Just last thought by myself…There are 3 good things and reasons when it worth to marry with man:

  • He has not bad habits
  • he is ready to work hard to provide you with everything you need
  • he wants kids from you!

So…if a man has at least these 3 conditions, you can safely marry him )))

This is only my personal opinion. And what is main for you to marry him?

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Hi, Bunny, )))

In my humble opinion there shouldn't be any conditions )). You just know it. Either this man is yours, and you want to spend the rest of your life with him and have kids with him, or not. If he feels the same..you are a great couple. You both just feel it.

Good weekend for you )))

thank you for your comment))) sometimes feelings fail... i know a lot of examples with big love and failure life...unfortunately 

Out of my life experience . We can't take any man on the face of earth for granted . Nothing can grantee the continuity of the marriage even kids can't help stopping the family from falling apart , when things go wrong .
I don't want to be a pessimistic but this is what life is all about . We must be ready for the worst sometimes . Love isn't enough to feel safe with someone no matter how emotions are strong they fade away sooner or later leaving us under life pressures . We need to be patient and live together as friends more than being a wife and a husband .Nonetheless , we have stand strong as women and fight for our kids they are our real treasures . If I put all my passions toward a man he might disappoint me for a reason or another . I like to depend on myself and fight for things even the strongest relationships has its down moments . Some marriages ends because everything is okay , while other stay insipte of its toxicness .

yes, thanks Rosemary. I agree with you. I also suggest  that  we should give the best part of ourselves to our partners no matter what the end will be. Of course, we should hope for happy ending, but nobody grantees

It seems reasonable things although not too much demanding :)

really! thanks

I agree with the first 2 points.
I wouldn't marry someone who can possibly make me unhappy because of a bad habbit like gambling, drinking, being violent, or the like.
I wouldn't marry someone who's going to depend on me. I do work, but then that means that the both of us must work and share the house chores. 
But I don't want kids so if my couple wants to have kids, I'm out.


ok! thank you for response

I wanna go with number 1 and for the second I would like to say both should be ready to work hard to make a good fortune for themselves and for their future including offspring. Actually, real situation can say how it is! But, yes, we must need to take some measures before taking a very important decision like marriage. We must try to know if he/she has any bad habits....and, I must want to add one point from me and it is....try to know whether he falls for opposite gender so frequently.....lol

yes, sure. Very nice one else point from you. Thanks! but of course he won't say often.)

sounds simple :D

Putting conditions in any relationship, you may make it 'mechanical'.  But I agree with condition 1.  Who likes a person with bad habits? But it fall on both man and woman.

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