Can couples solve divorce without leading to misery guilt and heart ache , should the reason be trivial ...
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Life is an experience Fuzzy. One will survive and who knows be happier out of it and thank you Fuzzy
Some years ago here in Brazil divorce was a very delicate subject, some women endure a life of unhappiness, they were cheated on (betrayed) and until hurt by their husbands, and rarely got a divorce, because in that time women that got a divorce were seen in a bad way, It was always women fault. Some women aren’t use to work because of their husbands, they didn’t allowed that. So, the women didn’t have financial independence to live by their selves.
Nowadays, the things change a lot; most marriages are lasting just a few years, and the divorce rate increase, and in most cases the couple doesn’t get marry. But I think I understand what is happening. Some couples just know each other for a little time and decided to move together, and it’s pretty tough live with another person. The people have to respect the individuality and give some space in the marriage. And most men are sexist, so the women have to work outside and inside her home (sometimes they work at home alone), and still pay attention to their husbands. Sometimes they are still in college, so in this case is worse, because the women have to do a lot of things at the same time.
In my opinion the couple has to communicate, if the things won’t change and the couple (or just one person) is not happy with the current situation, I think a friendly divorce is the better solution. We don’t have to live unhappy for the rest of our lives.
P.S.: In my country there are a lot of differences according to the region. I’m talking about the southeast.
Feel free to correct any part of the text!! I would appreciate that!!
Marital life si an union Estanis . One should work hard in keeping it alive at any cost
Should there be tension no understanding abuse and factors which cannot bind the two , divorce is the best solution for peace of mind both for the individuals and the children concerned.
Thank your Estanis for your valuable feed back .....
IT takes communication good will love and much hard work on both sides . It is sad Fuzzy when a partner does not realize that, as no one is perfect and life is short ....
Thank you for sharing your pain, and may some thing better happen in your life to ease it ...
Divorce should lead some misery guilt and heart ache...because God said:"
Absolutely divorce is not the first option but the very last in case s where it is impossible ....... We are all imperfect in some ways or other ....A spouse balances it with understanding and love , when that is lost I guess ti does not make it better leading a single life
Abolutely Lolo yaya
We should choose correctly our partners
Yes when there is a circumstances of hostility in a marriage, which cannot be mended , I think it is best to divorce.
Thank you Lolo yaya for expressing your thoughts
@M Adaway
Absolutely , partners should have patience and understanding to one another and not make hasty decision which would destroy their happiness!
I will be hurt if My hubby says "good bye" to me. Hope It's never happen.
And one more...hihihi...I'm Catholic so I can not be divorce
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