I mean, if you forgive those who were mean to you or betrayed you, don't you encourage further wicked acts from them? It's as if you let them go on hurting not only you, but other people as well. I may be wrong. We are all subjective, you know...

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  • Sometimes, people betray out of ignorance, they are forgivable, but if a person betrays out of malice, she/he cannot be forgiven.

  • It's possible to forgive who betrayed you. If don't mind you can ask him why did he betray you?
  • Hello guys, I think we should always relate betrayal to trust, because u can forgive the one who betrayed you easily to get your inner peace but would you ever trust him again? This is the real question. Moreover, we suppose you forgive him and you intend to trust him again, does he/she worth to be trusted. In my opinion trust is like a cup of glass . If it has been broken it will never be gathered and fixed again. Thanks a lot for your interesting subject
  • Hello guys, I think we should always relate betrayal to trust, because u can forgive the one who betrayed you easily to get your inner peace but would you ever trust him again? This is the real question. Moreover, we suppose you forgive him and you intend to trust him again, does he/she worth to be trusted. In my opinion trust is like a cup of glass . If it has been broken it will never be gathered and fixed again. Thanks a lot for your interesting subject

  • I always forgive for all people because I can not sleep if there is a problem with anyone, but then be careful with anyone who is not trustworthy. There is a saying "You can fool some people some of the time, but you can not fool all the people for all time." The traitor It must be exposed in front of the people from his acts. Thanks for sharing.

  • when someone betrayed me, i can forgive him/her but i can't trust that person anymore as its not different from cheating.....and that's the thing i really hate the most. If that person betrayed to you once, it's possible that he/she will do it again.

  • yes its possible... And yes it will takes time..just learn how to manage your emotion.. People around me name me am Naive, stupid,easy to fool but actualy am not!if they did towards me its ok, i always considering that they do it towards them not me.

    concrete example i gave m0ney to my cousin for her parents but to my surprised after 2 months,her parents did n0t recieved that m0ney.i just laughed and say will your still my cousin..
    • Julian, thank you for your reply. Your saying that you consider "that they do it towards them not me" is very helpful))
  • Hi Olga, this question is unclear. Any kind of betrayal which you mean? Is it the dishonesty? Or betrayal of a  husband to his wife? Or betrayal of a wife to her husband? Or what?

    • Hi Samuel, thank you for your interest. In fact, I thought about any kind of betrayal. It may be betrayal of friends, of a wife or a husband, a collegue, etc. The key thing is one feels betrayed and tries to cope with the feeling
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