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Throughout our life, we always fear to lose the people we love.
Sometimes I wonder if there is anyone who is also afraid of losing me? Of course, there are our parents, our children on that list....but...Who you think are the people who care about your presence in their life yet? How can we understand that they do care?
I think we can hardly know it until we go far from them, maybe we need to die first.
However, I can guess it. It's my close friends, especially my university friends. They helped me crazily when I was in a big trouble.
Maybe even include my online friends.
It's not an easy question. :D I just think what if the question is otherwise.
Thank you so much for starting this discussion.
Hi Onee )))
Thank you so much for being the first to respond here )). I do agree with you that the question is not that easy, that is why I dared to post it here, cos as many people as many opinions. People come to our life...people leave it. And sometimes we do not even notice how someone is attached to us....we do not treat them the way they need or deserve ))). I wonder, what would happen if ppl say it directly: look...I am afraid to lose you/your friendship...
Have a good Sunday, dear Onee )))
Dear, I think we all will be missed by the people whom we do contact regularly if we go away! Tell me will not you miss me?! Hahaha....okay, yes, close ones always fear to lose, these close ones are our parents, spouses/lovers, kids, close friends, close relatives....my condition is much more worse..I even feel bad if I need to change my home staff who was not so bad! I like to remember a lot of people...I want them in my life and I do not want to lose them! In addition I miss my net friends too if they do not show up for rather long.....Stay fine always!
My dear and lovely Bet, you are absolutely right and I never want to lose such a great friend as you )))
Sure there are so many people who we think are worried about us, take care...Unfortunately, sometimes we do not notice those who cherish us, their love. We are indifferent to those who need us like air. I am thinking if there is anybody else apart from our parents and kids who would need us like air??
Maybe my pets...heh, they need me even more than any person )))
Thank you so much, Bet, for taking part in the discussion ))) Be always happy and here as one of the most important members of EC ))))
Uffff!!! What difficult questions, dear Olga!
We can talk about ourselves and describe our thoughts and feelings. But it is too hard too see everything with eyes of others.
"Who you think are the people who care about your presence in their life yet?"
I think it is people who are always beside you. Who will always stay with you in your good and bad situations. Look around and you will see them. They are always accompany you and value each day spent with you.
"How can we understand that they do care?"
You don't need to understand that, dear. You can feel their care always, in any their acts, in communication, even in sights and smiles.
Believe me, people who really care and really love you are afraid to lose you as you do.
Dear Svitlana, thank you so much for your opinion. I enjoyed reading your comment. So right you are, by actions, by sights and smiles we can find those hints to understand it. The question is if we knew exactly, without guessing, that those people are really afraid to loose connection with us, would we change our attitude towards them?
You know, dear Olga, as for me one good turn deserves another. That is If someone values your existence and is afraid to lose connection with you why shouldn't repay good with kindness?
I really like this saying:
Also, I would like to add If people really care of you they will never leave you alone no matter what.
My pleasure, dear Olga!
Maybe I'll truly know if they ever loose me.
Estanis, thank you for dropping in.. ))) Who are they? I mean, not your family (this must go without questions), are there anyone who you think would care about your, let's say, friendship? Your presence in their life?
Some people say they have soul mates..what do you think of it? Do you have any?
Perhaps any old forbidden love or impossible relationship :D