.
As for me ,I think that most people like topics like this "love........?,beacuse only these topics that people can be together about .These matters that belong to hearts make people used their mind or exert their best to think,to feel ,to want to exprience ;in toher words it is something more luring to attract people towards.The teenagers and even the others ages still spend long times to know really what love is or how there are other people lucky or successful in love but other not ;something vague to unhide or go deep inside yourself but in the end not thing is obtained.
i want to ask you sir Panggih Amiyoso
is it important to live with a relationship with a girl . or is it just one the of the enjoyable favorites?
my answer is : love between both sex especially while studying is a disaster for them . personally i live very happy even i don't have any small relationship with a girl . because i have an idea is : building my futur it means study hard and find job then the most beautifull girl will accept me . so here i think that human being can controle his love throughout following this strategy .

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