You married the wrong guy...Now what?

According to research, many women marry the wrong man.

This is under the impression that 'he will change', 'he is rich' and 'I love him'. As time goes by, things did not change, he was not rich and she did not love him.

With children involved, it is always hard for them to walk away from the marriage.  The sad part is that they have been dragged down by the emotional burden, trapping them in a situation that makes them dysfunctional.

To walk away is sometimes not an option because they want to provide a happy home and complete family to the children. This results to sacrificing their own happiness and personal welfare.

Undeniably, this is a fact that many women face. Yet, they are afraid to fail in front of their children and to hurt them. 

You married the wrong guy....and indeed, now what?

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  • Accept  the   person   as  he/she  is   when the    the  bubble  simmers  off.....  

    You  would  not like to  be molded   into another  person like  wise   same   with your partner  .....

    adhere  to  the  golden  rules  ...respect  / communicate  /  smile     be  cheerful     and  eradicate   ego ...and  of  course  do  not  go  blind   into  a relationship ......No one is perfect it is up to  the individual/s  to make  life  worth  living  ......  

    Tension  around  kids  is  worse  if you could  fall in love  the first place  surely  you  could  take t time   and  keep the   fires  burning  ....  The  next person  may  be worse  ;) and life  will be a merry go around   changing partners  and not  really  finding  ones  soul mate ..

  • Bethania:

    Right. There is always someone up there who can help make things better...

  • But for me, there is no other choice. I'll stay. I believe prayer can change the situation and make me stronger.

  • Alice E:

    Hi, Alice..Nice to see your comment here...

    Till death do us part...I agree....there is always time to reflect and see what could be wrong somewhere....then we also look inside us...it takes two to tango, anyway...

  • Petrichor: As they say: even the happiest couple have been into a lot of adjustments before reaching blissfulness.

    So yes, I agree that we need to adjust and accept....

    Thanks, too for sharing.

  • Bethany: Sometimes it the best way...but it could also be counter-productive...

    What do you think?

  • Evangeline:

    Divorce seems to be the easiest way out- but the process of divorcing your spouse is not a joke ;)) well, if it is for the benefit of everyone including the kids, it is worth the tedious process. After all, we all want to be peaceful thus happy in the end.

    However, your comment also made me think---yes, some people create their own monsters. What seems to be a mole looks like a hill to them. And as they say, expectations cause pain. 

  • June: Yes, I agree...It is one way to face this circumstance.

    That may also be the answer to Fatimah. Because there is always a solution, but some people don't find exhaustive measures to solve the problem.

  • Hi Michelle good to see your blogs again!  Marriage is a serious commitment and many times we fail because of our expectations but it helps to remember the vows we took to remind us of our pledge to each other " I take thee...till death do us part"

  • No choice,  if I were her, I will stay as we have promised in front of the wedding altar.

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