Dear all my EC friends...
I want to feel you out about "Wedding Party".
You can see that people who hold a Wedding Party would spend a lot of money. Even sometimes they owe money to friends or even to the bank. The amounts of that money can be equal with money to buy car or a plain house. To see that they are a new couple, some of them have neither car nor house. Not to mention their daily need. Consider the money, what a about the poor and orphanage?
Have you heard there is a millionaire couple cancelled the big wedding party and change their plan to visit and share their wedding party cost to some orphanage?? They did.
Some people say it's once in life. So, to remind that moment, they should hold it at any cost. Else, just for tradition. (In Islam, I know at least we should let our neighbors and friends know about the marriage. Here, I talk about big wedding party which spend a lot of money)
My question is...
1. What is the essential of holding a wedding party?
2. Is it really worth to hold a wedding party? why?
Comments from married or unmarried people are very welcome..
I will be pleased to hear all your various opinions here..
Thank you very much, my friends.. :))