Here I am again and I bring a very interesting topic for you all. So, I've got a question to make: How can you forgive an infidelity?
Is it possible to forgive someone who has cheated on you? What if you really love that person and yet he/she still keeps cheating on you? What if you let him/her go, get over it and start a new life? Do you consider that a relationship will be the same after being cheated?
Yes, it is not an easy task and heal the pain is a very slow process.
That's why I'd like to read your opinions.
Oriana.
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I am a very jealous person, too =)
Anyway this is the meaning of the "cheat" verb : To act dishonestly; practice fraud. Being unfaithful...
"Let it go.." Good point. Maybe THAT would heal the bruisers...
Through Revenge we hurt our self more .
For sure =(
Hello, wow what a topic. Ok, first of all no pity for cheater. And now we can talk about :) I read many posts and I need to say something it might be that we did something wrong, that the relation wasn't "woeking" well from a while but this doesn't give our partner the right to cheat on us! If our partner look for something new it only means they ain't interesting enough in us. Adventure/long lasting relation? Ok I can pardon an adventure until i don't have the slightest idea of its existence, I once thought the absolute truth included the confession of a cheat I now understand the confession of a so call adventure a one night stand isn't but a way for the cheater to feel better, wth their confession all the burden pass from their shoulder to our soul so no confession suffer silently for your own mistake :P Endly I can forgive but not forget and in a relationship my memory of the cheat will make of it something less than before. So no pardon for cheater, REVENGE!:D
Revenege: You have brought into a very interesting word. Is it really worthy? I don't know. Sometimes I have wanted to revenge but then I think that it is worthless. But yes, I agree when you say " I may forgive but not forget". Same here.
Thanks for sharing =)
It does hurt as Nafis says one should first see if the mistake is ours. If it is not the person is not worth caring about
A relationship cannot be taken for granted. It is like a sapling you do not let it wither but rather grow with love , trust and care.
My heart would be broken... like now =(
Be happy that you have been saved by it and you will surely get a partner who is worthy of you
Thank you so much for your support. I really hope my heart to stop being broken ...